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25.01.2022 Who do you have around your life to input into you and help you on your journey? Comment below

24.01.2022 Do you ever feel sorry for yourself I remember being in a place so many times mentally and emotionally that I did not want to be in. I knew it was bad, but wasn't quite sure how to get past it.... What made things worse was that the more I was in that place, the worse things seemed to become. The negative thoughts created more negative thoughts and negative belief systems. When I finally pulled up my big boy pants and regained a little control over my mind and emotions, it became very obvious that life really wasn't all that bad. In fact there was actually a lot to be grateful for. This is what it took for this to become reality: First I had to recognise the bad place I was in #mentally and #emotionally, admitting I wasn't in a good place. Second acknowledge that I was the only person who could do anything about it. No matter what else was happening, anywhere, it was up to me to make the changes. Third recognising that there were actually so many good things about life. But I was blinded to these because my #focus was on the all of the bad things I "thought" were happening to me. These weren't bad things happening to me, they were life and I could either surrender control of my life to whim and circumstance or I could take back control which also meant taking back #peace, #happiness, #joy and the example I needed to be to my kids. If you have ever been there write "yep" in the comments below.

23.01.2022 The Japanese are of Kintsugi takes the broken and maks something even more beautiful. Rather than disguising the breakage, Kintsugi restores the broken item and the damage becomes part of the aesthetic of the #restored item. This becomes part of the object’s history, it's story. Kintsugi uses lacquer resin mixed with powdered gold, silver, platinum, copper or bronze, resulting into something more beautiful than the original. ... The broken parts are what make this more beautiful than ever. Your broken parts can come together and make you a more #beautiful, #loving #forgiving kinder person than ever.

22.01.2022 Baggage isn't always a bad thing Read the post to find out why People often talk about baggage. If you’re going on holiday, or doing anything that you really enjoy you are going to have baggage. If you’re travelling to Whistler to go skiing, you’re going to have a lot of baggage. But that baggage is what is going to make the trip a great trip. Let’s say for example you were going to Whistler to go skiing and you didn’t have any baggage. First of all skiing naked is pretty muc...h frowned upon. Secondly what is in the bag is going to make skiing fun. It’s baggage, but it’s baggage you want. After divorce you can either keep the bad baggage; anger, unforgiveness, offence etc, or you could exchange that for love, forgiveness etc. And once you've been through a divorce you will have a lot of baggage. It's up to you what is in your baggage. I hope it's love and forgiveness. You will live an incredible life if it is...

20.01.2022 It's simply one step in front of the other. Sometimes, mundane, sometimes feeling like no achievement, but soon you can look back and see just how far you've come In the middle of the journey, the trial, the goal, the new life being formed, it can often feel like you are getting nowhere. In fact you often feel like you're going backwards, but soon you can look back and the joy, the pride and success you feel can be overwhelming...just another step...

20.01.2022 It’s amazing how much better we feel about ourselves when we start to take care of ourselves. How we dress can totally change our thoughts about ourselves, boost our confidence and bring back some of that mojo. Have you taken much thought to what you wear and how you wear it lately? ... Let me know with a simple yes or no below.

18.01.2022 #divorce recovery #future #happy #joy #peace

17.01.2022 We can allow our feelings and emotions to drive us forward. Where are you focusing your energies. #divorced #divorcerecovery #happy #future #kids #life

15.01.2022 Start your day right. The best way to prepare for a good day is to do something, preferably physically, mentally & spiritually for yourself

15.01.2022 Not everything goes our way, some days it seems like everything goes against us, but that’s in how you look at it. Today is your day, or it’s miserable. To live your best life ever you have to make the hard choices sometimes. Sometimes you can’t, but mostly you can even when you think you can’t. TODAY it’s YOUR DAY #divorced #divorcerecovery #inspiration #happy #choice #belief

13.01.2022 At this point you could be confused and not sure what to do. If you did know what to do, would you be sure if it would work anyway? If you follow what’s outlined in this book, 2 things I know:... 1. you will know what to do 2. You know it will work #divorce #divorcerecovery #divorcerecoveryally #future #love #hope #joy #peace #stepdad #stepmom #recovering

