Elise Tait | Entrepreneur
Elise Tait
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25.01.2022 HOW WILL YOU KNOW IF YOU NEVER TRY? It’s such a simple yet powerful question, and one that many people ignore. So many go through life always pondering on the what if’s.... I couldn’t have that. Getting to the end of my days and having regrets! Not for me thanks... I could never just shrug something off without finding out for myself everything about it and why it is. I would rather fall forward then fall backwards. To me I always knew I could be, do and have more. Not just financially but mentally and physically too. I do the things I’m drawn to. I listen to that gut feeling. There is so much to be thankful for, and money isn’t everything. But it is okay to want more. To be honest I am a very simple person, I don’t need much. But it is nice to have the freedom of choice. And knowing I now have the option to choose how I live changes everything. Two years ago I answered HOW WILL I KNOW with... BY DOING IT! It’s so simple. Bloody do the dam thing then you’ll know!! Don’t be held back in life by fear or uncertainty. 90 year old you won’t thank you for it. Elise
25.01.2022 YOUR PERFECT DAY WILL CHANGE. From the very beginning of my entrepreneurial journey I have always written out my perfect day. Down to what time I woke, the sounds I heard and how I started my day, to how I ended it. I get very specific, and go into a lot of detail, because the more information I can give the more I can plan and act like my perfect day is already here. By writing it out as much as I can, I call it in. ... Once written out and known in certainty that this is my perfect day, and knowing I can live it now, I feel I call in the how. Suddenly I have realizations and take the necessary actions needed to make this become a reality, because I always have my perfect day in mind. I know who I am and what I am known for, what my values are, who I surround myself with, and even what I am eating! It is like I am mapping out my business plan and my life’s desires. It is so simple yet so effective. As I said I have been doing this for two years now, just doing this as part of my journaling practice, and the more I take the time to do it, the more powerful it becomes. Two years on and now I am writing out my new perfect day. Why? Because my perfect day will change as my goals and visions in business and life changes. I have now created the perfect day I dreamt about two years ago, and it wasn’t until writing out my new perfect day that I realized this. It was like a big a-huh moment where I knew instantly why I wasn’t feeling fulfilled anymore. And that reason being because I have accomplished that perfect day and now I am ready for the next step, the next goal to hit. Don’t ever think your perfect day will remain the same throughout your life. Sure, you may have certain things and habits you always do, but the people your with and the places your at will change. It’s a part of growth. If your comfortable at the moment you need to change something. Do the uncomfortable things, that then become comfortable. I look back now at my perfect day I wrote out two years ago, and I remember thinking that some of those things made me feel so uneasy, like I knew I wanted them but the how scared me. But looking back on this makes me realize how much is achievable if you just set your mind to it, and never ever give up on your goals. Stay committed, stay focused on that perfect day, live it and breathe it like it’s already a part of you and you will call it in. Because why wouldn’t you? Elise x
25.01.2022 YOU ARE NOT CONTRACTED TO ANYONE. You are not governed by any rules or policies in this world that tells you who to speak to, sit with or take advice from. You have the freedom to choose. ... It is always a choice. Your circle of friends and who you connect with on a daily basis are there because you chose them to be there. So, if they are no longer serving you and your ambitions in life, break that chain and free yourself from the mental torment. Even if it is for a week! I don’t mean you have to cut them completely out of your life, all I am saying is take a step away for a while. To reflect. As hard as this may be, sometimes it is those closest to us that cause us the most pain. It doesn’t mean you don’t love them, and it is nothing they have specifically done either, it just means their views or opinions do not align with you at that time. You don’t always have to agree. I always say if you wouldn’t trade places with them, for whatever reason, do not take advice off them or follow in their footsteps. Negative nancies always breed negative nancies! Those who seek faults will find them. There will be times in your life where you will have to make an important decision and I know you will turn to your bestie, relative or someone else in your current circle of trust for advice. But sometimes the answers we are looking for are deep within us. It’s called intuition and trusting your own judgement before others. People only know what they know. So do your research and take advice off yourself. Ask yourself what you think is best for you at that time, not the person next to you who probably has no idea what you are even talking about! Especially if it comes to a huge life- changing decision. Want to know the one person who is always right? The one who backs you, no matter what? YOU. Sure, there will always be the friends or family members who have your back no matter what you choose to say or do, but there will also be those who want to put you down because of their own lack of knowledge, fear of missing out or fear of you succeeding and not them. That’s life. Choose to say no more to those who bring you down, and yes to backing yourself and your judgement. Positive vibes only. Positive people only. Elise x P.S- random photo of Riley and I testing out our selfies by the pool in Forster, NSW a few weeks back.
