Lindsey M. Stillwell | Alternative & holistic health service
Lindsey M. Stillwell
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25.01.2022 WHY CONNECTION TO ANCESTORS MATTERS When I started my business 3.5 years ago, I built it on the foundation of connection to 5 pillars, 5 key relationships - Self, Others, Source, Earth & Ancestors. I've often been asked 'why ancestors?'. ... Why does it matter to connect to ancestors? Connection to ancestors is a pillar in my business, art and daily life because it informs where I've come from and what I'm leaving behind when I pass. Each of us carry memories, traumas, intelligence and skills in our DNA that been passed onto us from our ancestors. We have the power to influence and change our DNA in order to stop perpetuating the traumas and pain of our ancestors. We also have the power to cultivate the skills and intelligence passed down to us. But how can we if we aren't forming connection to those who've come before us?! How can you intentionally leave a legacy if you aren't making efforts to release the subtle patterns that are playing out through you? It takes time, commitment and a whole lot of self-awareness to be able to address the trauma and pain, and to consciously transform it. There's many methods and practices that can be developed to create this intentional change and leave the legacy you desire. But it first starts with discovering and acknowledging where you've come from, who's come before you, and the kind of experiences that they went through, and memories they passed down. Connecting to ancestors offers a place of belonging, an opportunity to powerfully engage your lineage and legacy, and freedom to express the skills and intelligence they've passed to you. <3 <3 <3 Painting by RIshi Raj
24.01.2022 DECOLONISING BUSIN3SS & PARENTING "Whatever you consider to be the fullness of your self-actualisation, you will undoubtably need a vehicle to get there." My friend, business partner and mentor Anna B Feldman shared these words a few weeks ago and they landed with strong resonance. So much so, I quickly wrote them down, and as I was in my daily ritual this morning, I came across the page in my journal where they landed.... In order for your fullness to be expressed and received in the world, regardless of what industry you're in or what work you bring the world, you will need a viable vehicle to support your vision. For a long time, I thought I could do it alone. That I could build my legacy by myself, be the 'self-made millionaire' or 'philanthropic visionary' that seems to be on trend at the moment. But the truth is, this idea of being 'self-made' or 'solo-entrepreneur' goes against our very human nature. We are pack animals. We are designed for tribal living and collaborative visioning. As I've journey even further into the decolonisation of my mind, my lifestyle and my business, I am seeing more and more the perpetuation of subtle colonisation and the good ol' American dream of independence. We are not meant for independence, but for inter-dependence. (Strong distinction from co-dependence). I won't do business another way now. I won't live my life another way. I might be single, but I won't raise my child alone. We can survive in isolation, but we thrive in connection. (just look at the non-covid-related death tolls, violence, and mental ill-health as a result of social distancing). That is why the vehicle I've chosen for full self-actualisation is a collaborative business model and a community of co-parents. In order to bring my fullness to the world, I can't and I won't do it alone. This doesn't mean I'm 'settling' or 'selling my soul' to something other than my truth and alignment, it means that I'm backing myself so much in order to see myself living the embodiment of all that I envision. I see a world where prosperity and health is restored and regenerative in First Nations & Indigenous Communities. I see a world where storytelling becomes an avenue for empowerment. I see a world where my child knows in every cell of their being that they are Love, that they are supported and that they are given every opportunity for their own self-actualisation. It's simple. Choose love. Choose prosperity. Choose unity. Let every decision I make go through these filters, from business development, to child-rearing, to relationships, to self-empowerment. Do you have a vision that needs a vehicle for self-actualisation? I'd love to share mine with you... it's big enough for all of us. Comment 'decolonise my life' below if you want to jump in. <3 . . . Image by Michael Shapecott
20.01.2022 Everything is my fault. And I don't say that from a place of victimhood, but from self-responsibility. Because I create my reality.... I know, i know... nobody asks to be deceived, abused or betrayed. We can't control anyone else. But we have a choice in how we engage with the circumstances and experiences presented to us in life. I chose to remain in a relationship I knew at a gut level was not healthy and not what I wanted. I chose to neglect my needs and desires. I'd gotten to the stage where I was asking myself 'how did i get here?', 'what has my life become?'