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25.01.2022 Narcissists believe that they are a law to themselves. They hate being pinned down and answerable to anybody. The narcissist believes that if they were to fall ...in line, this would reduce them to being the same as everybody else, which their False Self finds incomprehensible. How can a False Self retain its fictitious engineered construction of vast superiority if having to do what one is told? Narcissists regularly flaunt their way of doing things. They break the rules. They tell people what they want to hear and then do the exact opposite. They even engage in criminal activities that fulfil the agendas of garnishing the energy, acclaim and things that the narcissist relentlessly chases. There are many telltale signs that someone is a narcissist, but 11 of them stand out. These 11 signs are serious, and I know that you will relate to so much of it if you are dealing with a narcissist in your life. https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-11-telltale-signs.../ So that you can get to the bottom of all of this to understand if what you’re dealing with is mild, moderate or extreme abuse, you can take a quick quiz to get your answer! TAKE THE QUIZ- https://go.bucketquizzes.com/sf/9b180876 Much love xo

19.01.2022 You married a wife! Not a maid!!

18.01.2022 8 Signs Your Suffering From Narcissistic Abuse Number 1: Your Relationship Is Not Kind, Caring Or Sane Now, this is where we need to get clear. Toxic relationsh...ips can be very confusing at times, making it difficult to know ‘who is who in the zoo’. This happens because a toxic person will spin it back on you, blame you, and not be accountable. If someone hurts you and is not capable of a genuine apology, and you keep hanging out with this person, they will continue to hurt you. They will never be remorseful and, of course, will continue the same behaviour. We do need to understand what out-of-bounds behaviour is. It can range from name-calling to physical abuse, mental abuse and pathological lying, to having no regard for your property or the people you care about. The list goes on and on. Check out this article Are You With a Narcissist? - https://bit.ly/3dG2hw0 so that you can get very clear about what narcissistic behaviours are. If you are in a relationship with a person who repeats out-of-bound behaviours that are violating and hurtful, first of all, know our Inner Being always registers this! This means you are being abused. If this person makes - * false or non-existent apologies, * has no respect or care for your feelings, * blames you for the problems, * smears you to others, telling them you are the bad guy or girl and that it is he or she who is being abused, then this is absolutely narcissistic. The Truth About This People either have a decent character, or they don’t. We are not going to change who people are it is us who needs to change for us to have any chance of a healthy, loving and happy life. That entails letting go of our connection to someone like this, healing ourselves by doing the inner work and getting very clear about our own self-love, self-worth, boundaries, and generating real, loving and responsible adult relationships in the future. A person like this does not have the resources to grant us this but we can. I’ve put together a free 16 Day Recovery Course that includes all my best resources. It will help you identify exactly what you are dealing with, how to start getting relief from the pain as soon as possible and show you what steps you need to take to overcome this nightmare: https://bit.ly/3uBADHv. Much love xo

