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25.01.2022 Thanks for having me 9 News Perth!

22.01.2022 Pick your sanctuary (home) and its contents wisely. This is where you will be vulnerable, where you will recharge, where you will need to feel safe. This is where you may decide to raise children and for most women, this is where you will need consistency and predictability from your environment while all your emotional and cognitive resources are allocated to baby. Get your home in order before the chaos of parenting begins.

21.01.2022 From cosmologist Carl Sagan, physicist Brian Cox, yogi Sadhguru, Gestalt psychologist Max Wertheimer, to texts of the bible, the vedas, Buddhism, and quantum physics. Theyve all said something in common... It is the conclusion that we are connected to EVERYTHING as a UNIFIED WHOLE. Just like an electric circuit, if ANY element is disconnected, THERE IS NO CIRCUIT. The reason this quote has an intuitive impact of profundity to you is because there is a TRUTH that resonates be...yond egoic awareness and speaks to something of your spiritual nature. Just look at every human endeavour... it all comes back to unifying and bringing the the separate together. The reason this idea is worth sitting and meditating on is because if you believe that you are a vital element that energetically makes up a whole, EVERYTHING IS YOU, AND YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR EVERYTHING. The boundary between the "I" and "THEM" disappears. The boundary between HUMAN, ANIMAL and PLANT disappears. The boundary between PHYSICAL and METAPHYSICAL disappears. The boundary between BODY and SPIRIT disappears. The boundary between EVIL and GOOD disappears. The boundary between LIFE and DEATH disappears. Linear TIME disappears. This level of understanding puts you in an inevitable position of PEACE, AFFIRMATIVE ACTION, PURPOSE and MEANING. It seems like a good map to start your understanding of a spiritual journey.

21.01.2022 DO YOU BELIEVE IN REINCARNATION? If youve answered YES, do you believe the lives that youve lived (or are living in parallel right now) can influence your present incarnation? I will be LIVE with Nikhil Joseph Kale on Sunday night @7pm on his evolutionary stream, THE APERTURE... This a very rare expose into Past Life RegressionTherapy. The is the first time I will speak publically on the unique style. I will share my experiences as a therapist and the evidence-based literature on the topic exposing you to a whole new field of research I am the only therapist in WA that has trade prior to pursuing my double major degree in Psychology and Counselling. From offshore drill rigs and platforms as a boilermaker welder to following my calling in owning my own counselling practice in Perth (Chuck B Consulting). My unique intervention and methods to therapy use meditation, hypnosis, past-life regression and conversing at relational-depth. The approach is influenced by Psychoanalysis, Logotherapy, Existentialism, Psychiatric and Parapsychological literature, spirituality, esoteric wisdom, philosophy, and theosophy. I believe we are ultimately motivated by the Will to Meaning." YES, this is going to be EPIC. ;) Join us live at 7PM Perth/Bali time right on Nikhil personal Facebook profile for this next episode of THE APERTURE. CAUTION I GUARANTEE YOU WONT SEE THE WORLD THE SAME AFTER WERE DONE

20.01.2022 Every time you say the words "I AM...", "YOU ARE...", "THIS IS...", "THAT ISN'T...", "THEY ARE...", and you follow them with a "...BECAUSE...", what comes after "because..." is absolute. It's conclusive. It's not good or bad. Just know that when these words are spoken, you set reality with definitive meaning. Now, it may be spoken TRUTH at that moment but, know that such conclusive attitudes limit your ability to see past your judgment. You may lose your ability to seek NEW T...RUTHS that outdate the old because the old provide safety. See, humans find safety in predictability and patterns. When you KNOW something to be true (subjectively), it becomes predictable. If I say, "the sky IS blue", my world = NORMAL so long as they sky remains blue. If I woke up one day and the sky was purple, my world would be rocked. Obviously that is highly unlikely, but what I'm trying to show you is that everything you have decided as 'TRUTH', holds you sanity safe. If someone came and suggested otherwise, you will defend YOUR TRUTH to maintain SAFETY and STABILITY of mind. Eg. You say, "REINCARNATION is FALSE!"... What if, one day, you were shown sufficient evidence that REINCARNATION is TRUE ? Does it clash with religion, your belief, do you deny the evidence, or do you accept your conclusion was wrong? Have NO conclusions and you can just experience life as it IS, and how it IS, without you holding a set meaning for it.

19.01.2022 Dawn service for the boys on the drill rigs doing it tough away from loved ones. Not quite like the ANZACs, but these lads also sacrifice their time for the greater good of their families back home. #lestweforget #oilandgas

18.01.2022 CheckPoint! So its already the 3rd month of the year.... Some of you are still drifting - allowing circumstance to just take you wherever it may without definite will or purpose.... Sitting down is not always doing nothing. Sit down and draw out a DEFINITE plan and PURPOSE backed by the BELIEF you WILL attain the reward you set out to achieve. TRUTH: Small chance it may not happen. But if you gave it your ALL, you have been rewarded with the knowledge that that path isnt for you.... therefore, YOU GET ONE STEP CLOSER TO WHAT IT IS THAT YOU DO WANT. Fail SUCCESSFULLY

18.01.2022 The quote that I had posted on my wall as a teenager fron my HERO... What is the point of knowing something but not applying? To the therapist, he believes he doesnt need to apply all theories he is preaching to his client. And the client wouldnt be the wiser. He may be giving marriage counselling, and be stuck in his own self-destructive relationship cycle.... The personal trainer on the other hand, would not be able to separate himself from accountability of his advice. If he arrived obese to your 1st appointment, its highly unlikely you would continue with his services. He lacks authenticity in your opinion. What is the point of WILLING to do something, but never doing it? This is self-inflicted psychological suffering. To know you should do something and never do it means to have an ideal way to live or be, but lack the WILL to execute it. You dont have to think of mass scale action like being a BILLIONAIRE. Think of one small thing that you know you could be doing better thats within your grasp, but youre just being lazy or procrastinating. We dont live in an ideal world because you DONT ACT toward your own ideal as an individual! Be AUTHENTIC and APPLY what you KNOW. Take ACTION toward your ideal and DO what it is that you WILL to do.

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17.01.2022 This one is for all the daughters, and fathers of daughters. I have 2 daughters, and it would be wrong of me to misunderstand the alternating roles of TEACHER and STUDENT in a father-daughter relationship. She will teach me, as much as I will teach her. I only have to be conscious without ego. ALWAYS REMEMBER, your age and "life experience" does not qualify you as an expert on how a human should live with joy. Father-daughter......Continue reading

16.01.2022 Always a good time with 9 News Perth!

16.01.2022 Begin your day with a smile... even if it is forced. The physiological effects will take effect and you will get the chemical response you are after

15.01.2022 Every time you say the words "I AM...", "YOU ARE...", "THIS IS...", "THAT ISNT...", "THEY ARE...", and you follow them with a "...BECAUSE...", what comes after "because..." is absolute. Its conclusive. Its not good or bad. Just know that when these words are spoken, you set reality with definitive meaning. Now, it may be spoken TRUTH at that moment but, know that such conclusive attitudes limit your ability to see past your judgment. You may lose your ability to seek NEW T...RUTHS that outdate the old because the old provide safety. See, humans find safety in predictability and patterns. When you KNOW something to be true (subjectively), it becomes predictable. If I say, "the sky IS blue", my world = NORMAL so long as they sky remains blue. If I woke up one day and the sky was purple, my world would be rocked. Obviously that is highly unlikely, but what Im trying to show you is that everything you have decided as TRUTH, holds you sanity safe. If someone came and suggested otherwise, you will defend YOUR TRUTH to maintain SAFETY and STABILITY of mind. Eg. You say, "REINCARNATION is FALSE!"... What if, one day, you were shown sufficient evidence that REINCARNATION is TRUE ? Does it clash with religion, your belief, do you deny the evidence, or do you accept your conclusion was wrong? Have NO conclusions and you can just experience life as it IS, and how it IS, without you holding a set meaning for it.