. And then things changed. I took responsibility for the way I had chosen to remain, for the way I had neglected myself, and took radical action to change my life. My commitment to myself was re-activated and I was determined to create the life that I desired. I'd been creating Pleasure Rites behind the scenes and was wanting to launch this rite of passage experience, but was betraying myself in it because I wasn't living in connection to holistic pleasure. I had become entrenched in a life of obligation and 'rescuing', prioritising the needs of others even when it betrayed my intuition and self-care. Becoming pregnant brought me into a new rite of passage. This initiation has brought up so much for me and deepened my connection to myself and my commitment to change. And now I am living and embodying Pleasure Rites on a daily basis. I choose what feels good on a holistic level in body, spirit and my broader ecosystem. I take responsibility for my choices and how I show up to my life's circumstances. And I take great pleasure in how I am creating my world, bringing my ideal reality into this 3D reality, and living in alignment with my integrity and joy. It's easy to blame others or the world or the government for your relationship to money, love, emotions and power (or any other area of your life). Regardless of what's happening in the world or how people are showing up in relationship to you, you have a choice in how you feel, how you respond, and how you move forward. Your money situation? Your fault. Your emotional baggage? Your fault. Your business growth? Your fault. Your relationships? Your fault. It may have been a number of things that lead you to where you are, but you get to choose what you make of it. How committed are you to creating the reality you most desire? . . . Photo by Aleira Moon Dec 2019
20.01.2022 IMAGINE A BUSINESS WITH... No stocking or inventory No monthly qualifications No auto ship... No annual renewal No de-ranking No sales (there is a trained sales team to support you there too!!) Imagine a company that stands upon the shoulders of the ONE product everyone needs and is the gold standard in the industry. Right now you have an opportunity to draw a line in the sand and take a good look at something that has crossed your path for a reason Maybe it’s exactly what you and your family need to go to the next level and UNLOCK your true family destiny... This business is currently crushing it and even during these turbulent uncertain times, we have an 80% conversion rate. It’s for purpose-driven humans who are ready to create a lifestyle that will be the foundation for the impact they’re here to make! Keen to know more? Private message me for more information.
14.01.2022 30 Day Fast Track Starts NOW! I am SO excited to be starting a 30-day fast track in my online business! Couldn't have come at a more perfect time! I am finishing up my part-time disability support job this week, and diving even deeper into my online creations and automated business.... Two months til I bring this little bubba into the world, and I am getting the systems and structures in place so I can be present for my birthing and this next chapter. Beyond grateful to be partners with a platform that allows me to show up as fully myself in any season of life and create the financial abundance I've not been able to achieve in so many years of solo entrepreneurship. I am blessed with an incredible team of collaborative visionaries, leaders and social activists who are ready to go all the way in bringing their visions and self-expression to the world. The support, mentorship and relational intimacy that is found in my business is more than I thought possible!! WOW! I'm in awe every day! If you want to create more simplicity and prosperity in your life and actively forge bonds towards global unity, get in touch. This community is next level! Here's to the next uplevel in my life and the activation and realisation of my heart's deepest desires! <3 <3 <3
12.01.2022 I spent years going through the same motions, repeating the same techniques and strategies I was being taught by my business coaches... but I wasn't reaching my financial goals or creating the freedom that I truly desired. Four months ago, it all changed. After hiring yet another business coach, I decided to take a leap of faith, let go of the new coach and their hustle mentality, and step into the most amazing community of empowered creatives, visionaries, leaders, lawyers, ...mums, etc... I took a risk and invested in myself in a brand new way. And I don't look back for a second! Every single day I'm in immense awe of the family I get to be part of now, and the legacies we are each creating! (It feels a whole lot more like family than it does business!) I pinch myself it hardly feels real. The personal growth that has taken place in me these past few months is phenomenal, and I've allowed the old patterns to die. I've been stretched in so many beautiful ways, leaning in to the discomfort that comes when we reach beyond what we thought possible and bring our dreams into reality. On Monday, we are inviting you into our world... a world where spirit meets strategy, heart meet high impact, and wellbeing meets wealth! Join us for 4 days of incredible value, learning from 6 & 7-figure earners who walk the walk and are ordinary people just like you and me. (These people inspire me so much!) The four days includes: Day 1: The Freedom Effect - Discover the proven methodology to crafting a vision for your ideal perfect day that is SO crystal clear you feel CERTAIN that it's a done deal, instantly. Vision, take action, manifest! Day 2: The Money Vibes - Abundance is your birthright! And we're excited to help you activate this into your conscious reality so that you can start to receive more money to support the vision you have for your life and the peoples lives you want to make an impact on. Day 3: The Legacy Shift - You might be making an impact but are you creating an actual legacy? As a conscious being that wants to make an impact on the world, your impact gets to continue long after you're gone. What is your Legacy? Day 4: High Profit, High Impact Strategy - In order to fully embody freedom, money, impact and legacy you need to have a sustainable business model that works. We will show you exactly how to build a personal brand, leverage high profit strategies and use automation so that you can stay locked in on your vision with ease and flow! If not now, when? Ready to take the leap? Comment I'M IN below or message me for the link to join! Let's do this!
