A Shoulder to Lean On in Hamlyn Terrace | Counsellor

A Shoulder to Lean On

Locality: Hamlyn Terrace

Phone: +61 448 899 704

Address: Central Coast 2259 Hamlyn Terrace, NSW, Australia

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25.01.2022 A Shoulder to Lean On - Where you will get great advice, or have someone listen to some troubles you may be facing! Like our Page for more updates, quotes, & friendly advice!

23.01.2022 Just to let everyone know, I will be be joining Sos<18 each Thursday. I have available appointments THIS Thursday 17th. Send me a PM or Ph: 43511900 to make an appointment, Wayne.

23.01.2022 Direct contact with a professional Counsellor via email overcomes the problem of waiting days or even weeks for an appointment and guarantees your privacy because the consultation involves only you and the Counsellor. You do not have to attend counselling rooms or make appointments with reception staff and you can seek counselling support as often or as little as you like.

22.01.2022 Every joy, every happiness, every issue and every problem that we experience in life revolves around our relationships. Our relationships are our life. Try living your life without relationship. Even if you are totally alone, (and I hope you're not), but even if you were, your relationship with yourself, how you think about yourself, will not only determine your outlook on life but also your behaviour. So relationships are vitally important and are the key to life. Good, heal...thy relationships bring joy and happiness. Poor, unhealthy relationships bring sadness, a range of negative emotions and if not treated, can sometimes lead to depression. After many years of counselling, I have discovered an amazing principle that if used as the basis for all relationships, will provide an infallible foundation upon which healthy, wholesome and joyous relationships can be built. This principle is the principle of Grace and Truth. Either one, without the other is damaging and destructive. Put them both together and they will transform any relationship. I have seen the results of Grace and Truth together and as one client said to me, "I am totally amazed at how this principle has changed my marriage and my life". It would take too long for me to talk to you about this principle on this page. Not that it is complicated, but I would need to explain to you how the principle is applied so that you understand how you can use it in your own relationships and in your life generally. If you want to know more about this, contact me through this page or you can message me. My best wishes for your good mental health and improved relationships. Wayne See more

21.01.2022 If you are struggling with a serious issue, I can offer a practical and immediate solution to overcome your problem. You can email me direct: [email protected] with your problem and I will reply directly to you with 24 hours. The cost is $30.00 per consultation and direct deposit can be made to BSB 012 877, Account no: 3754 46033. Be sure to include your name as a reference. There is no problem too big or too small that cannot be overcome with the correct professional a...dvice and guidance. Good mental health. Wayne See more

18.01.2022 Emptiness is one of the most painful emotions that a person can experience. When we are disconnected from others we can't feel our own need to be loved by others and we can't feel when others love us. So unless we feel the need for love and then respond to this need we will still feel empty. It is only when we respond to the love of others that the love in us begins to grow. Only when we bond with others will the emptiness in us begin to fill. If you are struggling with a feeling of isolation and emptiness in your life and you feel that nothing can help your situation, why don't you book in for a chat. Remember, if you do nothing, then things will stay the same. There is no joy in an empty life.

17.01.2022 How much more important in this day of Covid 19 is human touch? We are told to separate from each other, even our loved ones. This is exactly what Satan wants. He wants to separate and divide families. We see not only a sustained attack on our families but also our well-being. Jobs have been lost, businesses closed, some never to return and many people's hope for the future has been severely damaged. One of the ways to break down relationships is to separate from each other. ...Continue reading

15.01.2022 The journey to good health and healing begins with the first step. Are you willing to take that step?

14.01.2022 One of the main issues that my clients have presented with in recent times is their struggle with disconnection which is a lack of emotional attachment to the important people in their lives. They are disconnected from their families, from their friends and even from themselves. Most of the time they don't understand or even realise that this disconnection is having such a negative impact on their lives. Persons of any age, from the very young to mature adults can suffer disc...onnection. Disconnection occurs when our relationships with significant people in our lives have been damaged and we no long have an emotional attachment to those who were close to us. The main symptoms of disconnection are isolation, withdrawal, sadness, anger, loneliness, addiction (to food for example) and in extreme cases to depression. These are not the only symptoms but any prolonged experience of the symptoms I've mentioned should be investigated. The good news is that the pain of disconnection can be healed. When we understand ourselves a little better, we are able to understand the world around us a little better and we can make changes that lead to healing. I can give you a shoulder to lean on and ways to make positive changes that will bring joy into your life. There is no "quick fix" cure and you need to want to change your thinking and the way you function in this world. Everything is a choice (although I realise that sometimes it doesn't feel like it) and it's up to you to decide whether it's a choice you want to make. If you keep doing the same things you will get the same results. That's just a fact! Whatever you choose to do, remember that you are an incredibly valuable person and I care what happens to you. Warm wishes Wayne See more

11.01.2022 I did a little bit of work at a youth camp today and I had the opportunity to meet a young chap who has been married for about 8 years and whose wife is about to walk out of the marriage. It made me wonder what had happened over those 8 years that had brought his wife to this point. I have never met this man before and I have never seen his wife but I already know a great deal about both of them. I know they are both worried about the future. They are both angry. They have ar...eas of guilt and shame in their lives and they are both selfish. Their needs are not being met and they see little hope for the future. The stress of trying to maintain their relationship is becoming too difficult, particularly for the wife who is at the point where she feels it is just not worth it and she just can't do it anymore.These are just some of the things I know. There is much more I could tell you about them both and I've only met the husband for about 5 minutes. So how do I know so much about them? Because these are exactly the same issues (among others), that all people and all relationships struggle with and will continue to struggle with until we get a true perspective on the healthy way to handle these issues and circumstances. There are ways that we can overcome all of life's problems if we apply the principles that God has provided for every situation and circumstance. If we apply these principles then I absolutely guarantee (not me but God), that every circumstance can be overcome and every relationship not only healed but restored so that it is so much better than it has ever been. Time and space prevents me from going into all the details but no relationship is exempt from healing. Healing requires change. If you keep planting pumpkins then you know what you are going to get. Keep doing the same things and you will get the same results. There is a blueprint for life and if you follow it, your life will be better. Your relationships will be better and you will experience joy, (which is not the same as happiness), that can be with you in every circumstance. Happiness is fleeting. You can be happy in the morning and unhappy in the afternoon but joy is something that you can experience no matter what your circumstances. However, that's a whole other topic. If you would like some guidance based on the truth of the One who made you and knows everything about you, I would be happy to talk with you. God bless Wayne See more

05.01.2022 Hi Everyone, I just watched a medical program on TV, which documented an eldery man going into hospital for radiation treatment on his lung cancer. As he was walking to the main hospital entrance, he said that the thing he wanted more than anything else was to get a hug from someone who loved him. He could have said that he wanted the treatment to go well or that he hoped the treatment would remove his tumor, but what was most important to him was to have the touch of another... human being. This reminded me just how much appropriate human touch means to so many people. In a world where we are becoming more and more distant from each other and becoming more isolated, even from family members, putting our arms around someone we love can bring a sense of value and well-being to that loved one that they cannot experience any other way. Don't underestimate the value and power of the human touch. One day you may receive that same touch just when you need it most. All the best for your good health. Wayne DipCHC. See more

04.01.2022 We all remember this image that surfaced in 2009, of the Amazing man who gave a bottle of water to a scared dehydrated Koala after the Victorian Bushfires. This man is being that shoulder for this beautiful creature to Lean on. Please remember, to put out water bowls for stray or wild animals in this heat that is expected over the next few days! Going through such a traumatic experience can make anyone feel scared and alone, we are here for you, to be your Shoulder to lean On!