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25.01.2022 #MoFlos is a container for all of that. And all of YOU. Fleur x MoFlo’s is a monthly membership program. It’s a safe space for radical self-love and responsibility.... It’s where the magic and the mess get to exist in harmony. It’s real life and anything is possible. It’s about solid foundations and massive expansion. It’s for humans, who believe there is more for us and who genuinely want to be a force for good in the world. Who have a sense of the magic that exists within, and want to create something magnificent with that. Creatives, lightworkers, coaches, healers, artists, writers, mothers, sisters, life-livers, everything. It’s not about what you do, it’s about who you want to be. And then what happens next. Mindset. Faith. Trust. Commitment. Integrity. Authenticity. Support. Accountability. Expansion. Sound like something you need? DM me for the link x See more

24.01.2022 Pathway to Purpose 1. Remember who you are. (a) Love yourself hard. Self-care is the remedy. (b) Get a handle on how you get in your own way (distractions/patterns).... 2. Love yourself hard. 3. Listen for purpose/knowing. 4. Lean in (even if it feels too big). 5. Repeat 2.

24.01.2022 Ultimately, your job is just to find a pathway to being yourself. More and always. And you have to start at the beginning. And again each day. Before you’ve begun. Whole and holy. . . . Is MoFlo’s for you? It's a monthly membership program.... It’s a safe space for radical self-love and responsibility. It’s where the magic and the mess get to exist in harmony. It’s real life and anything is possible. It’s about solid foundations and massive expansion. It’s for humans, who believe there is more for us and who genuinely want to be a force for good in the world. Who have a sense of the magic that exists within, and want to create something magnificent with that. Creatives, lightworkers, coaches, healers, artists, writers, mothers, sisters, life-livers, everything. It’s not about what you do, it’s about who you want to be. And then what happens next. Mindset. Faith. Trust. Commitment. Integrity. Authenticity. Support. Accountability. Expansion. Sound like something you need? DM me for the link x

23.01.2022 Don’t ignore the callings of your soul. One day I realised that anxiety was my calling, calling me. From somewhere in the (well ignored) depths of my being an energy was making me feel so uncomfortable with my everyday life that I decided it was time to stop ignoring myself and start trying to work out what I needed. Starting with who I was. And then what was stopping me. And how I was distracting and hijacking myself. So, with space and awareness I could tap into my purpose, commit to that, make myself worthy of greater things, connect to the people who lifted me higher and then tap into the infinite resource of my feminine power to create magical things from a solid foundation. There are magnificent things for you in the world, and it’s time to do something about them.

22.01.2022 So I’m curious as always. Are you doing enough of the things that you would do if you didn’t think there were other things you’re ‘meant’ to be doing? And if you’re not, what’s your excuse? How do you make this OK even though your heart feels a bit broken? And what can you do about that? Because I promise you the best life and the deepest relationships are the ones where all the people are doing plenty of what they love (individually and together). And if you started with you, do you think that might make a difference? #moflos #fleurporter I coach people to find their purpose and craft it into something from what lives inside them. If you're curious about working with me, we should chat.

22.01.2022 Make a self-care list

20.01.2022 Note to self ... this To see ourselves - as in truly see ourselves - recognise who we are, what we believe in, what we value and what our deepest desires are is not an easy task. Sometimes, by the very way we operate, we have spent most of lives looking to others to guide us, validate us and give us permission. I spent much of my life being externally referenced and unable or unsure of who I truly was or what I needed to be happy. But until you can find a way to see yoursel...f, and show her to the world, you can not expect others to see you and know you. We cannot truly love others until we learn to love ourselves. Start with YOU. All my programs start with identity, self-awareness and radical responsibility. This is where your power lies. I find the best way to work out what you need and if I'm for you is to have a chat with me, to work out where you are, where you'd like to be and which pathway will take you there.

