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24.01.2022 One of the struggles with personal development is that moment when I am standing off with my own reflection. I’ve faced off with some seriously difficult bosses, under skilled, unpowered, unprepared and out of luck. You want a real life boss fight try challenging your reflection, your past. All that you’ve been, all that you’ve done, be honest with yourself. This is your backstory. ... My backstory, if I’ve learnt nothing else from games, is not as important as what I do next. I’ve got no control over where I’ve been, it’s done, that happened. Where I go from here, it’s my choice, my decision. I say it’s about time to break free of the old me. The me that kicks me when I’m down. The me that would rather escape when do work that may make a difference not only in my life but potentially in someone else’s. I’m going to be the best me I can, it’s funny really. Who would have thought I’d just need to let myself go.

22.01.2022 If the doorway to success is built upon healthy habits then consistency is the key that opens the door. After all the way we do one thing is the way we do everything. That’s what it means to be invested.

21.01.2022 Why complain when we have the power to set things right? Complaining is easy, complain enough and someone else will look after it, complain requires no work and fulfils a sense of responsibility, a duty of care. Let me tell you now this (expressing my own personal opinion) is the wrong way to be thinking.... If it's in our power to change something that you could complain about then, I'm going to say we, have a duty and responsibility to act. I work as a trolley collector for a grocery store, I hear complaints about things remaining in the trolleys, comments about how others leave them everything in a car park. Today my response to a gentle expressing his opinion was "I don't sweet it, I can't train monkeys after all." He chuckled and went about his day. Now why do I think this? "NOTHING CHANGES UNTIL WE DO." You want to change the world, want to make a difference? THEN DO SOMETHING DIFFERENT!!!

21.01.2022 T s s . M s s , s s I s s s.

17.01.2022 Letting go of limiting expectations has been has been one of the greatest developments in my life. I enjoy cooking, expanding my culinary skills and repertoire. Nothing better then a bit of experimentation to allow some creative juices to flow. The reality in the kitchen is that each recipe is a blueprint, a guide, but there’s no one way to cook a dish. ... Taking this lesson out of the kitchen I don’t need to expect things of people. I hope for things for individuals. I don’t expect programs to be run perfectly, no hiccups. I instead hope that I’ve prepared myself to face them head on. I don’t simply expect greatness. I work to create greatness. Note a great system in my opinion is simple to understand and follow, easy to teach and is efficient. Now I’ve been taught some great tools for life, the next best thing I can do is share them.

15.01.2022 I’m curious, what tools do you have, what lessons have you gained, to ride the waves we call life

15.01.2022 I choose not to sweet over the small things, though it's the small things I often have to do right. Why I choose not to sweet the small things is because when we're so caught up in the small things we loose sight of the large things. I mean can you imagine playing a game so fixated on this tincey wincey ugly snub nose cross eyed bald and twisted goblin that you don't even notice the big bad angry and mean, menacing 18ft boss loaming behind it? I certainly hope not. The sm...all things I often can handle alone, that said lots of little things can become quite overwhelming, that's but one reason why I live life with a team in my corner that I can rely on, depend on. The large things, well lets just say I'm somewhat more cautious of around. The large things, I know I can't handle comfortably on my own they're the reason why effective communication, leadership, research and strong connections are all important to me personally. Most of this, believe it or not, I've learnt as a gamer playing team dependant, strategy based games. Rule one is often "Stay Alive." Sure FPS (First person shooters, not frames per second) have their place, but it's why I love team based objectives and RPG's (Role Playing Games, not to be mistaken for Rocket Propelled Grenades though some have those too). Not all gaming is bad, it's surprising what skills we can pick up and what we can learn.

15.01.2022 Okay let’s get the story straight. I am Somebody who matters, I am made of matter which matters and I am important, even if only in my version of the world. Why am I important?... Because I have the power to change the world. Funnily enough so do you, so does everybody. My name is Harley Dan Kenneth Brasher, born in the year 1995. It was a good year, don’t ask me what i remember from it, it’s more than just a blur. That’s where my story starts, but it’s not the story that matters, it’s the lesson we’ve learned through the journey. The elements of my story thus far are built on change, grief, isolation, desperation, judgement, determination, consistency, compassion, love, respect, courtesy, consideration and possibility. What I’ve learnt is how to be resilient, what strength can look like, the importance of establishing meaningful connections, where to draw the lines, how to manage my money, developing a work ethic, the need to be consistent, the art of communication (can be a beautiful thing) and probably one of the best breakthroughs is understanding how I give and receive love. This is my story, this is me. Now if I can help people, my people, your people, OUR PEOPLE (we all have to share the earth), to see what power they do have, maybe, just maybe we can change the world. Want to know the details send me a message or leave a question in the comments section. I don’t mind sharing my experiences.

