Ricky Cubley: Life Coach in Melbourne, Victoria, Australia | Medical and health

Ricky Cubley: Life Coach

Locality: Melbourne, