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25.01.2022 This is the story of how one daughter made her father question everything. Speaker: Simon T. Bailey

24.01.2022 https://raisedgood.com/childrens-busyness-not-badge-honou/

24.01.2022 Just because someone stumbles and loses their way, it doesnt mean theyre lost forever. Credit for Quotes: "What defines us is how well we rise after falling...."-Batman "With great power comes great responsibility" -Spiderman/Stan Lee "Just because someone stumbles, and loses their way, it doesnt mean theyre lost forever. Sometimes we need a little help." -Charles Xavier See more

21.01.2022 astrophysicist, author, and science communicator Neil explains how to raise kids that will become the shakers and movers of the world of tomorrow. Interview: Tom Bilyeu from Impact Theory

21.01.2022 https://www.haaretz.com//.premium.MAGAZINE-the-five-months

21.01.2022 https://www.lionsroar.com/healing-the-child-within/

20.01.2022 These are the factors in childhood that predict success later in life. Watch the full TED Talk here: http://bit.ly/2MddtSe

20.01.2022 Ideally, what should be said to every child, repeatedly, throughout his or her school life is something like this: "You are in the process of being indoctrinat...ed. We have not yet evolved a system of education that is not a system of indoctrination. We are sorry, but it is the best we can do. What you are being taught here is an amalgam of current prejudice and the choices of this particular culture. The slightest look at history will show how impermanent these must be. You are being taught by people who have been able to accommodate themselves to a regime of thought laid down by their predecessors. It is a self-perpetuating system. Those of you who are more robust and individual than others will be encouraged to leave and find ways of educating yourself -- educating your own judgements. Those that stay must remember, always, and all the time, that they are being moulded and patterned to fit into the narrow and particular needs of this particular society." Dorris Lessing See more

18.01.2022 Worth a reflection. https://www.vox.com//11/9127769/parenting-advice-worthless

17.01.2022 Continuation of Love and Family Life by Swami Rama, with Phillip Ellis page 61~ Chapter 3: Children

16.01.2022 https://youtu.be/gX4EFwv76Vg

15.01.2022 If you need to say sorry to someone - Watch this by Gaur Gopal Das

14.01.2022 Bodhi being my model for this mornings shot. #lovemyboy #sonmeetssun Posted @withregram @the.sun.lovers Sunchild #sunsalute #thesunlovers #bodhistar #sunchild #childrenofthesun #suryanamaskar #letsplay #sunrise

14.01.2022 https://www.healthymummy.com/kids-sleep-parents-bed-confi/

13.01.2022 14 days self isolation over. My #1 fan and I do the Dawny. We are fit and healthy. Hope you all are too folks. #free #meandmyboy #happy

12.01.2022 Love this shot by Dafinhi. #Dafinhi #thesunlovers #freedive

12.01.2022 https://youtu.be/My6FGZWSbCA

10.01.2022 Often times we think were teaching our children when actually theyre the ones teaching us. Credits: You can be childlike, without being childish- Christopher Meloni There are no mistakes in life, only lessons- Robin Sharma

10.01.2022 Feels special when you find a coconut washed up on your local beach at sunrise. #thesunlovers #coconut #sunrise #special #goldcoast #inspirelife

09.01.2022 Two things you can do when your child is angry It is essential for our kids to have a safe outlet for their frustration/anger. Anger is a natural and health...y response when their needs are not met or when something doesnt feel right to them. If our kids dont have any safe outlet to express their anger, they will "keep it in". With time, the angry feelings will accumulate in their body, so much that theyll become aggressive towards their friends or us. The solution is for us to realise that its NORMAL and HEALTHY for them to feel angry now and then, and to offer them a safe way to "let it out" so they dont hurt anyone. Of course we dont EVER want to let our kids hurt us. This is not the point. But we can: acknowledge them: "you feel angry right now" always stop them from hitting anyone (including ourselves) offer them the opportunity to express this anger in a NON-HURTFUL way, by pushing on our hands or growling like a lion, etc. When our child knows that its safe to express his anger with us, he doesnt hold onto any anger, so hes generally more relaxed and peaceful. Does that make sense to you, lovely Mamas and Papas? Do you have any questions? With Love Manon

09.01.2022 Shadow family. Happy Easter friends.

07.01.2022 https://www.npr.org//a-playful-way-to-teach-kids-to-contro

05.01.2022 <3 When we need to do something unpleasant to our kids <3 Giving medicine, taking a tick or a splinter off, leaving the park, washing hair, etc. They are things... that we HAVE to do to our kids for safety, health or time reasons Those things are unpleasant to them and they can get upset. So we might wonder: Am I traumatising my child when I do unpleasant things to him? Hes upset, he cries I feel so bad yet I HAVE to do this! We might remember being forced to do things we didnt want to do, when we were children ourselves, and we remember how unpleasant it felt. We might even have been traumatised by some of them, and we dont want that for our children. HOW CAN WE AVOID TRAUMATISING OUR KIDS? Well, firstly, they are a few things we can beforehand, such as: - explaining to them WHY we need to do this (simply and honestly) - and HOW were going to do it and how its going to feel (simply and honestly) Then, how we handle the situation AFTER the unpleasant thing matters. The past generation of parents was told that crying, protesting or raging was wrong and should be punished. So when we were children and our caregivers did something unpleasant to us (that they had to do, for safety or health reasons), and we would get upset, we would be reprimanded/punished. And thats the traumatic part. Look: when something unpleasant is done to us, its only NATURAL and HEALTHY to be upset, to feel angry and to protest. Being punished for having a natural reaction (being upset) is what can be traumatic. Its like a double kick: Ill do something unpleasant to you AND Ill punish you for being upset about it! Please know that Im not blaming our parents here, they had the information they had back then they thought they were doing the right thing. Only recently have we understood how badly these methods have affected our systems and I feel its important for me to share this with you <3 So in the past we were legitimately upset, but we would be punished if we were to express this upset. We had to keep it in, to deal with it, to push it down and to put a smile on instead. :-( So we didnt have the support we needed to release the stress caused by the difficult experience. If youre following my page, Im pretty sure that youre doing things differently and that you are allowing your child to express his upset (at least a bit, at least some times). And thats why I want to reassure you: Sometimes we HAVE to do things to our children that are unpleasant. And thats OK. When we do things unpleasant to our children, they can get upset. And thats OK too. Its a very healthy response. To help them, we want to support that response, so they let it out and dont hold onto it. <3 I hope that this explanation is reassuring you that youre not traumatising your child when you have to do something unpleasant to him for health or safety reasons, because you allow him to express his upset. I hope that it helps you to not fall too much into the guilt trap, but instead to confidently support your child by acknowledging his upset <3 BRISBANE Mamas and Papas: Im coming to you next Saturday to offer my Play with Me! Workshop and offer you respectful and fun alternatives to punishments and rewards :-) Have you booked your ticket yet? PERTH Mamas and Papas: Im coming to you in 3 weeks! Yay! They are a few spots left in 2 of the 3 workshops weve organised :-) (LINKS BELOW) Im looking forward to playing with you all <3 With Love xx Manon

04.01.2022 https://victimfocus.wordpress.com//what-if-our-parenting/

03.01.2022 We sure are blessed to be living here during this crazy time. Hope everyone is healthy and happy. Posted @withregram @the.sun.lovers Im going for a dip. Keep healthy and keep shining sun lovers. #thesunlovers #keepshining #imasunlover #dafini style.