19.01.2022 Rise up ladies ... step into your power through the act of self-care. Make space for yourself (so you know what you need), and ask yourself to prioritise what you need. Don’t steal from yourself normalise saying the things we need to say to express that our needs are valid and worthy and that we need things to heal and be healthy and grow. To really be able to tap into your magnificence in everything that you are, you need to get out from under the system which holds you down. And that is one which makes us busy all the time, and that is a system which makes us not care for ourselves so that we don’t feel as great as we can feel. And then we’re not actually able to go out into the world and do what it is that we need, with the energy that we need to do it.

17.01.2022 There are lots of reasons why the MoFlos might be right for you: You’ll have a community. An opportunity of time and space to focus on what you need to do to get yourself and/or business to the next level and get yourself out of the way. You’ll be part of something. Nothing helps us expand more than feeling fully supported, connected and cared for.... You get the opportunity to collaborate. You may find someone in the group that is a perfect fit to work on a project with you. Or, you may be the perfect person to help another member as well. Or they might know someone who is the next connection you are looking for. The group works together collaboratively, to achieve more together. It’s a great place for growth. Everyone who commits to something like this is unique in skill, experience and connections. And there are so many opportunities to learn new things or expand. You can cross-promote each-other. When you are surrounded by amazing people doing amazing things it lifts your energy and vibration and is super inspiring. You’re also held accountable to the group and your commitments and get the opportunity to be the inspiration too... #moflos

16.01.2022 One day I realised that anxiety was my calling, calling me. From somewhere in the (well ignored) depths of my being an energy was making me feel so uncomfortable with my everyday life that I decided it was time to stop ignoring myself and start trying to work out what I needed. Starting with who I was. And then what was stopping me. And how I was distracting and hijacking myself. So, with space and awareness I could tap into my purpose, commit to that, make myself worthy of g...reater things, connect to the people who lifted me higher and then tap into the infinite resource of my feminine power to create magical things from a solid foundation. From this process I created the Incubator (incubating purpose). I’ve been running it for 5 years now and what happens when people (mostly women) go through the process is that things undeniably get better. When you start with yourself (healing, making whole, coming home, self-care and self-love) then suddenly you have more to offer and extend to the world. As yourself. It can be in the form of a creation (art, writing, craft, healing) and/or a business but mostly it’s about you getting back in alignment with who you truly are so you just KNOW what to do next. Relationships evolve (higher level), connection gets deeper (deeper level), people stop doing things that make them unhappy (jobs that aren’t right, obligations and expectations are let go of) and magic is created (art, businesses, writing, laughter, love). I know some of you have felt around the edges for ages, leaned it a bit and then pulled back. I know some of you are new to my work but something called you to and that’s why you’re here. Don’t ignore the callings of your soul. If I feel like someone who can help you, then I’m here. Pop your details in a message and I’ll call you (me, a real person) and we’ll talk and work out the plan forward. Be ready to lean into YOU. That’s where it starts. The moment you decide.

15.01.2022 There's this 'well' I've discovered. An infinite resource of ALL and EVERYTHING you need. It's only accessible in grace (it's a woman thing, pure feminine power). And grace needs space. And space comes from loving yourself so hard that there's room to breathe. And loving ourself hard is much easier when you know what there is to love. . . #fleurporter

15.01.2022 Just stop for a moment. Breathe deeply and ground your feet. And start where you are. Here is perfect, and all you have to do is the next, one, first thing.

15.01.2022 There’s a big shift in the world to a higher level of consciousness. This can be as woo-woo as you like, but to me higher consciousness is about being more aware and deliberate in your actions and reactions to things. Knowing why something annoys you off or why something brings you joy. Life is meant to be about joy. And many of us are just too busy to notice. Are you interested in not being so busy? Have you had enough of the overwhelm of survival mode and just getting throu...gh each day to it do it again the next day? Even with a life that has great things, do you find yourself unfulfilled and discontent and wonder why you’re such a miserable cow and where the woman went you used to be? Have you always had a sense there was more for you even though you couldn’t put your finger on it? One day I realised that anxiety was my calling, calling me. From somewhere in the (well ignored) depths of my being an energy was making me feel so uncomfortable with my everyday life that I decided it was time to stop ignoring myself and start trying to work out what I needed. Starting with who I was. And then what was stopping me. And how I was distracting and hijacking myself. So, with space and awareness I could tap into my purpose, commit to that, make myself worthy of greater things, connect to the people who lifted me higher and then tap into the infinite resource of my feminine power to create magical things from a solid foundation. From this process I created the Incubator (incubating purpose). I’ve been running it for 5 years now and what happens when people (mostly women) go through the process is that things undeniably get better. When you start with yourself (healing, making whole, coming home, self-care and self-love) then suddenly you have more to offer and extend to the world. As yourself. It can be in the form of a creation (art, writing, craft, healing) and/or a business but mostly it’s about you getting back in alignment with who you truly are so you just KNOW what to do next. Relationships evolve (higher level), connection gets deeper (deeper level), people stop doing things that make them unhappy (jobs that aren’t right, obligations and expectations are let go of) and magic is created (art, businesses, writing, laughter, love). I know some of you have felt around the edges for ages, leaned it a bit and then pulled back. I know some of you are new to my work but something called you to and that’s why you’re here. Don’t ignore the callings of your soul. If I feel like someone who can help you, then I’m here. Pop your details in a message and I’ll call you (me, a real person) and we’ll talk and work out the plan forward. Be ready to lean into YOU. That’s where it starts. The moment you decide.

14.01.2022 If you don’t know what you’re responsible for, then you won’t know what you want and/or need to feel whatever it is that you’re seeking happiness or peace or fulfilment or freedom or meaning or love or whatever that is for you. I work a lot with very responsible people, kind, caring, dedicated, do a good job, want others to be happy, want to be seen as responsible and important and the weight of their responsibilities is both a driver and a burden. And ultimately exhausting.... The over-responsible are trying to manage things that aren’t theirs to manage and thus will not and cannot change and are also generally deeply disappointed in themselves for this. When I first started doing any ‘work’ on myself I found the power of radical self-responsibility thrilling. It made so much sense that I was responsible for myself and how my life was turning out and I felt sure I could transform everything in no time at all because no-one else (usually the person I was in a relationship with) could keep messing shit up for me if I knew it was all happening because of me. Initially it worked because all the pressure came off them. Initially it worked because I was clear and motivated and certain and sure and focussed on the right things. I practiced forgiveness and focussing on what I wanted, not what I didn’t want, and stopped collecting evidence and wasting most of my time having arguments in my head with people who may or may not have been having arguments with me. It was liberating. Then every time there was an argument or a problem, I knew the problem was ‘me’ so could just keep working on myself. No responsibility to anyone else. But underneath that some things hadn’t changed. And it was just a redirection of all the judgement and negative energy onto myself. And the same (shitty) stuff kept showing up, and I was so mad at myself for not being ‘better’ at this thing called life and relationships and was simultaneously angry and guilty and everything looped right back around again to almost the same place I began. However, I also discovered once you start the ‘work’ you can’t ‘un-know’ it you can pretend to forget that you know that you have all the power, and momentarily get back into blame and victimhood and ‘why me?’ but you know, deep in the place in you that knows everything, that the only person who can get you out of this is you. The MotherFlockers. A safe space for radical self-responsiblity. Is it calling you? Dm me for the link x See more

14.01.2022 Retreat : a quiet or secluded place in which one can rest and relax. synonyms: refuge haven resort sanctuary Why retreat?... When we allow ourselves the time and space to come back to our body and out of our minds we allow ourselves to truly feel how our lives are currently fitting with our soul. Do you have days that you just don't feel like they flow, you end up doing so many things you don't want to be doing and just don't know how you got here? Retreat and reflect, there’s a beautiful program organised to allow you to connect within, staying at the beautiful Nannup Hideaway Spa Cottages & Retreats Run away to the woods with The Sacred Feminine Tracy Hill for the weekend...... Click the link below Dates November 27 - 30 November https://fb.me/e/33wpQKj3d