17.01.2022 What is addiction, and how does it hijack your being? I certainly do not want to step on anyone’s toes regarding the theory of addiction. I am aware of the chem...ical and physiological manifestations and I would like to put forth that I believe the addiction (including the physiological manifestations) is a symptom of the issues rather than the issue itself. I believe the addiction is simply what the person reaches for to try and burn off the pain (the anxiety) of having a void in their inner self. It is an attempt to relieve the pain of not being at one with one’s self. If the addiction could be an actual substitute for the inner void, that might be okay, but it never can. In fact, by engaging in addictive or obsessive behaviours, what occurs is self-avoidance. Self-avoidance creates an inability to look at what is causing the obsessive compulsion and healing the real issue which prevents a healthy connection to the inner self being established. Of course, this self-avoidance may not be conscious. In fact, it is likely not to be. The truth is, bit by bit, from early childhood, we were disconnected from ourselves, and we became more and more used to self-avoiding. Many of us have been in denial with our compulsions or even addictions and had wonderful excuses for them. If the compulsion is caretaking others, this means we are empaths with big hearts. If it is workaholism, we are doing a fantastic job providing for our family. If it is sex, this may be rationalised as being a physical, sensual person. If it is alcohol, it may be passed off as ‘I deserve a drink after working so hard and so forth. The truth is unless we were brought up through childhood with the regular messages You are worthy. You are lovable. I believe in you we did not grow up with a solid inner self. The older we got, the more we disconnected from loving and accepting ourselves. The more challenges and disappointments we faced, the more we tried to use stuff on the outside to fill our inner void as a substitute to feel loved, whole, and worthy. Hence what caused and exasperated obsessive and addictive behaviours. Like most victims of narcissistic abuse, I had some severe obsessive behaviours. When I was younger, it was extreme drinking binges. As I got older, even though the alcoholic binges stopped, smoking and workaholism persisted. These habits were very unconscious for me, even though they were obvious. Like most addictions, I had all sorts of excuses. The obsessive pulls and urges would come up when I was suffering the most anxious times. In these times when my inner void was at its worst, rather than attending to the real issues, I would use smoking or work to self-avoid instead. All I was doing was shoving my inner pain back down. As a temporary measure, I would feel relief in those choices but the underlying anxiety and pain was never dealt with and was always continuing to re-surface. The more and more disconnected from my inner self, the more delusional and powerless my life became. I hope you can relate and know that if you are honest with yourself, there is every chance you can. Your addictions may not be as obvious as mine were, or maybe they are more extreme. These addictions could be any obsessive act such as eating, being on the internet, shopping, seeing people constantly, etc. In the upcoming Thrive Membership Program, you will learn how to let go of unhealthy habits like junk food, smoking, drinking, procrastinating and other self-avoiding and self-sabotaging patterns. In the group live Quanta Freedom Healings, you will release the trauma generating the obsessions and learn to fill up on Source, so the urges lessen and disappear. Check out what other help you can expect in this brand new hands-on program - https://www.melanietoniaevans.com/thrive.htm Everyone at MTE is extremely excited to welcome you into the program and help you transform. Much love xo

16.01.2022 Trying to please and change and fix others comes from being ABUSED. You may have been assaulted mentally, emotionally, physically, spiritually or sexually. This... ranges from emotional and mental putdowns, betrayals and threats, to actual physical violence. Maybe you suffered inconsistencies, where you didn't know where the boundaries lay one day to the next. You may have had depressed, sick or addictive role models who were unpredictable. This taught you at a young age that foundational people in your life were not safe. Because you could not implement your own boundaries or leave, there was no other option other than trying to read other people and behave in ways to stop them from hurting you. You may have tried to make yourself invisible. Maybe you attempted to appease them. Possibly you left as soon as you could and then found yourself in similar situations. You likely feel other people's energy intensely, it makes you anxious, and you try to do all that you can for them so that they will love and care for you. When this doesn't work, you try your best to explain to people how they behave badly and justify yourself, explaining why you are a good person. It doesn't work. The more you try to control what this person is or isn't doing, the more they escalate the abuse and the more out-of-control you feel. Does this sound familiar? I really want you to understand that unconsciousness is unconsciousness. People have to get better to do better. Many of our parents or primary caregivers were the product of their own toxic family dynamics. Many of them were carrying the unconscious wounds that were causing them to react in specific ways with minimal under-developed resources. This post is not about holding our parents or primary caregivers responsible. It is about raising our consciousness to understand that the only person that we can heal is ourselves. I heard a great quote the other day I'd like to share with you ... Family dysfunction rolls down from generation to generation, like a fire in the woods, taking down everything in its path until one person in one generation has the courage to turn and face the flames. That person brings peace to their ancestors and spares the children that follow. Terry Real. Are you that person in your family who is ready to heal? If so, please join me in the next free Healing Webinar and together, let's heal - https://bit.ly/39J1hpV. Much love to you and your family xo

14.01.2022 Our attachment style determines everything in our relationships from who we want as our partners to how our relationships will end. This video will help you un...derstand how attachment patterns in adult intimate relationships are guided by the emotional bonds developed at the initial phases of childhood. Learn more in article: https://themindsjournal.com/the-attachment-theory-how-chil/

02.01.2022 Are you feeling lonely? Discover what the difference between aloneness and loneliness in this short video is. And how to turn your aloneness into your most i...ncredible transcendence into the life you want to live. The Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program - https://bit.ly/33w1sSV Much love xo