15.01.2022 Is the family unit an innate goal for all humans or are some not destined for partnership and reproduction? Im not sure if anyone can say for certain whether an intimate relationship or marriage is for everyone. We do know there is an unconscious drive towards family creation. But, does that mean blood relations or just merely people connecting displaying family qualities? On one side, people having marriages show the human potential to commit to one person and display what i...t means to stick with someone through the ups and downs. And, those having families have the ability to teach joy and unconditional love to infants of their own taking advantage of the sponge like learning of an infant. On the other side, people have devoted their life to raising the quality of human interaction and life by staying single. Theyve decided that their service to others are much more efficient if they remain single. There are positives on both side. But, your fear of a broken heart will make your ego come up with justifications of why you should do the opposite of what your heart tells you to do just to sleep easier. REMEMBER, YOU WILL ALWAYS INTELLECTUALLY JUSTIFY YOUR EXISTENCE AND BEHAVIOUR IF THE MEANINGFUL PATH IS TOO DIFFICULT OR ANXIETY PROVOKING. Know where your reasons come from... They may not be your own. I chose the family life becaue my life is enhanced and complimented by having them next to me.

14.01.2022 Get on with it... you know what I'm talking about!

14.01.2022 We will be covering Domestic Violence today because in such times of forced house-containment, hospitals, police and helplines receive an increase in DV traffic. In the chaos of the current economic and health crisis, DV wont receive the attention it deserves. Time: Sat 28th March 07:30pm - 8:30pm (AWST)... Where: Instagram LIVE @chuckborischats Guest: Sheree Lucas Neto from Perth, Australia. From former DV victim to DV advocate, mother, speaker and support beacon. Visit her at... Web - www.iamsheree.com.au Facebook - @I am sheree Instagram - @I_am_Sheree We will cover: - what categorises as DV - why prevalent now - what brings people to do it (practical and psych perspective) - why its hard to leave? - fears of leaving - challenges in dealing with cases - how can one begin to escape, services available - challenges faced post DV and how to prevent going back - how to sustain your new life, post DV - getting help today - Q&A Feel free to comment questions you would like answered from either of us. Comment below, or on the IG live video. We wont be able to cover all of them but will try our best. See you all at 7.30pm tonight

14.01.2022 Go ahead and chase those waterfalls... you wont find your potential in the rivers that youre used to! #tlc

14.01.2022 Live with Nikhil speaking on my experience as a hypnotherapist and past life regression therapist. Counselling, trauma, reincarnation, death. The evidence suggests things you wouldnt believe!

14.01.2022 If you commit to something, cross that bridge, accept it as done, have no regrets, have faith in your decision and keep looking forward.

14.01.2022 Another way to look at this quote is to appreciate that, what you focus on, or what you hold most in awareness, defines what happens next. Its not that abstract of an idea... Great inventions are imagined before they manifest.... Before you got the girl, you imagined yourself with her. Before he asked you to marry him, you imagined your wedding. Before you gained all that muscle, you had an image of yourself with muscles. Before you got in that fight, you have seen yourself on the defence. Before you made that milestone salary, you one day thought, "I wonder if I could ever make that much money?" You watch the news every night, prepare for the worst and your self fulfilling prophecy comes true. You have an idea. You want to execute it, but think theres no-one doing this and think its best not to try. CONSIDER THIS... If you want something, hold it in your mind at EVERY CHANCE you can remind yourself. Its inevitable that you get closer and closer to it... BEST KNOW WHAT YOU WANT BECAUSE YOURE GOING SOMEWHERE REGARDLESS. If you dont CHOOSE to focus on something that will benefit you and people you care about, you will eventuate at a point from unconscious thought patterns, and they may NOT be serving you for the best. Dont be a victim of circumstance. BE THE AUTHOR