08.01.2022 "When you stop relying on other people or your circumstances for pleasure, and instead become the wellspring of pleasure in your own life, you make yourself available to co-creating with Life all that you desire." - Lindsey Stillwell #pleasurerites . .... . . Photo by Aleira Moon See more
07.01.2022 I tried to fit in to the coaching and therapeutic model of business for several years, but it didn't work for me. As a trained therapist I thought 1:1 sessions would work for me, but I never got to a place of being sustainable in offering them longterm. As I've entered into pregnancy and the broader world moved into physical distancing and a pandemic mentality, I started to get clear in what i actually wanted to create in my life.... Okay, so I chose to bring this baby in... now how was I going to sustain myself and provide for this baby AND continue to be self-expressed in the world...? I let go of the online mentorship program, Pleasure Rites, I'd been creating behind the scenes and started to embody it more deeply in my personal life. I asked myself, 'what brings my heart and soul the most pleasure?' and allowed my spirit to ask for those desires to be met in my reality. Of all the 'jobs' and positions I've held, the titles I've given myself permission to embody, what kept coming up for me was 'tell your story'.. and in a lifetime of performing arts, that's what I do - I tell stories. So now I've committed to creating a global legacy of empowered storytellers; bringing my stories to life and creating platforms for others to speak up too. I continue to surrender to the 'how' this will happen, and ask for guidance every day for my next step toward this vision becoming a manifest reality. I've stepped into leadership and a way of collaborative business like never before - feeling supported and clear in my vision to create abundance for my baby and myself. And then I began to see my desires being met.... I have been connecting to others in seemingly random and spontaneous ways, and have been invited to speak as part of global initiatives, national storytelling organisations, and online forums. In the past month I've been invited to share stories at: - The Decolonised Body, an online forum created by @Queen Mode Collective - Unify, a 21-day global immersion for leaders, healers, artists and change-makers to collectively come together for unity in collaboration with Limitless Love and Leadership and @The Create Community on 15th July - YARN Australia's monthly stroytelling workshop on 26th July Additionally, I've been involved with the growth of Love Out Loud Movement, and invited to collaborate in this year's creation of National Women's Day. I'm spreading my wings and saying a big YES to the deepest desires of my heart. . . . Original photo by Aleira Moon
02.01.2022 HOW YOU FEEL DOESN'T DEFINE WHO YOU ARE The truth is... today I feel anger and self-rejection and doubt. The truth is... tears just keep welling up and spilling over.... The truth is... i feel uncomfortable in my body and am questioning why i chose to allow another humxn to grow in my body and bring me into parenthood. The truth is... none of these feelings define reality or who I am. As I feel tears dry on my face and small kicks in my right ribs, I acknowledge that these feelings are small in comparison to the greatness of my Being. I tried several ways of alchemising these feelings, but ultimately it came down to being present with myself fully and acknowledging that IT'S OKAY. It's okay to feel unworthy. It's okay to question why we chose certain circumstances. It's okay to feel uncomfortable in your body. The truth is... it's okay to be humxn. To have humxn thoughts, feelings and desires. Just know that your humxn field of feeling and perception is not the totality of who you are. You are so much more. I say this to myself.... you are so much more than what you currently feel. Feel the feels in order to liberate yourself from the meaning your mind wants to make about these feelings. In fullness, Lindsey
02.01.2022 An Invitation for YOU Abundance mindset Spiritual & Personal Growth Manifestation... Simplicity High vibe Self-Expression Birthright Alignment and flow If you’re still reading this, chances are you’re into the same things I am. You understand that exploring the above (to any degree) leads you on a path to: Self-responsibility. Self-discovery. Expansion. Infinite wealth. Fulfillment. It’s no accident that when we do this work, we’re more positive, giving, nurturing, understanding, open and prosperous. If that’s your jam, I wanna invite you to something that’s starting Monday 10th August. Nearly 2000 soul-centred entrepreneurs have already said yes. It’s a free 4-day freedom online workshop. Where spirit and strategy powerfully combine to lay out the exact framework myself and thousands of others are using to activate and embody abundance in all areas of our lives. How have I personally changed by using this framework? I shifted from low ticket to high ticket sales and partnered with an automated system to close those sales for me. I let go of the pressure of having to push and sell my offerings and creative babies, and am surrendering into the softness and ease of becoming a mother and birthing a human baby. Add in a heap of personal development and spiritual enlightenment and I’ve gone from: Doubt-filled ‘wantrepreneur’ with very little financial success to show for her efforts... ....To thriving business woman who is making serious impact and income. Want to learn how? 1 powerful training a day (replays available) Led by 6&7 figure empowered online entrepreneurs. They walk the walk and will show you how to do it too. Comment ME if you’d like the link to join us! Linds . . . Photo by Aleira Moon