15.01.2022 This is one guy whose shoulders I hope to stand on. For we are here standing on top of giants every single day, and all each giant is just hoping to raise the next person higher, that they may see even further beyond the horizon than the last. He is the founder of Team Resilience Academy, he is one of my mentors, he is at times an individual who brings me into my most uncomfortable spaces but he never leaves me in them.... Trent Shaw is a Giant among giants.

15.01.2022 Budget Mastery. All my weekly expenses; groceries, board, course work, fuel. Are in credit with dedicated savings made each week and I still have a bit left over for any extras.

11.01.2022 When I’m blocked, or self doubt creeps in, I remember what I must do. I must allow, allow, allow. Allow to enable and enable to allow, allow, allow. When I don’t allow myself to be more I build walls. ... When I don’t enable myself to be empowered I may as well be cutting myself down at the knees. The world will give me their best shot. I don’t need to help my adversary hewn me down. What I must allow is growth, allow challenges, allow opportunities. Don’t get me wrong it’s not all fun and games. It is however part of the process. Moving into a coaching space this goes two fold. I must allow myself and I must allow all those I work with the same.

11.01.2022 For as long as I’m uncertified, my services come complimentary. That said I wonder what shifts I can make for you in your life. My first client learned a tool for living life with a lighter and more free mind.... I wonder what I’ll achieve with the next person open enough to work with me.

11.01.2022 Wise teacher indeed.

10.01.2022 What might an environment allows safety to fail, learn from and grow, look like. That’s an environment of acceptance, perpetual growth, endless opportunity and ...perhaps community, where we feel safe to experiment, fall short, fall flat and have the courage, support, confidence and resolve to get back up again and again and again. What would this kind of environment look like? As an individual what would this feel like? As a community how might we do things differently? As a people what might change if in the world we live in and share, it was okay to make mistakes, own them, learn from them and consequently grow with our mistakes? Honestly that’s an environment I’d love to live in, and an environment I’m trying to build within myself.

10.01.2022 Yo. Yes you. What would changing the way the way you see the world do for you. Yeah that’s right I’m talking about a change of perception.... What if I told you, the very way we perceive the world is how we define it. The way I see the world, everything I’m in control of, well it starts with me. Every scar I have, they tell part of my story, part of a lesson I’ve learnt. Sometimes the lessons just have to be learned the hard way, sometimes the hurt and cut deep. Scars are made so the lessons aren’t soon forgotten but they also testify that I made it through to see the other side. Imagine that our scars are the very thing that make us stronger, wiser, that little bit more courageous and that much more empowered to be more, learn and grow. This personally is what I think it means to have beautiful scars.

10.01.2022 The importance of showing up. Here's the reality, even if you're the alone other person to show up you've already done more than most. It's rather hard to become successful, some would suggest even impossible, if you don't so up.... Perhaps simply from showing up, you might learn something, or take something away and in the simple act of showing up and being present you're giving yourself the advantage. I'm learning all this right as I'm showing up to be more through an online course. The course itself has meant showing up for my budget. Money is finite but my funds are manageable. I'm in the black and not everyone can say that. I'm also showing up online with social media hoping to attract people ready to do the work looking for a bit more growth. It's not easy but hey the best I can do is show u right now. Lastly I'm also showing up because I have a voice, I want people to know and truly understand that they are not alone. For a long time I was a victim to passive bullying, I became socially reclusive, that life was just easier than be involved and feeling like nobody cared I was even there. The best part, that doesn't have to be my life, I can choose how I live and can make strong bonds with individuals important to me.

09.01.2022 Even in the broken things one can still find beauty. I’d argue that there’s nothing more beautiful than a broken thing made stronger. When life knocks be away, sometimes a piece of breaks inside. What to do, what else, I pick up the pieces, stick myself back together again and become that little bit more resilient to the next blow. This is otherwise known as growth through and or in-spite of adversity. Don’t get me wrong life can certainly be a very delicate and fragile thing. I’m just not done yet.