14.01.2022 Lets get together and raise some much needed funds for those affected by the fires. Ill be providing a half hour guided meditation after a sweat sesh with some Perthies @reshapeme_fitness @shereice_soderberg @jaslyn.active.journal @dr.ryangleeson @rachael_gouvignon @smasha_marie. $20 entry, with all proceeds going to the amazing fire fighters. 9:30-11:30am this Sunday at Hyde Park. Link in bio. I hope to see you there.... https://www.eventbrite.com/e/air-to-breathe-fitness-bushfir @ Hyde Park

14.01.2022 Get on with it... you know what Im talking about!

13.01.2022 Pick your sanctuary (home) and it's contents wisely. This is where you will be vulnerable, where you will recharge, where you will need to feel safe. This is where you may decide to raise children and for most women, this is where you will need consistency and predictability from your environment while all your emotional and cognitive resources are allocated to baby. Get your home in order before the chaos of parenting begins.

13.01.2022 WE ARE LIVE AT 7. Swipe up didnt work as mentioned in my video so click here instead : https://www.facebook.com/kronikhil

13.01.2022 Take AGENCY in your approach to lifes harsh conditions. You will fail many times... you are meant to. But when you SUCCEED, you reinforce a feedback loop in your subconscious mind that you have the ability to affect change and design life how you want it. As time goes on you will fail less and win more... even when youre losing. RESPONDING to challenges just reiterates that you are alive and not dead. You deem someone that is unresponsive as dead or incapacitated. If you ar...e alive and have the ability to move, YOU HAVE THE ABILITY TO REPSOND... this is RESPONSIBILITY. Your highest quality as a human is that you have the ability to create SOMETHING out of NOTHING in a spontaneous fashion. This is the idea of being created in Gods image... YOUR ABILITY TO CREATE. Take responsibility and use your gift to shape the outcome. Otherwise, you go with the wind to places you least want to go. If you do nothing, you just EXIST BIOLOGICALLY... YOU ARE NOT LIVING. Consider LIVING, as a VERB, not an ADJECTIVE.

12.01.2022 Build your house with bricks instead of straw. The big bad wolf is the inescapable tragedy that comes with life #3littlepigs

12.01.2022 CheckPoint! So it's already the 3rd month of the year.... Some of you are still drifting - allowing circumstance to just take you wherever it may without definite will or purpose.... Sitting down is not always doing nothing. Sit down and draw out a DEFINITE plan and PURPOSE backed by the BELIEF you WILL attain the reward you set out to achieve. TRUTH: Small chance it may not happen. But if you gave it your ALL, you have been rewarded with the knowledge that that path isn't for you.... therefore, YOU GET ONE STEP CLOSER TO WHAT IT IS THAT YOU DO WANT. Fail SUCCESSFULLY

12.01.2022 The offshore welder sits at the end of the Helideck after a long 12 hr shift... What's he thinking??? Drop a creative comment #oilandgas #offshore ... #offshorelife See more

10.01.2022 The offshore welder sits at the end of the Helideck after a long 12 hr shift... Whats he thinking??? Drop a creative comment #oilandgas #offshore ... #offshorelife See more

10.01.2022 Taken at one of my guided meditation sessions. Sit in stillness once in a while. Like the glass filled with muddy water, the dirt will only settle to the bottom when the glass is still for a period of time. Only then will you see clearly. Your stillness may provoke anxious thoughts from anxious memories and expectations... Why do you think many of us MUST stay busy all the time.... ?... Dont fear your stillness. It is where you need to look.

