Tamar Ben Hur Couple Therapy | Therapist

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24.01.2022 When I was talking to my friend yesterday afternoon in between two Zoom meetings, I found myself saying that I felt a sense of stepping into leadership. This of course is not a one-time event but rather a process that has been going on throughout my life. What’s new is a sense of realization that this is now ‘my shift’. I can no longer project an idea onto the future about how this will look. It is a total acceptance of being one with what is already here. My readiness does not come from my accomplishments nor from my talents. It comes from my willingness to serve. I am the one both leading and following. It is an internal dynamic within me. I realize that my primary relationship is my own internal relationship with myself. This is really all that it will ever be.

21.01.2022 Life long love relationships give us time. They provide us with a life time to exercise ourselves and to act out different parts of ourselves in various stages of inner growth. They give us a platform on which to dance and provide us with a mirror in which to reflect upon ourselves. Relationships, especially life-long ones, provide us with an opportunity to continually recalibrate our point of view, to expand our self insights and what we believe about life. We try out, and we test, the waters of our capacity for freedom and dependency. We create the roots and pathways that bring us simultaneously closer to ourselves and to our beloved since we realise that we are one and the same. To read more of my latest blog please visit here: https://tamarbenhur.com/relationships/life-long-love/

16.01.2022 Thank you for all the heartfelt birthday wishes! Feeling very blessed and grateful to start this year with all your blessings. Lots of love Thank you! #birthday #gratitude

03.01.2022 Every person is a teacher. Teachers are needed on all levels. Recognizing what it is that you teach, is a part of knowing who you are. Yet there is a lot of misconception we have in regards to the role of a teacher and the entanglement with the teacher’s ego and sense of separated self. We are teachers not by what we say or do but by who we are. Our response to our life lessons is the way we model what we know to be true. Our modelling evolves as we do. We are all continuousl...y teaching and learning. We serve this purpose whether we are conscious of it or not. What is it that I am truly teaching? I know that my lesson at present is around making judgements. Every time I look at my partner, I can see it so clearly. Am I willing to let go of that? I whisper these questions quietly as they are admissions of my own shortcomings. But what is it that I teach as a relationship counsellor? Shouldn’t I be practicing my own sweet advice? As Leonard Cohen wrote, ‘the light comes through the cracks.’