24.01.2022 THE OCEAN IS MY ONLY MEDICATION. When I’m lacking energy or motivation, I go to the place that makes me smile. When I’ve got writers block, I go to the place that gives me clarity.... When I’m feeling sluggish or down, I go to the place that makes me feel grateful and abundant. The ocean is the only medication I’ll ever need. What is your medication? Elise P.S- Pic taken at Hervey Bay, this was such a beautiful sunset.
21.01.2022 STOP FAKING YOUR WAY THROUGH BUSINESS. Authenticity always sells. The more you try to be someone or something your not, is the moment you hand over your power and lose control.... Being fake will never get you the desired outcome. It might fill a hole for a few days, but in the end you’ll only be putting a bandaid on a wound that will scar. You can try cover the scar, but it will always be there. Be the real you. Tell your story, the way it is and no other way. Don’t ever try to fake your way through business, it ain’t pretty, it’s ugly. And most of the time it’s obvious. You are perfect the way you are, and if your not perfect that’s even better. Pretty and polished only gets you so far. Being real and raw is and always will be the way to sell on any social media platform. The real you is who you are meant to be. Let it shine. You are beautiful. Elise x
21.01.2022 Being an entrepreneur is hard work. Anyone who is one and has told you otherwise would be talking bullshit. It isn’t for everyone, it is for those who know they can be, do and have whatever they want and aren’t afraid to do whatever it takes to get it. It takes courage, resilience and passion. You have to love what you do and you have to know that no matter what happens this is it. This is what you are put on this earth to do. (But that’s a whole other kettle of fish we wil...Continue reading
17.01.2022 To do the things others want to do, you need to be willing to do the things other won’t do. Passion. Commitment.... Authenticity. The three things I live by when it comes to business and life.
17.01.2022 YOU HAVE TO SUCK AT IT FIRST! Don’t expect to become the perfect marketer, influencer or professional at whatever it is you are wanting to thrive in overnight. Success takes time.... It is going to take consistency and dedication. Yep that means even when you don’t feel like it! Even the days you want to just binge on Netflix. It means posting content, or studying or learning something new when you are tired or lacking motivation, or maybe not looking your best. It means getting it wrong three times before finally getting it right. You are always going to have ups and downs in business and life, but don’t let that dull your sparkle or affect the one thing you are most passionate about. Imperfect action is better than no action at all. The more you do the better you get. You have to suck first! Then comes the improvement and learning what works and what doesn’t. Eventually after throwing it out there for long enough, something or someone will stick. That’s when it’s worth it! That’s when you go a-huh it does work!! Consistency leads to momentum which then leads to results. Give up early and you have no one or nothing to blame but yourself. Do something for long enough it has to work. You don’t have to be perfect or a natural at something to be good at it. Learn along the way, enjoy the process and just stick to it, no matter what the circumstance. Then there is no other choice but to win. Elise x
13.01.2022 SO FOR HOW MUCH LONGER ARE YOU GOING TO USE THAT EXCUSE? You know the one you tell yourself every day, the reason you believe you can’t do the thing you really want to do. I know you know what I mean. I want to know why you keep doing it to yourself? Killing your dreams because of a bulls#it story you’ve made up in your head. ... Is it really worth it? Where has that little excuse got you? We can use every excuse in the book, but if that excuse is doing nothing but holding you back in life you are doing yourself a disservice. You are choosing fear over faith. You are letting the inner voices win. You are procrastinating on the one thing that could be the BIG thing that gives you the life you desire. Imagine now if you put all excuses aside just for a minute. What does life look like for you? You see things could be very different. They could be a whole lot better too. But the more you let those excuses win, the further away you are pushing yourself from reaching those goals. If it does not feel aligned for you, fine that’s understandable. But if it is the thing you know deep down you really should be doing, then stop making up a reason not to do it!! We have one life. One chance to get this right. So why waste days, months or even years procrastinating and making up crap excuses as to why we should not do things, when most of the time you just need to step out of your own way and in to the life you design. This chance won’t be around forever, so push the excuses aside no matter how scary and confronting it may be, because the grass is a whole lot greener on the other side, and girl you deserve it all. Uncomfortable things are scary, but the more you do them the more comfortable they get! Funny that hey! Next time you catch yourself making up an excuse as to why you should not do something, ask yourself if you don’t want to do it because your scared to (fear) OR you don’t want to do it because you know it does not feel right for you (faith). Then you’ll make the right choice. Elise P.S- Sipping a Pina Colada on a Thursday because why the bloody hell not hey?