10.01.2022 We are all in this together! To adhere to social distancing requirements and the safety of myself, family and clients, all sessions will now be offered via Skype, Zoom or phone. Its an interesting time we are currently in so Im doing my bit to make my services more accessible and affordable with a price drop and shorter time slots.... Using my psychological, spiritual and philosophical knowledge, let me help you navigate through the chaos of unpredictable times. BOOK HERE FOR COUNSELLING, COACHING, GUIDED MEDITATION OR HYPNOSIS : https://www.chuckborischats.com/book-online

10.01.2022 Excited to announce that my FIFO Intervention program is now being introduced to sites across WA. If you would like this at your site, get in touch.

09.01.2022 The tragedy of life is, there will be things happening outside of our control ALL THE TIME and EVERYWHERE WE GO. Have a definite plan and purpose, but accept the meaningful changes and opportunities that roll through that will tweak the details or even change your course. I took this phone call to be a guest on Ch9 News The Pulse 2 hours before presenting live... stay ready for all OPPORTUNITIES and look your presenting FEARS dead in the face.... You dont have time to be governed by fear!

09.01.2022 WE ARE LIVE AT 7. Swipe up didn’t work as mentioned in my video so click here instead : https://www.facebook.com/kronikhil

09.01.2022 1 and a half more days to grab your $20 ticket! This event has been put on for the bush fire fire appeal where 100% of the proceeds will be donated I will be finishing the event with a 30 min guided meditation at 11am. Come and enjoy 30 minutes of stillness ... https://www.eventbrite.com/e/air-to-breathe-fitness-bushfir

06.01.2022 Engage your pain and hurdles forthrightly. There is no life without hardship. Shit happens. The freedom and responsibility you have is how you engage it and in what frame of mind. You may lose sometimes and get beat. But your best chance of winning will come with a forthright courageous attitude.

06.01.2022 Take AGENCY in your approach to life's harsh conditions. You will fail many times... you are meant to. But when you SUCCEED, you reinforce a feedback loop in your subconscious mind that you have the ability to affect change and design life how you want it. As time goes on you will fail less and win more... even when you're losing. RESPONDING to challenges just reiterates that you are alive and not dead. You deem someone that is unresponsive as dead or incapacitated. If you ar...e alive and have the ability to move, YOU HAVE THE ABILITY TO REPSOND... this is RESPONSIBILITY. Your highest quality as a human is that you have the ability to create SOMETHING out of NOTHING in a spontaneous fashion. This is the idea of being created in God's image... YOUR ABILITY TO CREATE. Take responsibility and use your gift to shape the outcome. Otherwise, you go with the wind to places you least want to go. If you do nothing, you just EXIST BIOLOGICALLY... YOU ARE NOT LIVING. Consider LIVING, as a VERB, not an ADJECTIVE.

06.01.2022 I had a joke about construction... but Im still working on it

04.01.2022 Because you are human, you have no choice but to encounter tragedy and suffering. Quality of life is characterised by your ability to acknowledge pain, make sense of the pain, find out how you learn from the pain, and move forward with courage, embodying a rebirth of a person with a greater perspective than they did yesterday. If you are struggling... STEP 1 is, QUIET THE NOISE AROUND YOU AND IN YOUR MIND.... Go to a peaceful place, sit and JUST EXIST. JUST BE. Your aim is to BE present by focusing on ONLY THE NOW... Close your eyes, listen and feel your breath, drop your shoulders - they are tired. Listen to the birds if youre outdoors, dogs barking in the distance, machinery in the distance, the wind through the trees, the clock ticking if youre indoors, no music. Your HEART RATE will slow, your MIND will slow, the CHAOS will slow, and the frequency of your BODY will increase allowing emotions to speak rather than the logical brain always analysing. Do for 5 minutes. Just start here and see how you feel. Watch the tension lift from your shoulders.

