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Belinda Wearne
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25.01.2022 The Marina Perry Podcast, Episode 21 An invitation to listen in as Marina and I talk Yonis, Self Pleasure, Intimacy and the Shadow. ... https://podcasts.apple.com//21-your-yoni-you/id1467282612
23.01.2022 More than ever we need to be able to trust each other. It's the exact same distancing that we create to 'avoid' intimacy that has us believe it’s safer not to trust. There's fear of what will happen if we trust people, what vulnerability we are opening ourselves up to if we were to just believe in others. If we need to rely on anyone for anything. ... And so we see some people working from a singularity, or 'me' perspective in hoarding etc. But now's the time that relationships and community are most important to cultivate. What’s more vulnerable, and thus potentially connecting, than the sense of our own collective mortality? What do we have that connects us all more potently than that!? We cannot do it alone, this future. Today at 1pm I’ll be going live in my Facebook group for women discussing what is happening from a shadow perspective, and how knowing this can support us through this transition time. Knowing exactly what you are transitioning through as the collective transitions is not only comforting, but gives you much greater strength in loving through it with eyes and heart open. Join the fb group here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/womengoingdeep/
19.01.2022 The relationship doesn’t cause you to lose yourself or your identity. The relationship shows you where you are willing to give it up. But what even IS identity? ... And why are you so attached to it? Consider; how many times have you already shifted and changed your identity over your lifetime and NOT felt like you’ve lost yourself? But instead you have felt like you’ve grown and evolved? Losing yourself in a relationship is not so much about an identity thing. Or things you no longer do or don’t do. It’s actually not even possible to lose your self by changing an identity. What you’re experiencing is a feeling of being disconnected from love and your own sense of loveability, and a disembodiment or disassociation from the core of who you are. It’s a belief that someone else can somehow take your freedom of expression, because you have been taught in your life that you have to be a certain way, in order to be loved. We have ALL grown up with some level of this disconnection from our authenticity. Perhaps you were taught that you were only loveable if you were smart, or you were more loved if you were funny, or if you did sport or participated in the family tradition or upheld their values. And so in relationships, you unknowingly carry this from your past, and believe that another gets to choose if you are, or are not loveable. And you have played that out in many ways over a lifetime. Over, and over. And you have attracted people who would help you play it out again until you would see it, and learn the lesson it’s presenting to you. I do the work of supporting women with repairing this within themselves every day. This reconnecting with the truth of who you are, beyond the identities. Re-establishing your loveabilty at the unshakable core. Recalibrating your system to feel the safety of being who you are, inside your body. It’s beyond strategy and relationship advice. It’s the truth of who you are, who then gets to guide you from KNOWING yourself. I am currently offering mentorship in this deep self knowing. It is for women only. (Men, I will have another mentorship on offer for you soon, so let me know if you're interested). And only if you are over 35 (unless you have already done my Foundations of Intimacy training) If you are experiencing what feels like a crisis of identity, or a mistrust in your ability to remain true to who you are or concern to not fall into the same trap of ‘losing’ yourself as you go into another relationship, reach out for more information.
16.01.2022 Fear is the path to self knowledge, just as much as desire. You have to follow the energy that is present for you, not deny it. If fear is coming up for you, it's an opportunity, not something to ignore or shame. Use it wisely. xx
04.01.2022 When I woke up this morning there was a very different energy. And it suddenly felt like, this is all just going to be over in a second. And then I realised that a bunch of people might actually be a bit disappointed by that. ... We cute Humans We kind of thrive on the drama of the chaos. I remember my Design Futures lecturer many years ago telling me that there’s a much higher rate of depression during times of peace. When we are at war, we have a sense of purpose, of meaning. We can contribute something and we develop a comrade based connection with others, fighting the common cause. Deep down, we don’t really want the harmony. We don’t know what to do with ourselves when there’s harmony. We don’t know how to bring meaning to our lives without the trauma and drama and fear/anger/hate/oppression energy fanning the wind in our sails. Without our ego-feeding beliefs that we’re going to save the world, change the world. It’s not because we’re bad or that we think we want wartimes or dramas. We just don’t really know how to do real peace. We don’t know how to be still and inside of love and still feel the rush of being alive. We want more of the feeling of aliveness in our veins, the huge high of energy and dopamine hits, but the only way we know how to get it is with this type of energy. What would happen if everything was calm? What if there was nothing to fix? No need to be bigger or faster or better or What if it was all perfect? Would we be bored? No! We won’t all just be sitting staring at a wall and meditating. We won’t stop feeling. We won’t wither and have nothing to do. There’s a whole world of magic to be created on the other side that is built of clean, pure energy of loving expression and creativity. Spawned of the spaciousness and openness, and coming from internal beauty, and richness rather than discord. It’s the internal conflict that we need to settle. Our battle is within. When we face the virus inside of our own selves, look at the fear of death and separation, and who we might be outside of identity. Then we’ll be ready to survive peace and harmony. When we have settled the rage within us. When we have soothed the inner child. Wiped the tears of our inner well of sadness. When we have learned to talk to ourselves with love. Created the inner safety and the calm. Unified the masculine and feminine. Integrated our parts into wholeness. When we have connected with our place of inner power. From this place, we actually get to experience MORE life. MORE love.
03.01.2022 I do love how many people are starting to read the world and share their expanded visions. To begin to understand the basics of the collective shadows and to interpret the deeper meanings of what might be happening on an evolutionary scale. It's a powerful shift in consciousness to move into this grander observational space. When we all begin to see more of the whole, rather than just the individual experience. Also good practise is always to witness yourself within your pre...dictions and conclusions. While they may be insightful and useful or resonant for others, they may not constitute universal truth. You can assume for the most part that you are projecting your own personal truth which may be marred with your own unresolved and unintegrated perception. Hold lightly to your judgements and belief systems as we go through this. When there is mass opportunity for cohesion, anything that further generates a divide, needs your attention. It's shadow territory. When you learn to understand how shadows operate, and resolve and integrate your own, you become a vastly more clear space for interpreting life as it is, rather than through muddied lenses and distorted perceptions. Whileever you carry the shadows and trauma forward on your journey, you are susceptible to the influences of the external, whether that be a trigger with a loved one, an encounter at the supermarket or on the road or whether it be a world wide pandemic. If you'd like to learn more about how shadows operate, how they are influencing your way of being and keeping you distant from knowing your own truth, sign up to receive my free three part introduction to shadows. Just PM me with your email address and I'll add you in there and you can get started straight away.