13.01.2022 I WANTED A LIFE WHERE I DIDN’T NEED TO CHECK THE BANK ACCOUNT. How many times have you done this? I used to get to the checkout, and as well as trying to juggle a toddler trying to escape out of the trolley! I also used to think Shit, is there enough money in the account!?... Then I would stand there pretending to be okay, and inside I was preying to see that magical word- APPROVED! The anxiety money used to cause me was ridiculous. I used to dread going down the supermarket because of something that there is an abundance of. Something I could have had more of, then and there if I really wanted to. If I knew back then, what I know now about having the correct money mindset and how to make my money work for me, life would have been very different. BUT I can’t change the past, all I can do is focus on changing my future. Now life is very different. I no longer need to check the bank account for many of the things we choose to do, and going down the supermarket no longer causes an anxiety attack (apart from the children). Two years ago, I chose to better my life. I deserved more. I wanted to have all of the abundance that I rightfully deserved to have. I used to sit and think- If she can have that life why can’t I? So I found a way to change it. I learnt that the system I was using was broken, and that everything I always desired was right there, waiting for me to reach out and grab it. Don’t ever think that the digits you see on the screen represent how your life will end up. They are only digits. They can change in an instant. Those numbers in your account go up and down depending on how you look at them. Focus on having less and that’s what you’ll get. There is a whole world of abundance out there, you just need the right vision and the right mindset tools to call it in. Let me help you. I can show you how I changed DECLINED to APPROVED. Some may call this bragging but I’m not. I’m showing you that the way you might be living now isn’t the way you have to live forever. Everything is a choice. Choose to suffer or choose to surrender and move forward. Only a message away. Elise
13.01.2022 TODAY MARKS 12 MONTHS LIVING IN OUR CARAVAN! Holy hell... I still remember the day Josh and I shut the door on our first ever home together. To be honest we weren’t overly sad about selling our home because we knew what adventures were to come. And we also never really felt connected to that house either. ... We always had the plan to renovate, sell and then buy again, but the plans changed. BUT we still renovated, still sold but decided to LAP OZ as well! We decided life was too short to wait until everything aligned perfectly. Stuff will always happen that’s life, you have to take the good with the bad. Waiting around until we were in our golden years also wasn’t an option for us. We wanted to live freely NOW, and show our kids the beauty of Australia before their school years started. So one day we said Let’s do it!! We had already built up a 6-figure income on our online marketing business, so we thought why not!? Nothing was holding us back anymore. We had done it! We finally felt free. We had found the missing piece to the puzzle and now it was our time to shine. Fast forward 12 months and here we are. Living life location free, one day at a time. It ain’t always easy. It ain’t always us jet setting around seeing all the good stuff either. Some days we chill. Some days we pull our hair out because we don’t get much time or any time really away from the kids. Some days we dread turning on the news for another covid update, that can yet again screw our plans. It’s been a very long time since we last saw family or friends, but we have also met some incredible people along the way. Caravan living is very hard. We have cried, laughed and even screamed. Every emotion one person can experience I’m sure we have experienced them all. But seeing Australia makes every hard day worth it. Showing our children what it’s like to step outside our comfort zones and find inner peace, is something no school can teach. Making new friends, meeting new people and experiencing things as a family makes us feel so fulfilled. We have seen so many incredible things, and made amazing memories along the way, and we can proudly say business is booming and life is only getting better! I have since taken on a new program, meaning more added stress on top of travelling and running our business, but it is what you do to get what you want. And to me following my dreams and goals in life is a non negotiable thing. We still have a long way to go yet, lots more to achieve and a lot of travelling still to do. I am not the same woman I was 12 months ago, I am a new and improved version. And I believe that all comes down to doing the things that light me up and fuel my soul. Cheers to life on the road ladies! Elise P.S- if you are also a travelling wife or mum I’d love to hear from you! This life ain’t easy but it is worth celebrating that’s for sure!!
