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25.01.2022 Wise words indeed...

24.01.2022 eat cookies, very good advice...

19.01.2022 Please join me on February 10 as I present an evening of Exploring Intimacy.

11.01.2022 I have heard that many people have a fear of being vulnerable as they think it is a sign of weakness. I feel the opposite to be true. Here's a great passage from the book Fiercely Loyal by Dov Baron that perfectly describes what I mean: Despite what you've been taught, vulnerability is the very opposite of weakness; in truth, it's all about courage. Make no mistake, for someone to be truly courageous, vulnerability must come first.... In many ways, courage can be faked. What's more--and I'm sure you know this as well as I do--when we fake courage, we may still get the applause and the garlands placed around our necks that honor us as heroes, but we will still secretly feel like cowards. One of the ways we can fake courage is by doing something that others see as scary, while we are so rehearsed at it that it creates no challenge whatsoever for us. For example, we may gasp at the aerial performances in the Cirque du Soleil, but for the members of the troop, it is pretty much just their job. For a stunt person, part of the thrill is convincing you and me that the dangerous-appearing action is actually dangerous. It doesn't require any real courage. On the other hand, real courage requires vulnerability. Real courage requires us to step into something where we cannot predict the outcome; something that, in some way, seems terrifying, not because we could die, although that may be part of how we feel, but because we feel we might receive the most painful of punishments--that of being rejected, disowned, and ultimately isolated. That's why real courage cannot exist without the risk of vulnerability.

11.01.2022 enjoy your dance...

09.01.2022 Courage is realised only once you move towards what you're afraid of. Be courageous. - Amir Zoghi Subscribe here: http://bit.ly/truthofday/