Bodekers Family Lawyers & Mediators in Perth, Western Australia | Divorce & Family Lawyer

Bodekers Family Lawyers & Mediators

Locality: Perth, Western Australia

Phone: +61 8 9323 7711

Address: The Forrest Centre Level 29/221 St Georges Terrace 6000 Perth, WA, Australia

Website: http://www.bodekers.com.au/

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25.01.2022 FIFO and DIDO families, this is a tribute to you. As new regulations are enforced, borders are closed and rosters extended FIFO and DIDO families are being off...ered the opportunity to uproot and move interstate or face the absence of one parent for months at a time. This is a little ironic seeing many choose the FIFO or DIDO lifestyle to avoid uprooting their family. In choosing this lifestyle FIFO and DIDO families become accustomed to - managing the logistical and emotional pressures of a parent leaving and the mixture of joy and upheaval that ensues when they return - attending events, managing life, emergencies and sick kids alone or from afar and - bringing together what at times can seem like two separate lives to create a family. FIFO and DIDO families are strong, resilient and adaptable but with Covid-19 looming these families are navigating a few extra emotional and logistical challenges. How will one parent cope in isolation with children for extended periods? How will the other cope being away from their family for so long and manage the familys risk of exposure to Covid-19? Below is a list of FIFO and DIDO virtual communities to share with your network or tap into for support. These communities are a reminder that you are being heard, you are not alone and you are part of something special, online and at home. x Photo by JoEllen Moths

24.01.2022 Earlier this week I had a conversation with psychologist, Nigel Latta, on tips and tricks to look after yourself while were all staying home to save lives. I hope you find it useful, no matter what your bubble or your circumstances.

22.01.2022 If they cancel the rest of the school year, students would miss approx 6 months of education. Many people are concerned about students falling behind because of... this. Yes, they may fall behind when it comes to classroom education... BUT WHAT IF .... What if instead of falling behind", this group of kids are ADVANCED because of this? Hear me out. What if they have more empathy, they enjoy family connection, they can be more creative and entertain themselves, they love to read, they love to express themselves in writing. What if they enjoy the simple things, like their own backyard and sitting near a window in the quiet. What if they notice the birds and the dates the different flowers emerge, and the calming renewal of a gentle rain shower? What if this generation are the ones to learn to cook, organize their space, do their laundry, and keep a well run home? What if they learn to stretch a dollar and to live with less? What if they learn to plan shopping trips and meals at home. What if they learn the value of eating together as a family and finding the good to share in the small delights of the everyday? What if they are the ones to place great value on our teachers and educational professionals, librarians, public servants and the previously invisible essential support workers like truck drivers, grocers, cashiers, custodians, logistics, and health care workers and their supporting staff, just to name a few of the millions taking care of us right now while we are sheltered in place? What if among these children, a great leader emerges who had the benefit of a slower pace and a simpler life to truly learn what really matters in this life? What if they are AHEAD? (Share!) https://www.altogethermostly.com/what-if-instead-of-behind/