12.01.2022 SURRENDER. Lately I have been holding on to something that I just could not let go. It was eating me up inside, and the more I thought about it the more frustrated I became. ... I tried to come up with answers to why this has happened, and if there was ways in which I could have prevented it. But the thing is we can’t control everything. As much as we would love to, we just can’t. Some things are just completely out of our control, BUT it doesn’t mean we have to let it control our feelings. Things and situations affect you emotionally ONLY if you let them. And by letting them build up inside, you are only doing your mind and body a disservice. So today I chose to surrender. I threw my hands in the air and accepted what was. It is what it is because it is, and there is sometimes no explanation that is needed. You just have to let it go. Make room for the positive energy you’ve been missing out on because you’re holding on to the negative energy that will not ever serve you. Surrender to the fact that in life shit happens that is out of your control. Learn from it but don’t dwell on it. Step forward, rise up and take back control of the one thing you can dictate, and that is your emotions and the way you choose to view certain situations. Life is too short to be anything else but happy, so don’t waste another second being in the wrong head space. Elise P.S- How amazing was my view at Emu Parks today!
12.01.2022 IT IS OKAY TO BE A LITTLE CAREFREE. Don’t stress yourself out all the time about making every part of your life so bloody perfect. It is okay to let go. Don’t over complicate it. ... Aiming to be the best or having everything peachy is good to a certain degree, but so is letting things go and realizing it’s okay to not be all pretty, polished and perfect. As long as it gets done who cares! If the bathroom isn’t as shiny as what you would like, but it’s clean... who cares! If your content doesn’t have the best placed, perfect tree in the background WHO CARES! Post it anyway! It is better to get something done then nothing at all because you are too focused on the tiny things that won’t really have a huge impact. Focus on the things that count, and spend less time focusing on aiming to be perfect, just show up. Stop being so hard on yourself, if your doing the best you can do, that is enough. You don’t need to be perfect to be successful, and you don’t have to have the cleanest house to win over your friends. Elise
11.01.2022 SEEK TO FIND THOSE WHO LIGHT YOU UP! Not put you down. Who are the five people you surround yourself with the most? ... Do they motivate you to be the best version of yourself? Do they want you to succeed and follow your dreams? It is vital in life that we surround ourselves with people that light us up and want us to shine! Those who dull your sparkle are those you don’t need. They don’t serve you. Anyone who can’t be happy for your choices or be supportive, isn’t worth your energy. You are who you hang around. Chances are if your always with negative nancies, you’ll turn in to one too! Is that who you want to be? I choose to be with those that make me smile and laugh, and those who support me no matter what. Your circle will be a reflection of you as a person. So choose wisely. Elise x
11.01.2022 A PERMANENT HOLIDAY. Doesn’t sound realistic? Doesn’t sound do-able?... That’s because it isn’t to a lot of people. There are people who will always be dreamers, then there are the doers. The ones who seek opportunities and a better way of life. I am and always will be a doer. I wanted more and still want more for my life. I didn’t want to sit on the sidelines and watch others live the life I desired. So now I feel like my life is a permanent holiday. I have pinch me moments all the time. I get to create endless memories with my kids because I decided to! Sure, I need to do some work, but it doesn’t feel like work when it’s your passion. I was not going to go through life purely just surviving, I wanted to live. So that’s what I do. Continue to live and show my kids these magical places. Elise x
10.01.2022 THE MORE PRESSURE, THE MORE CHANCE YOU’LL BREAK. It is an easy thing to do, us women do it a lot. We take on way more than we are realistically capable of achieving. Yeah, we are superhuman, but we are not made to carry all the bloody weight, it is okay to take some of it off. I find even myself taking on way too much, as a business woman and as a mother. I have been known to be a yes girl from time to time. ... What is a yes girl? One that says yes even if she knows the outcome won’t benefit her in any way and will do nothing but bring her more stress, sometimes even heartache! C’mon how many have you done it? Said yes of course! then walked away thinking- OH MY GOODNESS HOW AM I GOING TO DO THAT!? It is more common than you think. Want to know the best way to fix it? EASY- STOP SAYING YES AND START SAYING NO!! The more you say yes, the more pressure you are adding, the more pressure the more chance you are heading for a breakdown. I choose now to only say yes to the things that are going to serve me or my business. I still choose to help others, but I always make sure I am not putting off anything that serves myself first. It’s not selfish it is smart. Less is more. Eventually all those extra jobs you add to the list will burn you out. Don’t be afraid to take a break from time to time, and don’t put a time limit on when you should have things complete by. That is fuelling the fire. Tomorrow instead of doing ALL the things, then more things, do the things you need to and that is all. The ones that feel right for you in that moment. Don’t procrastinate though, just do what you know will give you the desired outcome, not the outcome that involves stress, anxiety and a bloody raging meltdown! Do what needs to be done. AND THAT IS ALL. Elise x
