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24.01.2022 We're all in this together...

24.01.2022 The Our Family in Two Homes Resource Package can help you and your partner/spouse face the difficult decisions of separation in a family-friendly way. Contact us to learn more: [email protected] or book a free Discovery Session online https://bit.ly/2QxYsiK

24.01.2022 I cant love (or say) this enough! Rachel

23.01.2022 Our Parenting Coordinators, Jennifer Hetherington and Anne-Marie Le Mercier Cade, both attended the annual conference of the Association of Family and Conciliation Courts at which the former Chief Justice of the Family Court of Australia described herself as a "Cheerleader for Parenting Coordination". Read why: https://www.untyingtheknot.com.au//former-judge-cheerlead/

20.01.2022 If your kids are bored, get them to ask Google (or Siri or Alexa) some silly questions. Try this one out then share your suggestions!

20.01.2022 Change in parenting days over the school holidays? Make their pocket money calculation into maths revision for your teenagers!

20.01.2022 The Woolworths Discovery Garden is a great way to get the kids involved with some fun, and save some money on future purchases. This is a great article explaining how to make them go even further. Oh and dont plant them all now - some are out of season. Pic in comments showing when to plant them.

20.01.2022 Working out a parenting plan and custody arrangements can be daunting when you are already dealing with separation and all that brings. You might be feeling exhausted. It might have been a really long road to get to this point.... Or maybe it came quickly, and youre now left struggling to catch your breath, trying to work out what happens next and how you can make sure your kids will be okay. The Our Family in Two Homes Workbook and resource package demystifies the process of working out a parenting plan and custody arrangements, and saves you money. To learn more, visit our website https://bit.ly/2LbC234 or book a free Discovery Session https://bit.ly/2QxYsiK

19.01.2022 There is only one thing to accomplish in the midst of a pandemic and that is survival. No one should feel compelled nor shamed to extend their reach and accompl...ish more. That applies to thinking you should achieve special projects or that your kids must address educational expectations. We are in a pandemic putting us and loved ones at risk where people are also losing the jobs and any savings they may have had. Having enough headspace to manage anything beyond survival is so taxing so as to be unachievable. If you just survive, you have succeeded. Many wont achieve that. Keep your expectations in check.

18.01.2022 Were all in this together...

18.01.2022 These are great resolutions to make. But what if the other parent just won't meet you halfway? Contact us about parenting coordination and mediation to help your children have better co-parents.

18.01.2022 Looking at the Christmas lights is a great, relatively inexpensive activity to spend some special time with your children If youre looking for the best lights in Brisbane, this list has you covered.

18.01.2022 It's Mother's Day in Australia tomorrow. It's a day which can be tough for separated families. If the kids are going to be with their Mum on Dad's weekend, he might feel like he is missing out on time, or missing the opportunity for his Mum to see the grandkids. Grandmas can feel left out. There are lots of ways families who work with us choose to navigate special days like Mother's Day and Father's Day and the Our Families in Two Homes resource package helps work throu...gh those. In the meantime our advice as Mediators and Parenting Coordinators, is to make it easier on the kids and let them love all the important women in their lives (and men on Father's Day). If you are a Dad, encourage them make a Mother's Day card (and maybe a gift) for Mum. It shows that you respect their Mother and reduces their feeling of being caught in conflict. If you are a Mum, encourage them to do the same for their Dad's Mum (and maybe even his new wife...?) Remember, your kids won't remember why you got divorced, but they will remember how they experienced it. See more

18.01.2022 This article by one of the mediators on our panel explains the way we prefer to work to change the way families navigate their family law separation.

18.01.2022 Some of Jennifer Hetherington's colleagues on the International Academy of Collaborative Professionals (IACP) board didn't believe that The Nutbush is actually a thing. Here's the proof (and their demonstration is MUCH better than her very rusty and uncoordinated attempt!) Do you have teenage memories of The Nutbush at your school disco?

18.01.2022 Parenting a teenager can come with special challenges but when they start using words we dont understand (yeet!) or words that have a different meaning, it can be even more challenging. So heres our tip for Christmas gift giving tip: If someone asks for a pineapple for Christmas, they are referring to the gold thing on the right, not the fruit on the left! Apparently the other notes (from left to right) are a lobster, blue swimmer crab and a prawn. ... Who knew?