04.01.2022 DO YOU BELIEVE IN REINCARNATION? If you've answered YES, do you believe the lives that you've lived (or are living in parallel right now) can influence your present incarnation? I will be LIVE with Nikhil Joseph Kale on Sunday night @7pm on his evolutionary stream, THE APERTURE... This a very rare expose into Past Life RegressionTherapy. The is the first time I will speak publically on the unique style. I will share my experiences as a therapist and the evidence-based literature on the topic exposing you to a whole new field of research I am the only therapist in WA that has trade prior to pursuing my double major degree in Psychology and Counselling. From offshore drill rigs and platforms as a boilermaker welder to following my calling in owning my own counselling practice in Perth (Chuck B Consulting). My unique intervention and methods to therapy use meditation, hypnosis, past-life regression and conversing at relational-depth. The approach is influenced by Psychoanalysis, Logotherapy, Existentialism, Psychiatric and Parapsychological literature, spirituality, esoteric wisdom, philosophy, and theosophy. I believe we are ultimately motivated by the 'Will to Meaning'." YES, this is going to be EPIC. ;) Join us live at 7PM Perth/Bali time right on Nikhil personal Facebook profile for this next episode of THE APERTURE. CAUTION I GUARANTEE YOU WON'T SEE THE WORLD THE SAME AFTER WE'RE DONE

04.01.2022 Think of this in the context of being 'TOUGH' on worksites that demand toughness. While the word 'TOUGH' has been dragged through the mud by sociologists and culture change pioneers, the word tough means facing something with courage forthrightly. The action itself can be used in the wrong context and the correct context. Here is an insight to what kind of tough is needed to exist on an oil rig offshore.... You need TOUGHNESS to survive and do your job at 100%. You DON'T need TOUGHNESS in moment of relational depth with other people Ie. Personal conversation, socialising, emotional exploration, spirituality.

04.01.2022 In reality, what lies in the dark is less threatening than that which remains in your imagination. What is in the dark, just IS what it is. What it MAY be depends on your ability to create a fear-fuelled image of a monster. The greater the FEAR, the greater the MONSTER. Our primal selves needs to feel, measure and predict the world around us. That which cannot be named or measured equals unpredictability, equals fear and chaos. Unless, one ventures into the UNKNOWN forthright...ly and CHOOSES to look in the dark closet. Eg. Two children believe a monster is under the bed. Both children cannot sleep with the idea that a monster is below them. Child ONE refuses to look in FEAR of coming face to face with the monster and goes to bed in FEAR every night of what MAY be waiting under the bed. Child TWO exercises his FREE WILL and develops the COURAGE to look under the bed knowing he may lose his life, but does it anyway for the HOPE that its all in his IMAGINATION (because what choice does he have?) When child TWO finds out there is nothing, he is immediately rewarded with PEACE OF MIND that nothing threatening exists. Child ONE is consistently sleep deprived and suffers the psychological and physiological damage inflicted by the imaginary monster every night until the day he chooses to look. The same can be said for our tendency to rely on objective science to determine our ultimate truth. Because, that which cannot be understood, measured or explained leads to a threat to current paradigms, change of beliefs, and death of Ego, if explored further. Same goes for psychometric diagnostics. If we can fit the human condition into a label and a metric value, its predictable, KNOWN and can be pointed at. I hope you can use your imagination to visualise what it is that you fear most that remains in the dark and holds you back affecting your desired results. You are responsible to LOOK into the dark and be courageous in your attempt to understand the UNKNOWN.