10.01.2022 YOU NEED TO CHANGE, TO CREATE CHANGE. This is a saying I have sworn by for the last two years. In order for anything to change in your surroundings, lifestyle, career or relationships YOU have to change first. ... It all starts with you. Stop blaming other people or using piss- poor excuses for the things that are happening around you, or not happening to you. There is a lot of things that happen in life that are out of our control, but there is also a lot of things that happen that you have total control of. I know for me lately I have used poor excuses for me not exercising or looking after my body the way it deserves to be treated. I blame the kids. I blame my business. But the only person I should blame is myself. I have decided it is time for me to take the power back. I am responsible, it is ME who wants the change in my body, so it is ME that needs to change. I will change my mindset around fitness and health. It won’t be easy but I will do it. Because in order for my body to change, I NEED TO CHANGE! Instead of getting that extra hour sleep in the mornings I will now be waking at 5am, one hour before the kids wake well let’s prey before they wake! Sacrifices and changing bad habits that no longer serve you, to new ones that do, is how BIG change happens. It’s all about making those small steps first. So who’s stepping with me? Elise x
08.01.2022 YOU CAN HAVE ALL OF IT Every little bit of it. Want the cake too? Have a piece of that as well! ... No but seriously, there is nothing in this world that you can’t have if you want it bad enough. You just need to own it, call it in and consider it done. The minute you even doubt it, it will disappear, before you even held it in your hot little hands. There is a shit tonne of abundance in this world, success does not discriminate. You deserve everything you desire and more. Stop putting your goals to the side because of excuses or beliefs you aren’t worthy enough. Want more money? Figure out a way to make more. Want more freedom? Set yourself free. Set the goal, set the intention, commit to it and it will happen. Consistency and daily effort will always get you the end result. No one got anywhere with just waiting for pot luck. Stop wishing, preying and hoping for a better outcome and go out and get what you deserve, because there is nothing stopping you from having what is rightfully yours, you just have to believe in it and yourself enough to allow it to come through. I believe in you, but you need to too. Elise x P.S- Check out the family selfie but most of all check out Khloe rocking a mouth full of food in the background! It ain't easy getting a family portrait...
07.01.2022 KNOWLEDGE IS THE POWER FORCE TO SUCCESS. How many times have you heard the saying Knowledge is power ? Have you stopped and thought that maybe it’s true? ... It 100% is the driving force behind success. Including mine. I could never have learnt to become an online marketer without learning everything I could on Facebook ads, generating leads and more. I needed to learn what it took to become successful in this business. I couldn’t just wing it! BUT, Without applying the knowledge you learn, you won’t retain much of it. It’s easy to learn new things, read a book, take a class to learn a new skill set. You might retain one or two things you learnt, but overall you won’t learn or retain near as much as you would if you take action on it. I find that teaching others what I know and learn helps me retain it a lot more. Is there anything you learnt today that you can go and teach someone else? You might have more of an impact on their life than you think. Elise x
05.01.2022 Having moments to share with my kids is more important to me than any one material object or thing. The love for the beach Riley and I have is a bond we will share for a long time. I know from now until forever we will both love heading to the beach either on our own, with friends and family or together. ... He’s a different boy when he’s at the beach, much like his Mum. It fills his cup and makes him smile. Every moment I spend on the beach with Riley is fun, special and precious. We build sandcastles, look for shells and run from the waves. Time will never stand still. So enjoy every moment. They are not young forever. Elise x
05.01.2022 CREATE A VISION SO LARGE YOU WILL SCARE THEM. When I first started out in the online world, I was scared. But not only that, I’m sure I scared those around me too. They had no idea what I was getting myself in to, what I was on about or who I was becoming. They didn’t know, what they didn’t know. And they probably still don’t know! But that’s okay. ... Everyone is entitled to their opinion. Good or bad. And those who love you, will always try to protect you, and the ones who love you even more will stick around. I was prepared to become who I wanted to be, and I knew I had to face up to a lot of inner demons, and outer ones in order to achieve my goals. I lost friends who I thought would be there, but I gained a whole online community of lifelong friendships as well. Becoming successful isn’t an easy ride, and anyone who tells you it is are lying or just don’t have success yet. It was only today that I realized a lot of the things on my vision board that I had created when I first started my career in online marketing, I had successfully achieved. Big things happen when you focus on them every single day, stay consistent and never doubt your ability to achieve greatness, OR let the opinions of others dull your light. If you see it in your mind, you can hold it in your hands. Whether they believe in you or not. It’s always up to you. This I 100% believe. Elise x