16.01.2022 Parenting a teenager can come with special challenges but when they start using words we don't understand (yeet!) or words that have a different meaning, it can be even more challenging. So here's our tip for Christmas gift giving tip: If someone asks for a pineapple for Christmas, they are referring to the gold thing on the right, not the fruit on the left! Apparently the other notes (from left to right) are a lobster, blue swimmer crab and a prawn. ... Who knew?

16.01.2022 Toilet training is one of the challenges of parenting and when you are co-parenting, consistency is key. This article has some useful tips for all parents - separated or together.

16.01.2022 Its Mothers Day in Australia tomorrow. Its a day which can be tough for separated families. If the kids are going to be with their Mum on Dads weekend, he might feel like he is missing out on time, or missing the opportunity for his Mum to see the grandkids. Grandmas can feel left out. There are lots of ways families who work with us choose to navigate special days like Mothers Day and Fathers Day and the Our Families in Two Homes resource package helps work throu...gh those. In the meantime our advice as Mediators and Parenting Coordinators, is to make it easier on the kids and let them love all the important women in their lives (and men on Fathers Day). If you are a Dad, encourage them make a Mothers Day card (and maybe a gift) for Mum. It shows that you respect their Mother and reduces their feeling of being caught in conflict. If you are a Mum, encourage them to do the same for their Dads Mum (and maybe even his new wife...?) Remember, your kids wont remember why you got divorced, but they will remember how they experienced it. See more

15.01.2022 If you dont have a Parenting Plan, the Our Family in Two Homes resource package can help you make a parenting agreement that works for your family. If your Parenting Plan or Orders just arent working, we offer Parenting Coordination to help improve communication and reduce conflict and get you on the same page Book in for a free chat to learn more about our options and how we can help your family:... https://bit.ly/2QxYsiK See more

15.01.2022 Sometimes you have to let them forget their hat. The child had just started high school and forgot to take his sports hat. As he was adjusting to a big change, the parent took it into the school office so the child would not be singled out in the first week. A few months later, the hat was forgotten again.... This time the parent had work commitments. Dropping the hat in would have had consequences for the parent, and the parents client. This was explained to the child, and that he would have to face the consequences of his forgetfulness. He got a uniform pass and a warning that next time would result in detention. When children live in two homes, they can forget to take things between those homes. A good parenting agreement covers what happens in that situation - whether it is a pick up or drop off of the item (or not) and what the consequences should be.

14.01.2022 Losing your job on top of COVID 19 and trying to work through family law issues can make things a bit overwhelming. If you are in needed of work or Centrelink assistance this is a summary of opportunities (mostly Qld but not all)

14.01.2022 We can assist with fixed fee online Mediation and Parenting Coordination. Learn more about how these processes work and practical tips for getting through these challenging times as a parent

13.01.2022 Some of Jennifer Hetheringtons colleagues on the International Academy of Collaborative Professionals (IACP) board didnt believe that The Nutbush is actually a thing. Heres the proof (and their demonstration is MUCH better than her very rusty and uncoordinated attempt!) Do you have teenage memories of The Nutbush at your school disco?

13.01.2022 Youre going through a separation and its painfully difficult - especially if you have children. Imagine your preferred family relationship for the future; we can help you work towards those shared goals. Book a free Discovery Session https://bit.ly/33baC3T

13.01.2022 Lets talk BYO Device... How do you know what to buy if you arent a tech whiz? The Cyber Safety Lady offers some great tips in this article https://thecybersafetylady.com.au//parents-guide-for-stud/... Our pro tip: Refurbished laptops bought online can save a LOT of money. But buy them well before school starts so you can make sure they dont have an issues (sadly, this advice comes from having not done this )

12.01.2022 Now, more than ever, parties need to be considering using Mediation and Parenting Coordination to resolve family law disputes. We offer video conferencing for both processes and can conduct them after hours if needed. Book online via our website www.untyingtheknot.com.au or email [email protected]

11.01.2022 Last night Jennifer Hetherington and Anne-Marie Le Mercier Cade gave a presentation to a group of enthusiastic Melbourne lawyers and mediators about Parenting Coordination. Parenting Coordination assists separated parents to manage day-to-day co-parenting issues, implement parenting plans and orders and improve communication - all with the goal of reducing conflict and keeping parents (and children) out of Court.