13.01.2022 The 8 Week Incubator. I’ve been running it for 5 years now and what happens when people (mostly women) go through the incubator process is that things undeniably get better. When you start with yourself (healing, making whole, coming home, self-care and self-love) then suddenly you have more to offer and extend to the world. As yourself. It can be in the form of a creation (art, writing, craft, healing) and/or a business but mostly it’s about you getting back in alignment w...ith who you truly are so you just KNOW what to do next. Relationships evolve (higher level), connection gets deeper (deeper level), people stop doing things that make them unhappy (jobs that aren’t right, obligations and expectations are let go of) and magic is created (art, businesses, writing, laughter, love). Don’t ignore the callings of your soul. There are magnificent things for you in the world, and it’s time to do something about them. To feel simultaneously excited and terrified is how it rolls for most people who work with me. I think they know I won’t let them get away with hiding anymore, and they’re so ready to be seen. If you’re sick of settling and running away from your calling just stop running. Plant your feet, ground yourself and take a deep breath. Choose you. If I feel like someone who can help with that, then I’m here. DM me and I’ll call you (me, a real person) and we’ll talk and work out the plan forward. You will need to be ready (scared is OK, but you must be ready to lean into that) to invest your time, energy and money into YOU. That’s where it starts. The moment you decide.

12.01.2022 Boundaries are all about teaching people how to treat you. Including you. Sometimes you need to learn how to treat you first so that you can teach others how to treat you. I liken boundaries to a safety bubble inside which you are safe, but you can take things in and let things out, but only things that fit within your own value of yourself. They are not a set of harsh rules for other people, they are something within which you know how you’re going to show up, what choices ...you need to make and what things you need to say to the people who push up against them. Like kids. Husbands. Some friends. Family. Clients. Without healthy boundaries or with very weak boundaries, you simply cannot have healthy relationships. You give up a part of yourself or what you value to be available or accommodating. Or you become so caught up with another person and their needs so much that you lose your own identity. This puts you out of alignment with your integrity and leads to a loss of self-respect and the respect of those around you. And underneath all of this is fear. It’s the fear we won’t be loved, that we aren’t good enough or deserving enough just as we are. When we respond to life from this point of emotional weakness, we are letting go of our integrity in order to get love and acceptance from others. And usually not much, about as much as we have for ourselves. https://fleurporter.com/start/incubator-8-week-program/

10.01.2022 2021 has those feels. If it’s time to change the world, start with yours. It all works out, I promise. You have to make the first move though #incubateHER #purposeintensive #flock22 Starts Feb 2021. Come join us x

09.01.2022 2020 has been a strange year so far hey? It’s certainly changed things up (or down) a lot. What I’ve wanted to do this year, more than anything, has been to support the clients who I was already committed to, whilst managing the weird shifts and changes happening in the world and within my family. We’re mostly ‘back to normal’ around here. It’s mid school holidays and my youngest two are midst cleaning their rooms which means basically the entire content of the hoarding 9 and... 12-year-old is spread over the closest adjacent room. Sorting has to be done in 15 minutes bursts followed by 1 hour ‘breaks’ to rest and recuperate for next 15 minutes of wild sorting. It’s slow. I’m pained. And I’m also patient. 2020 taught me that. If we’re all going to be at home with each other for months on end there’s no need to rush. Everything happens anyway. The busy-ness momentarily disappeared. My work has been necessary and continuing and ever-morphing and evolving, but constant. Perhaps purpose became more valuable. As we were forced to slow down, confined to our homes and now out States, we had to start noticing what existed right in front of us. We could fight it or appreciate it. Or both at the same time. But I noticed my anxiety rose again. And I started to say I was ‘busy’ and I noticed my stress, and I wondered why on earth I was here again. I think I momentarily forgot my purpose...... https://fleurporter.com/have-you-had-enough-of-the-overwhe/

09.01.2022 Radical self-responsibility is LIBERATING. Let's just look at it in regards to the business of other people. And getting all up in other people's business. When you focus on someone else’s business: 1. They don’t have to, because you’ve got all the worrying/stress/motivation covered. 2. You don’t have to focus on your own business and sorting out the things that worry/stress/motivate you. 3. It will be easy to feel like the problem is them, and if they sort their issues and s...tress, everyone will feel better and they won’t do anything to sort the issue or stress and the problem won’t get sorted it will just grow in size and focus and energy and no-one gets on with the fully important job of sorting out their own business. #moflos

08.01.2022 Made it to Perenjori It’s the ‘long’ way to Perth where I’m heading for the next @relationshipwarriorcode event I’m travelling with my gorgeous co-facilitating friend and her kids (they are stopping here with their Nan) and have an Incubator Q&A to run. So here I am. An aircon’d space with wifi and a back-up band.... I’ve already done one Q&A today for #moflos on how to learn to trust your intuition and later I have a @rrrnetwork Board meeting and then prep for the event. There is time for everything We can expand. And so can time x

05.01.2022 I believe that nothing is by chance. Not that I believe it’s all mapped out for us, and nothing you do can change that. I just believe that when you expand, and let go and trust in something bigger than yourself that clarity comes and then guidance and the next best step. https://fleurporter.com/how-to-not-give-up/

05.01.2022 Purpose can be hard to identify. The lack of purpose is expressed in many forms - including a lack of fulfilment, feeling dissatisfied or discontent daily, depression, anxiety and/or overwhelm. You may know you want more for yourself and your life, but you may not know what this is. Often you are searching - with jobs, relationships, ideas - for the answer by doing more, but the busy-ness just creates more uncertainty and less clarity. Finding your purpose - the sense and/or ...the words to express it requires one thing - SPACE. Inside. Internal space. Calm. Clarity. Inner peace. My Incubator 8 week program (next one starts mid Feb) is a process designed to set the foundations for a purposeful life. All the things you need to know (or unlearn) to clarify your purpose and craft it alive in the life or business you already have. You can find out more on my website or book in for a FREE 45 minute session where we can chat about whether the Incubator is right for you. https://fleurporter.com/start/incubator-8-week-program/

05.01.2022 This beautiful. Beach. Sunshine. Family. Friends. All the foods. Holidays

05.01.2022 Boundaries are a big topic.... BIG. And the topic comes up a lot. Not because anything specific has happened, just because boundaries is one of those topics that goes around and around. As a necessary 'evil'. Something that must be noticed and reviewed and adjusted and sorted, so that the world (and each of us) works. Sometimes we don't even know that we have a boundaries issue. Boundaries are like that. We’re so good at convincing ourselves that a lack of boundaries is nece...ssary, nice, important, just how life is, what’s expected and every other reason we can think of. And so, we merrily (not so merrily) sail on with life feeling resentful, angry, exhausted, invaded, pressured and confused. So here’s the run-down on practical boundaries .... I'll put my scientist hat on and try to explain something energetic more strategic, something magical more scientific. You need to understand why boundaries are important and how you behave when they are not in place. Boundaries provide the safety net a space within which you hold space for yourself and are safe and OK no matter what is happening around you. They teach people how to treat you, even though most of the time they are implicit (unspoken) and energetic. If you KNOW your own boundaries and they are firm and real and true people don’t mess with them. Or you. And if they do, you still feel OK. And if you don’t have bold boundaries you will have to find other ways to protect yourself usually an energy that may be standoffish, or go away energy, or big walls, avoiding people and/or situations that make you feel challenged, doing whatever you can to get the pressure off (procrastinating, distracting, avoiding, disappearing). And none of this changes anything. Except you may feel lonely, resentful and exhausted a lot. Find it hard to say no. Or say yes to the things you don’t enjoy. Turn into someone you barely recognise. This was also me. I was like that. Mother, Scientist, Farmer, Wife ... trying to juggle and do it all and deep down missing some foundations that I didn't even know I was missing ... And so through my own process, I created my 'Incubator' course. And I call it the incubator, because when you do this course you will start to unearth and move things around, protect and nurture and allow 'out' the bits of you that you are not honouring. It's amazing and my FAVOURITE program by far. The results that women have achieved through this process make me full of joy. If you would like to find out more about the incubator or how you might work with me, then reach out for a free chat first. It's confidential, free, strategic and clarifying. You can decide where to go from there.

05.01.2022 If you start doing the work one day everything will crystallise and you’ll know that your own happiness or freedom or peace and outcomes, transformation and living into your potential is the only thing you can be responsible for as in, have power over, lead yourself to and influence. What does this look like? It looks like getting up and writing in the early morning overlooking the trees (if this is your thing)... It looks like saying no to some things and yes to some things you’ve been saying no to (those things you think mess with other peoples’ happiness and/or satisfaction with you) It looks like knowing your core values and allowing them to be guiding force in decisions It looks like saying I love you and I’m never going to leave you, but we did a really shitty job of that conversation about money/the kids/sex/our next holiday and we need to get better at that It looks like speaking up about how you really feel I feel scared/sad/hurt/angry right now and that is nothing to do with you, but I need some time to feel better so we can talk about this differently It looks like going to yoga/paddle-boarding/ a walk on the beach/extra dessert/your music on the stereo/burning incense/reading a book for no reason at all It looks like quietly and gently exiting a room when there’s nothing constructive to add and going to a space where you can feel better so you can show up better It looks like showing up (even and especially when you don’t know how) It looks like reading all the books and listening to all the podcasts and talking to the people who have insight. Or praying for insight and letting the book or the podcast or the movie or the music or the card deck deliver the message It’s expanding when you want to contract It’s boundaries in practical application (sorry this is another whole post) It’s surrender, forgiveness and letting go Need some support to crystallise your own version of that? #moflos Monthly Membership. Weekly trainings. Daily support. $222 per month, payable monthly, leave when you want or stay forever x DM me for the link

04.01.2022 Blue footed boobies. For your viewing pleasure They sure know how to stroll x

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03.01.2022 Space to me is a feeling. Spacious. It’s room inside. It’s room to breathe. To be. Space is light, there are no hidden corners or dust monsters. Just pure and full. The ultimate oxymoron. When you have space (inside space, space inside) you are full. Whole. Holy.

03.01.2022 Stopping. Honouring. Creating space and emptying out everything that is not satisfying at a soul level so that what is can arise. Space to me is a feeling. Spacious. It’s room inside that doesn’t feel empty, just open. It’s room to breathe. To be. Space is light, there are no hidden corners or dust monsters. Just pure and full. The ultimate oxymoron. When you have space (inside space, space inside) you are full. Whole. Holy. Slowly my space has evolved and at a practical an...d physical level the space I have for work and writing and being is pretty special. Big windows, views all the way to the ocean, trees outside, the energy of the wind, soft underfoot, cool or warm when it needs to be, good smells, feels like home. However, none of the physical and practical space benefits mean much when inside there’s no room. Making space (inside) is really another variation on the act of putting yourself first unselfishly. Selflessness so you can be all you are all (or most) of the time. Without space (or being full first) the energy you emit is actually one of pushing away. It's contracted, not expansive. I know a way to create space. Space inside. If you’re curious about the best way to work with me, we should chat. No pressure. Just an honest look at where you are.

01.01.2022 Create space Space to me is a feeling. Spacious. It’s room inside that doesn’t feel empty, just open. It’s room to breathe. To be. Space is light, there are no hidden corners or dust monsters. Just pure and full. The ultimate oxymoron. When you have space (inside space, space inside) you are full. Whole. Holy. Ultimately, your job is just to find a pathway (any guide that resonates with you is OK) to being yourself. More and always. And you have to start at the beginning. B...efore you’ve begun. With space. Whole and holy. #moflos

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