03.01.2022 I AM NO BETTER THAN YOU. There is no difference to what I have achieved, and what you can achieve. I get scared, nervous, and I still doubt myself and my ability to progress further in business and life. ... I go through the ups and downs, but I overcome them all. Because my wants and desires for a better life are far greater. I am just a regular, Aussie mum who wanted more and didn’t want to settle for normal. It does not mean I am better or more knowledgeable than you. The only difference between me and you is that I started earlier. I did the time, and you are yet to. Don’t ever doubt what you can achieve in life because of poor self- limiting beliefs, lack of education on a particular subject, and comparison. Comparison kills dreams. It is the biggest killer of them all. How many times have you held off starting that new gym class because your worried what she will say about you? How many times have you not brought that new top because your worried you won’t fit in? STOP COMPARING AND START TAKING ACTION. Next time you doubt ANYTHING you are wanting to do, just go and do it. How will you know if you never try? I didn’t know, but I tried!! So my message for you today is: You are worthy. You can do it. Believe in yourself. Take action and start your best life, because on the other side of fear is a beautiful journey waiting for you to get up and grab it. Elise x
03.01.2022 Sure you can Think and Grow Rich! But I believe you also need to Think and Grow Authentically! No point getting rich if you ain’t being you while doing it. You will never feel truly happy no matter what your bank account says if you aren’t letting the real you shine through. Even the crazy parts!... People are going to love you for being you, not for faking it. Stop playing the part in a life that isn’t for you. Elise x
03.01.2022 OUTSOURCING IS SMART! Want a way to level up your business and make more time for you? Outsource!!... It can be a huge block for women in business to have to do everything themselves, and they generally tend to take on far more then they can chew. But we aren’t meant to hustle 24/7. We actually attract more abundance by working from flow. Pay someone to do the things you don’t enjoy doing, or don’t have the time to do. Like cleaning your house, or editing your content videos etc. Then you’ll find you will have the time to do the things you enjoy, or concentrate on the important income producing activities. It’s smart. Not lazy. Elise x
03.01.2022 I love mum buns, overalls and long baths with a wine or two. Thanks for stopping by P.S- If you are a woman who needs to step out of her own way, get over the shit that’s held you back for too long, and get your confidence back so you can do the things you’ve always wanted to do- keep following because you’re going to love what I’m creating for you.
02.01.2022 A day out exploring is always a day well spent! Walking through the rainforest towards the beach was so beautiful. It’s something we don’t get to see where we are from.... The air smelt different and we could hear the birds in the trees. Khloe was pointing and smiling at everything she saw. It’s moments like these that remind me why we chose to live the nomad life. We might not have an address, but we have each other and this incredible country as our backyard, and that’s all we need. Elise
01.01.2022 THE OPINIONS OF OTHERS WON’T MATTER WHEN YOU’VE MADE IT. It took a year of self-love and personal development to make me realise how much the opinions of other people do not matter. I used to really worry what people thought of me, what they would say about me, and I even tried to be like others just to fit in....Continue reading
01.01.2022 MAKE A COMMITMENT TO YOURSELF. Sometimes people can find it hard to write down new goals or start new habits. They may see them as a chore. ... But what if you changed your mindset around a goal as such and rephrased it to a commitment. One to yourself. One that will allow you to feel like it is your obligation and responsibility to fulfill that commitment because if you don’t you are only letting yourself down. A goal can sometimes be perceived wrong, like it’s just a tick off a to- do list. Like it doesn’t really count, or have true meaning. Especially if it is a boss or someone else telling you what to do. I find if I fully commit and go all in on myself, I am far more likely to reach that end outcome. I feel disappointed in myself if I don’t pull through. I also find that writing down how I am going to feel once that commitment is complete and the outcome is achieved helps me move forward. It’s possible to not feel motivated at all to start a new commitment, but if you knew the exact emotions that will come with achieving it, and really feel them, and consider it done, then that can help you take that first step. Happy Sunday beautiful people Elise