11.01.2022 For all the parents working from home. Enjoy your long weekend.

10.01.2022 How can there possibly be a bright side to separation? Discovering more about yourself can help make you the thriving, resilient parent you want to be for your children. Find out how with the Our Family in Two Homes workbook. Book a free Discovery Session https://bit.ly/33baC3T

10.01.2022 Co-parenting can bring its challenges. The current COVID19 Coronavirus sweeping the globe is something that seems unlikely to improve a co-parenting relationship. But we dont think it necessarily has to be that way! See our latest blog for ideas on how to deal with these challenges and improve your co-parenting relationship..... https://www.untyingtheknot.com.au//co-parenting-during-co/

09.01.2022 Cheeky magpies hoping for coffee and cake!

09.01.2022 Some great resources here!

09.01.2022 With concerns on the rise about COVID19, consider a different model for mediation. We offer secure video conference mediation services. We can even set them up so you are in separate virtual rooms and dont have to see the other party - particularly helpful if safety is an issue. We offer fixed fee mediation, parenting Coordination and Divorce Options sessions - all bookable via our online booking link: https://outlook.office365.com//UntyingtheKnot@he/bookings/

08.01.2022 If you are co-parenting and your kids are with the other parent, social distancing can mean boredom or loneliness. If you have been working from home this week, that may increase. Staying connected via social media and phone calls with friends is important, as is getting out in your backyard or balcony. Our founder Jennifer Hetherington is planning to spend some time in the garden doing some long overdue weeding, to get some Vitamin D and fresh air. That will be followed by some time on the couch doing some crosswords and watching some movies. What are you doing to pass the time this weekend? And what are your movie recommendations (either family friendly or ones for when the kids are not there or in bed!)

08.01.2022 Tired of your teenager blaming any perceived annoying or bad behaviour on some mythical woman named 'Karen'? The woman who provided the voice for the Australian Siri, is named none other than...Karen. So next time your teen picks up their phone to ask a question, try asking "oh you're asking Karen for help now?!"... It's time for the Karens of the world to get their name back!

07.01.2022 With the start of the school and kindy year coming up, you might be wondering how to help your child who is struggling to separate from you. This video has some great tips including from Elizabeth Pantley a parenting educator (whose books are on our shelf!)

06.01.2022 Things you thought you'd never say..until you had a son. Number 14 is a common one here! Which is your favourite, and what would you add to this list?

04.01.2022 Having trouble communicating? The Our Family in Two Homes workbook can help you to effectively speak with your partner about what matters most. Book a free Discovery Session to learn more https://bit.ly/33baC3T

04.01.2022 We offer resource packages to fit the needs of your family. Book a free Discovery Session to learn more about how we can help you separate respectfully and build a positive future for you and your children. Just click on the Book Now button or our Booking link: https://bit.ly/2QxYsiK to schedule a no obligation chat with a Registered Family Dispute Resolution Practitioner and Nationally Accredited Mediator

04.01.2022 These are great resolutions to make. But what if the other parent just wont meet you halfway? Contact us about parenting coordination and mediation to help your children have better co-parents.

04.01.2022 Has your separation resulted in a loss of trust between you and your former partner? If you are raising children together, having a strong foundation of trust is vital. The Our Family in Two Homes workbook can help. Book a free Discovery Session to learn more: https://bit.ly/33baC3T

02.01.2022 If you don't have a Parenting Plan, the 'Our Family in Two Homes' resource package can help you make a parenting agreement that works for your family. If your Parenting Plan or Orders just aren't working, we offer Parenting Coordination to help improve communication and reduce conflict and get you on the same page Book in for a free chat to learn more about our options and how we can help your family:... https://bit.ly/2QxYsiK See more

02.01.2022 Things you thought youd never say..until you had a son. Number 14 is a common one here! Which is your favourite, and what would you add to this list?

02.01.2022 Both you and your former partner have different parenting styles; our aim is to help you understand each other for the best possible communication plan across both homes. Learn how we can help facilitate these conversations. Book a free Discovery Session: https://bit.ly/33baC3T

01.01.2022 Let's talk BYO Device... How do you know what to buy if you aren't a tech whiz? The Cyber Safety Lady offers some great tips in this article https://thecybersafetylady.com.au//parents-guide-for-stud/... Our pro tip: Refurbished laptops bought online can save a LOT of money. But buy them well before school starts so you can make sure they don't have an issues (sadly, this advice comes from having not done this )