04.01.2022 **Trigger warning for MEN who have lost their FATHER. This is for you... It was 3 years ago when I sat with a fellow welder eating dinner in the galley of an offshore oil rig, when a normal convo turned into one of the most profound moments in his life, further enriching my own. A random topic lead us to speak about our fathers, in which, he disclosed that his father had passed two years ago. Hearing his tone of voice and looking in his eyes, he was still hurting about his f...athers death. I had a choice, I could redirect the conversation changing the topic to avoid him getting emotional or I could be bold and share something I had picked up reading Freuds profound interpretation of how a man should perceive the death of his father. I chose to share my knowledge intuitively... After all, he trusted me enough to expose a vulnerable side. I told him the quote, "A MAN IS NOT A MAN, UNTIL THE DEATH OF HIS FATHER." I went on to explain... no matter what the dynamic was with your father, he still represented a HERO, STRENGTH, COURAGE, POWER, DOMINANCE, and LEADERSHIP. To a SON this is like a safety net, because no matter what troubles he encounters in life, the SYMBOLIC FATHER in the FLESH gives him an unconscious ability to PERSEVERE. He has someone to be vulnerable with, someone that taught, someone that watches, someone that knows, someone that will die for him... His father is the CHIEF that holds the torch. On the other hand, a man is in constant battle with his father for top position. A man unconsciously wants to prove himself always to the Chief and to be accepted as worthy (EVEN IF THE BOY DESPISES HIS FATHER). A man wants to be better than the father, fix his mistakes. BUT, a man also feels he is held back by his fathers authority. A BOY will only be a MAN when he adopts RESPONSIBILITY. When the man adopts responsibility, HE WANTS TO SEEK HIS FULL POTENTIAL! ...This can never be fulfilled while the FATHER REMAINS IN THE FLESH, IN TOP POSITION because, the man will only know TRUE RESPONSIBILITY when the father disappears and he must hold the torch for others with NO SAFETY NET... Then he becomes everything his father represented. The amount of men in prison that didnt grow up with a father is overwhelming. No-one can dispute the significance of a father figure in a boys development. Lads... YOUR PAIN IN LOSING YOUR FATHER HAS A LOT TO DO WITH YOU TAKING THE SYMBOLIC TORCH, ALONG WITH THE PROFOUND KNOWLEDGE THAT YOU HAVE JUST LOST YOUR CHIEF, SAFETY NET, and HERO. Just know, that without this loss, you could never reach your full potential. You are now THE MAN and be at PEACE. My fellow welder on the rig cried and confessed, "I never dealt with my fathers death but now I get it. I was scared that I could never be who he was for me". **TAG SOMEONE THAT NEEDS TO HEAR THIS**

03.01.2022 There are topics you are not addressing with your close friends and family, therefore, you cannot completely relax and have an unconditional relationship with them. The condition in your relationship is... "Im happy to hang out so long as you never point out the pink elephant in the room thats been bothering us for years." That aint living.... Take time to chill with no condition of commitment.

03.01.2022 Think of this in the context of being TOUGH on worksites that demand toughness. While the word TOUGH has been dragged through the mud by sociologists and culture change pioneers, the word tough means facing something with courage forthrightly. The action itself can be used in the wrong context and the correct context. Here is an insight to what kind of tough is needed to exist on an oil rig offshore.... You need TOUGHNESS to survive and do your job at 100%. You DONT need TOUGHNESS in moment of relational depth with other people Ie. Personal conversation, socialising, emotional exploration, spirituality.

02.01.2022 If you aim at something you dont understand, what are the chances of you actually attaining it? For you to achieve something, anything, you have to have a clear image of what it is and how it will look in its physical manifestation. Therefore, aim at something you know that if you did it, it will make your life a little bit better than it was before.... Aim at an action that doesnt serve you any longer and make it better. Aim at a mode of being that gets you one step closer to an ideal. Aim at it every day, and by the laws of attraction, what you aim at will manifest. And incrementally you are what you want to be.

01.01.2022 If you aim at something you don't understand, what are the chances of you actually attaining it? For you to achieve something, anything, you have to have a clear image of what it is and how it will look in its physical manifestation. Therefore, aim at something you know that if you did it, it will make your life a little bit better than it was before.... Aim at an action that doesn't serve you any longer and make it better. Aim at a mode of being that gets you one step closer to an ideal. Aim at it every day, and by the laws of attraction, what you aim at will manifest. And incrementally you are what you want to be.