13.01.2022 What to do when your friends desert you & how to get over it??? This question and more on YouTube. Part 1 & 2 of the Friendship series on YouTube now. ... Search divorce recovery ally on YouTube Answering questions about: What to do when your friends desert you & how to get over it How to know which friends are good for you and which feel good but are actually bad for your future and recovery How to choose good friends Should you find new friends or not & if so how. Let me know if you have any other questions you’d like answered. #divorce #divorcerecovery #friendship

10.01.2022 The journey after divorce is like this pier. It looks like the end and hope is too far away. But there is a beautiful world awaiting. At the end of the pier is a canoe. As you do the work you get closer to the #beautiful world you #desire. Sometimes the #journey seems too long, too hard, too far and no reward. 2 steps forward 3 steps backwards. Can you relate to this? I hope so, because that means you're working hard to ge your life back and to provide the best life for your ...kids #divorce #divorcerecovery #hope #love #kids #happy #joy #bestlifeever #yougotthis #youreawesome

10.01.2022 You are on a journey. This journey can be the best thing that has happened to you, or the worst thing that has happened to you Life is about choices. I remember having to make choices that were hard, choices that were right by my kids and my future. Did I get them all right - nope, but I'm sure glad about the ones that I did get right and I know you will too.

08.01.2022 As you know, I love my beach. My wife and I dropped the girls off to a youth group the other night and decided to have a look at the gym because we had both talked about joining again and not just exercising the beach. I had strictly said that we are not joining, this was just a recon mission. ... Because of this, knowing I had nothing to lose when they put an offer to us we said we’re not buying, just looking. After 15 minutes of negotiating somebody caved. ME!!!!! Really, I don’t do that. Oh well now we have a ridiculously good deal at the gym so I need to exercise more to get my moneys worth. Anybody else bought when you didn’t want to? Let me know in the comments what you bought. #divorcerecovery

06.01.2022 Have you noticed that the stars shine brighter on the darkest nights. And kids love to watch their stars shine

04.01.2022 Will the real you please stand up Often when in a marriage, particularly one that doesn’t work, we can can lose who we are and what we actually do enjoy, even what your values are We all change over time, hopefully for the better. But in amongst some of that change we become more like our marriage partner, not always a bad thing, but if in the process you lose yourself, that’s not so good. So we need to take a step back and find out who are you. As you go through this proce...ss I’m going to ask that with great strength and dedication Will the real you please stand up" What do YOU like to do? Do you really enjoy those friends or did you hang out with them because you had to? Do you really like the beach or are have you just gotten used to going there because that’s what you did? Okay maybe that’s a bad example - how can you NOT like the beach (insert vid of beach and waves etc) picture of me daydreaming with this coming out as thought bubble. What style of music do you really like? Do you still remember? Do you really like your job or did you have it due to your responsibilities and to keep up appearances? Have you given up playing sport and would love to get back and do it again? Do you like travelling but haven’t done it for a while??? Did you used to go to church but not any more because of your past relationship? Who are you? I know this much, you are an awesome person

03.01.2022 Here’s a hard one for us to get our heads around. It’s doing the journey and allowing our heart to become soft, forgiving and loving that changes us and other people. It doesn’t matter what circumstances say, it’s about me becoming a bigger better person. Then I will see people and circumstances in a completely different way.

02.01.2022 Sometimes we choose to play it safe and not disappoint ourselves so we have low expectations. That’s fine if you want to stay where you are. But some of those low expectations won’t bring as much short term disappointment , but it will result in long term regret and unhappiness. The other option is to look for the good, be disappointed sometimes, yet live a fulfilling abundant and very happy life with no regrets. ... #divorce #divorcerecovery #happy #peace #positive #joy #relationships

02.01.2022 Remembering back to the days when #divorce was the hardest, and when I didn’t want to #accept #reality. Looking back I’m eternally grateful for #friends who cared enough to tell me to pull up my big boy pants and move on with he life and #opportunities before me. What area do you need to pull up your big boy/girl pants and accept the incredible life and opportunity in front of you? ... Write in the comments below.