09.01.2022 Some people love numbers. If you love working with numbers talk to this guy Trent Shaw. I love patterns, breaking patterns down to their core and building new o...nes. If you have old patterns you want to understand, or you want to build new patterns, then lets talk. Drop a comment or emoji below :)

09.01.2022 I work with much love and I do what I can to own my space. Here’s a shout out for someone I have indirectly helped as they were helping me.

08.01.2022 Escapism What is? Escapism is at its essence running away from a reality we don’t want to face, fear facing or simply ignore because to acknowledge reality is to accept it and take responsibility for it.... In a very real sense escapism has been the very tool that has allowed me to forget the problems of my past. Forget how I’m allowing my life to be shaped and influenced, forget my responsibilities and commitments, forget about work and things calling to my attention even to leave my own problems, my own fears behind. To have no problems that’s sounds great, but it’s only great in theory. No problems means no growth, no challenges, no stimulation, no development. Without challenges I would be nothing but a blank piece of paper with no story to share. It doesn’t matter what I’m escaping or through which medium I actually find my escape. The reality is that I’m trying not to face my present and by failing to own everyday, not only am I passively allowing not serving myself, everyday will own me. Just like that I’ve allowed myself to be a slave to someone else’s grand design. Now there are some serious cons that come with escapism include victimisation, dissociation, loneliness, anxiety, increased stress be it mental exhaustion, physical fatigue and emotional insecurity. All this, any of this, can lead towards a crippling fear of our perceived world and give rise to depression. Referring back to earlier another con is also the lack of personal development and growth. Being a gamer I through high school escaped to worlds of fantasy. I could be the strong protector, fearless and adventurous, I’d see the worlds others created never really reflecting on my own. Pro while escaping I, we, perhaps you, don’t need to think about it the problems of today, tomorrow or even those of yesterday. But that lasts only as long as we escape our reality. While I don’t know about you and yours, unfortunately no matter what I do to escape my problems they always catch up to me. So what’s left to do? I can’t escape my past, I can’t evade my future, the only control I have anything over is what I do with my present moment. My life is mine, alive or thrive, I’m responsible, I decide. Likewise you can choose for yourself, not saying it will be easy, alive just being or thriving and really living, what will you choose I wonder.

04.01.2022 My toolbox and what's in it; Spanner Set Wrench Screw driver set of phillips and flat heads ... Allen Keys Security Torque Tools Socket Set Eyes, nose and mouth protection Duct tape A few good knives Lots of rope Pen and paper Wire Gumption Duc tape Tape Measure Plumbers Wrench Reseating tool for taps Wire Striper I think one of the only hand held tools I'm missing is a hammer. These are all tools to deal with physical problems. Not every problem I have is physical and that don't all need 'fixing' . I am a religious man and I'll be honest I don't read scripture nearly as much as I ought to be. That said my scriptures are part of my toolbox. Scripture is not a bad place to start when wanting to learn some good ethics and decency. Scripture has also helped me out when presented with moral quandaries. That's my physical and religious toolbox sorted. Lastly my tools to support emotional intelligence and a balanced life. Tool for emotional balance -This tool allows me to skip the rollercoaster that emotional imbalance creates -Promotes awareness and helps with recognising my own habits (especially the self destructive - don't serve me) and patterns -Provides opportunity for; knowledge, understanding and wisdom -Raises the quality of questions I ask about my self and others -Promotes positive self talk -Assists in breaking through my own emotional blocks -Assists in shifting my perception of events allowing me to view life from another angle -Assists in overcoming emotional blocks -Assists in understanding and conquering old loyalties and beliefs Tool for recognising my values and living an aligned life -Creates a reality check -Helps lived a fulfilling and aligned life -Promotes clarity with an increased understanding of own desires and needs -Creates an opportunity for increased communication -Assists in discovering old limiting loyalties and beliefs *Note: Values and traits are different, traits are things like; honesty, integrity, empathy. Things that I value I can have and hold onto, they are measured based on my perceived worth. Last I'll mention is a tool for positive reinforcement -increases desire to improve -promotes acceptance of self -assists in creating energy shifts for yourself -uses own evidence as support, as opposed to feeding into ego and BS. I wonder what's in your toolbox? I know how to use each of my tools, if you do not know, I'm happy to teach, by all means book a call with me. It is important to use the right tool for the right job. https://calendly.com/harleybrasher/face2face I use zoom as my platform for everything formal