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25.01.2022 One of the common believes in traumatised people or those whose past experiences were too overwhelmed for them is that the experiences belong to the past and they are able to get away from them. https://leilafanni.com.au//2/07/15/thoughts-around-trauma/

24.01.2022 I explained in my previous note that people who witness extreme trauma or listening to traumatic events (such as police or paramedics) may develop post-traumatic stress disorder. Studies on the children of the Holocaust shows the trauma has been passed to their children, although they have not experienced the actual trauma. The rest of this post in on the blog website today: http://www.leilafanni.com.au//uncategorized/understanding/ " - 3" .

23.01.2022 It is important not to expect from others more than they are capable of.It is important not to expect from others more than they are capable of.

22.01.2022 Have you considered to do it differently rather than do it harder to make your relationship better? .

22.01.2022 In couples therapy, the focus on resolution is not a solution, when there is a conflict between couple. Studies show %68 of conflict is perpetual. So managing conflict is a best way to deal with conflict between couple rather than solving the conflict. . %67 . .

22.01.2022 Falling in love is a great experience that makes our life fulfilled. The first connection between mother and infant is so crucial. Children who have a secure relationship with their parents and experience the loving connection, are also able to fall in love in adulthood.http://www.leilafanni.com.au/blog/uncategorized/love/

21.01.2022 I am back again. Apologise for not being active on my page for a while. My blog was hacked and took a while to fix the website, Blog and Facebook page. .

20.01.2022 https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jama/fullarticle/2762689

20.01.2022 A young man who has separated from his partner asked: - "I have been very sad since I left her. I have done everything for her but she kept sending me hurtful messages. I feel guilty and I do not know what to do. We must accept that finishing a relationship is not easy. Finishing a relationship means loss of your partner and other things such as: children http://www.leilafanni.com.au//u/the-end-of-a-relationship/

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18.01.2022 You can not resolve conflict in a relationship, if you are committed to win an argument at all costs.You can not resolve conflict in a relationship, if you are committed to win an argument at all costs.

18.01.2022 Couple relationship is something that we need to work on it continuously https://leilafanni.com.au//thought-of-the-day-relationship/

16.01.2022 Guilt is one of the common feelings that people face it during therapy. Most of the time we are not aware of the feelings that control our life and that is why we fail to change our behaviour. What you do when you feel guilty or when you do something wrong to others? Do you ignore it?http://www.leilafanni.com.au//uncate/thought-of-the-day-1/

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15.01.2022 It seems like individuals are not fulfilled any more in modern life because our attitude to life has been changed dramatically. People are committed to be successful and hold on to their possessions such as: car, degree, job, house, children and etc. which means we are occupied with doing rather than being. It is all about power and self-focus. In doing attitude, freedom would run away because our possession of things becomes our identity forcing us to put all our energy to keep them safe and there is no place to feel anything.http://www.leilafanni.com.au/blog/uncategorized/90/

14.01.2022 Michelle and Barack Obama (former American first lady and president) have been known as a romantic couple who support each other and their children. It is quite interesting that Michelle in her recent book writes about times that the couple need to visit therapist to resolve their relationship issues. I would mention this here for many reasons: first, it doesnt matter http://www.leilafanni.com.au//uncate/thought-of-the-day-2/

13.01.2022 "Good communication is the bridge between confusion and clarity". Nat Turner If you could pursue a new communication skills what would it be? . .

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13.01.2022 Anxiety and depression are very common nowadays. Some of us are not aware of the problem and its impacts on our daily life.https://leilafanni.com.au/bl/index.php/2020//24/the-needs/

12.01.2022 https://youtu.be/bE-rjhfNU-E Alike , shows us how society cuts the wing of creativity that brings joy to our lives. . .

11.01.2022 For decades, we talk about equality between women and men. But still lots of women wait for men to propose. Sometimes is good to challenge our belief and tradition! Men and women both are right to choose who want to go out with.

09.01.2022 https://mymodernmet.com/parisa-pourtaherian-female-iran-sp/ . . Never give up!

08.01.2022 We just said good bye to last year, a year with all its challenges, failures, happiness, kindness and sadness. All its moments gave us a chance to experience life, a chance to challenge ourselves, a chance to growhttp://www.leilafanni.com.au/blog/uncategorized/thought-of-the-day-3/

07.01.2022 I just finished a program in boys high school and this is what one of student wrote for me: I could talk about things with you that I couldnt talk with anybody else. It took my attention when he mentioned that again on the stage when he was getting his certificate so it gave me a reason to share my concern with you; Although I cant hide my happiness for building trust and to see the positive changes during program,http://www.leilafanni.com.au//uncatego/thought-of-the-day/

05.01.2022 One of the positive and effective key to communicate with your partner and also with your children is, VALIDATING each other position. Before doing any reaction, validate each others history and point of view. That doesnt mean you are agree with her/ him. That means I understand your feeling and needs. For example you can response to your partner after hearing their feeling; That makes sense , I understand your feeling. . . . : .

05.01.2022 When feeling of shame is used in an unhealthy way by an individual, it can damage the person and others. They hide and deny the shame in order to manage their overwhelming feelings. In one hand those people would like to express self and to be seen by others but on the other hand suppress themselves because they do not want to face with their painful feeling. http://www.leilafanni.com.au/blog/uncategorized/shame/

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03.01.2022 For some reasons, it is difficult for many of us to explain to our espouse what we would like to hear from them or what we want them to do for us to feel love. According to Gary Chapman, there are different love languages, which means we all do not express our feeling in the same way and what means expression of love to you might be different to your wife, husband or even your childrenhttp://www.leilafanni.com.au/blog/uncategorized/the-expression-of-love/