22.01.2022 Most FIFO families are pretty good at long-distance communication. But with physical isolation now being enforced and rosters being extended due to COVID-19, pe...rhaps we could all use some refresher tips in phone etiquette. Below youll find some expert advice for dealing with kids who just do not like talking on the phone. First though, our top tips for adults: REMEMBER we all have different ways of dealing with difficult situations. Some people need as much contact as possible to ease the pain, while others prefer to withdraw when theyre feeling low. If your partner seems distant and unwilling to stay on the phone, try not to take it personally. ITS fine to chat often, but try not to linger when theres nothing more to say. WORKSHOP a fun, meaningful phrase thats shorthand for I love you but Im really tired and would prefer to chat tomorrow. We know of one former FIFO couple who used to text Pina colada. It can be extra tough for FIFO workers when their young kids dont like talking on the phone (and lets face it, lots of kids arent great!) Here are a few ideas to help take the pressure off phone calls: BE realistic about what is expected from the kids. Psychologist Angie Willcocks suggests: *2-4 years: around two to three minutes on the phone or video call, answering basic questions about their day. Prior to this age, face time can be used, but thats more about seeing Mum/Dad rather than having a conversation. *5-7 years: children should be able to recount interesting things that happened in their day when prompted. * 8 and above: kids should be able to engage in a two-way conversation, both asking and answering questions. This is really variable though and depends a lot on the individual child and the relationship with their parent. DONT try to guilt the kids into talking. Angie says its not fair to tell young kids they have to speak to their Mum/Dad because she/he is missing them. If they dont want to chat, simply reinforce that she/he is thinking of them and looking forward to seeing them soon. BEFORE putting the kids on the phone, tell your partner what has been going on around the house so they can ask open-ended, relevant and interesting questions. For example, "What have you been drawing?" or "What have you been building with Lego today?" is likely to generate more interest than "How was your day?" Get the kids to do a show and tell too. IF POSSIBLE, get your partner to read your childs favourite book over a video chat, as you turn the pages. IF YOU know when your partner will call, make it a game to create a funny way to answer the phone. Ring! Ring! "Hello fish market. Shark speaking." LET Dad/Mum know the best time to call. If their shift finishes at 6pm but this is right in the middle of dinner, suggest they shower and eat before calling at bedtime when the kids are calm and settling down for the night. IF Dad/Mum can only make contact at dinner time, set up the laptop/phone at the dinner table. This way the family is all chatting together and it can take the pressure off the one-on-one conversation. Remember, it is all about being a bit creative and making sure the lines of communication stay strong so that everyone feels connected. For more professional, practical advice for FIFO families, visit our website www.miningfm.com.

18.01.2022 Are we all going to die? And when will we get a vaccine?

15.01.2022 For all my clients asking about home schooling, child custody and the like over this period. This is from a friend who says I can share. What an angel.

14.01.2022 Victims of violence able to apply for restraining orders online Tuesday, 12 May 2020 Family and domestic violence victims can seek restraining orders electronically Legal services submit applications on behalf of victims...Continue reading

12.01.2022 Check out this gorgeous new picture book for FIFO kids! Written by FIFO worker Michael Martucci and featuring stunning illustrations by Kostya & Naya Lazarev, ...Mining and Me explores what its like to grow up in a mining family. With a central theme of family love staying strong across the miles, its sure to resonate with parents and kids - while also helping to shed light on an area thats often misunderstood. Mining and Me is published by Little Steps Publishing and is recommended for children aged 3-6. Youll find the hardcover version in all good bookstores (RRP: $24.95) and its also available as an eBook for $4.99.

09.01.2022 WLWA welcomes this Public Notice from the Western Australian heads of jurisdiction, half of which are women.

06.01.2022 Past experience tells us victims of family and domestic violence are at increased risk during times of crisis. And there is no doubt that COVID-19 presents new ...ways for perpetrators to isolate, monitor and control their partners and family members. To protect victims and survivors during this challenging period, the McGowan Government has moved to allow applications for restraining orders to be made online through registered legal services such as Legal Aid WA, Aboriginal Family Law Services and community legal services. Anybody can contact these agencies by phone or in person and be assisted with the lodgement of their application. The change is one of a raft of legislative reforms to keep Western Australians safe at a time when many are isolated from their communities. For more information visit www.victimsofcrime.wa.gov.au.

06.01.2022 Addiction is not a choice anybody makes. Its a response to emotional pain. Do we need to rethink addiction?

04.01.2022 "What our kids are actually learning right now is how to deal with a crisis." Author and former teacher Gabbie Stroud discusses the role of parents as their children transition to learning at home.

02.01.2022 Novembers election cant come soon enough. Lets END this nightmare! Follow Ridin With Biden to defeat Trump!

01.01.2022 If we as adults struggle to understand and react to the constant developments, how can our children even begin to comprehend coronavirus and what it means for t...hem? Registered psychologist and Telethon Kids child health researcher Dr Monique Robinson has some advice on discussing coronavirus with your kids, keeping them calm, and addressing any misinformation they may have picked up in the playground or online.