Bianca Jane | Public figure
Bianca Jane
Phone: +61 402 377 529
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25.01.2022 BREAK FREE FROM THE PEOPLE PLEASING ADDICTION! For so many years of my life I lived each day with the desire to please others. It felt so good being liked for making others happy. I remember so clearly going clothes shopping one day with friends and I had absolutely NO idea what I liked.... ...I’d been too focussed on what others were wearing, what the trend was and what others looked good in...to even consider what it was that I liked! I had no sense of self! I didn’t trust my own judgement. You could say that I had completely lost myself to people pleasing. I was even told one day You’re the nicest person I’ve ever met and I received this with so much joy! Why? Because it felt so good when others approved, loved or liked me. And of course it does right?! It’s our human nature to crave connection, to feel liked and loved. It’s our safety net. What feels unsafe is to feel disliked or unloved. To feel less than. But the problem for me was that I had lost myself. People pleasing was a habit and it was at the expense of my own dreams, that I hadn’t even shone a light on. I was a sheep just wanting to follow suit rather than stand out and be the leader... that we all have within us. So it took many years to break my addiction to people pleasing. It took many experiences of heart ache to realise that I wasn’t deeply fulfilled. The inner voice of inspiration got stronger and stronger until I started to listen to my own voice, my own desires and follow the nudges being given to me. And that is when my life began I invite you to notice where in your life you try to please others in order to feel ‘safe’, liked and loved. Is it at the expense of your own dreams and desires? Does this impact your true happiness? How much energy does this use, to constantly give and give? It is by awakening to what it is you want, like, and desire, that is the catalyst to break free from people pleasing. It is when you create that which fulfills you, that you begin to live your own life. It is when you live your own life, birthing your own desires, living authentically from your heart, that you can truly live with joy Lots of love to you and happy Friday. B xx
24.01.2022 BREAK FREE FROM THE PEOPLE PLEASING ADDICTION! For so many years of my life I lived each day with the desire to please others. It felt so good being liked for making others happy. I remember so clearly going clothes shopping one day with friends and I had absolutely NO idea what I liked.... ...I’d been too focussed on what others were wearing, what the trend was and what others looked good in...to even consider what it was that I liked! I had no sense of self! I didn’t trust my own judgement. You could say that I had completely lost myself to people pleasing. I was even told one day You’re the nicest person I’ve ever met and I received this with so much joy! Why? Because it felt so good when others approved, loved or liked me. And of course it does right?! It’s our human nature to crave connection, to feel liked and loved. It’s our safety net. What feels unsafe is to feel disliked or unloved. To feel less than. But the problem for me was that I had lost myself. People pleasing was a habit and it was at the expense of my own dreams, that I hadn’t even shone a light on. I was a sheep just wanting to follow suit rather than stand out and be the leader... that we all have within us. So it took many years to break my addiction to people pleasing. It took many experiences of heart ache to realise that I wasn’t deeply fulfilled. The inner voice of inspiration got stronger and stronger until I started to listen to my own voice, my own desires and follow the nudges being given to me. And that is when my life began I invite you to notice where in your life you try to please others in order to feel ‘safe’, liked and loved. Is it at the expense of your own dreams and desires? Does this impact your true happiness? How much energy does this use, to constantly give and give? It is by awakening to what it is you want, like, and desire, that is the catalyst to break free from people pleasing. It is when you create that which fulfills you, that you begin to live your own life. It is when you live your own life, birthing your own desires, living authentically from your heart, that you can truly live with joy Lots of love to you and happy Friday. B xx
23.01.2022 Where in your life do you feel pain? ...In your body? Your ? Your head? An ache? Feeling uncomfortable? Feeling unloved, stressed, tired or unfulfilled?... Our pain has a purpose and a consciousness. It is through surrendering to the journey that we may find peace Pain is real! It’s our biggest teacher! It’s easy to dull the pain with a pill or ignore it as best we can. Perhaps even blame something outside of ourself for its existence. But what if you actually connected with the pain? What if you communicated with it, seeing it as a energy that has a consciousness of its own? ...Tuning into it and asking what it’s there for? What is it there to teach you? How may it actually be helping you along your path? What is it helping you learn or change? We quickly view pain as something we wish not to have, something we need to fix or get rid of. ...but to truly heal, we must embrace it, love it, thank it (yes sounds crazy but gratitude transmutes energy and raises our vibration) and BE WITH IT. Pain is our biggest teacher but only when we listen to it, accept the journey of its existence and take peace in the unfolding. B xx
22.01.2022 We are fully booked however there is a waitlist which is growing quickly. If you’re wanting to experience a greater love for yourself, ditch the self sabotage and embrace more joy, PM me ASAP and I’ll contact you as soon as a place is available for you Lots of love,... B
19.01.2022 Where in your life do you feel pain? ...In your body? Your ? Your head? An ache? Feeling uncomfortable? Feeling unloved, stressed, tired or unfulfilled?... Our pain has a purpose and a consciousness. It is through surrendering to the journey that we may find peace Pain is real! It’s our biggest teacher! It’s easy to dull the pain with a pill or ignore it as best we can. Perhaps even blame something outside of ourself for its existence. But what if you actually connected with the pain? What if you communicated with it, seeing it as a energy that has a consciousness of its own? ...Tuning into it and asking what it’s there for? What is it there to teach you? How may it actually be helping you along your path? What is it helping you learn or change? We quickly view pain as something we wish not to have, something we need to fix or get rid of. ...but to truly heal, we must embrace it, love it, thank it (yes sounds crazy but gratitude transmutes energy and raises our vibration) and BE WITH IT. Pain is our biggest teacher but only when we listen to it, accept the journey of its existence and take peace in the unfolding. B xx
07.01.2022 We are fully booked however there is a waitlist which is growing quickly. If you’re wanting to experience a greater love for yourself, ditch the self sabotage and embrace more joy, PM me ASAP and I’ll contact you as soon as a place is available for you Lots of love,... B
