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23.01.2022 Goodbye 2019 This year has been by far the most challenging for me. I’ve had many things happen in my life. Some of those things absolutely soul destroying. Some stunning miracles too. At the beginning of this year I pledged to loving myself more. And you know what; I fucken did. But I truly didn’t realise how hard that would be to actually accomplish. Learning to love yourself means you have to find out who you are. You have to dig deep and really sit in your own shit. You ...Continue reading
22.01.2022 How about you eat the dick. This ones a rant, so buckle up bitches. You wanna know what really annoys me? Aside from people who talk to me immediately upon waking. ...Continue reading
22.01.2022 Wild Woman, Fire Walker, Motherfucking Goddess! Wild Women don’t half love. They’re not half of anything and don’t know how to do halves. They’re all or nothing. Sometimes brilliant and sometimes disaster. And just like fire; you won’t know which. But it’s always everything and both are beautiful. That’s the fucking problem. Ya’ll think you’re ready to go to heaven and admire the universe from the heights of a Wild Woman’s infinite love; but get scared when you look down. ...Continue reading
18.01.2022 Dear Mr Misogynist I’ve encountered many personalities in my lifetime. But the ones that tend to stay with me are those incredibly ingrained in our men. The ones ingrained in you; the man reading this. The survival mechanism you use that stems from a trauma you’ve never been taught how to heal. But the saddest and most heartbreaking personality isn’t that of Mr Narcissist or Mr Compulsive Liar. It’s you Mr Misogynist. You’re so frightened of women you spend your days; often ...unintentionally, hurting females simply to feel empowered. To feel adequate and like you’re enough. You’ve been hurt so badly by a woman that from that day forward you couldn’t do anything but treat all women in such a way that inflicts the same amount of pain, sadness and suffering you felt. You’ll never have a meaningful loving relationship. You’ll never get your happy ever after and you’ll forever be alone. More often than not; you Mr Misogynist, don’t even know you are one. And without having the ability to identify it, there’ll be no chance of healing. Just an endless trail of destruction and disappointment, anger and emptiness which further compounds your unconscious belief that all women are the cause of your pain. On behalf of every mother, daughter, sister, niece and partner; I’m sorry. I’m sorry you weren’t loved the way you should have been. You didn’t deserve that. I’m sorry your pain has manifested into a self destructive continuous repetition of the very relationship that destroyed you in the first place. It doesn’t have to be that way. I’m so sorry that the one person who was supposed to show you what unconditional love was and nurture both your spirit and your soul made you think you weren’t worthy of love. That just isn’t true. I’m just really fucking sorry. I hope one day you’ll be able to heal. That you won’t think crying is a weakness. That you can feel hurt and express that pain without feeling like less of a man. There really is no shame in that. But what I wish for you most; is that you’ll realise not every woman was bought into your life to make you suffer. I hope you stop punishing other women for a pain they didn’t cause. I hope you let someone love you. I hope you love someone back. For its only through love will you stop giving your power to the woman who hurt you most. Love in spite of her because most people won’t understand you. They’ll just think you’re an arsehole. When what you really are is a broken and scared little boy that never felt worthy of love and that’s the saddest part of all. Mr Misogynist it wasn’t women who hurt you. It was one woman. One person who happened to be female. And as a female, a woman and a mother of boys; I pray that the men I raise don’t ever contract misogyny. It’s a cruel and deceitful disease; the most damning I’ve encountered in men. Because misogyny doesn’t just cause pain for the afflicted. It infects every man you encounter and suffering in every woman you meet.
17.01.2022 Just in case all you single ladies were wondering.
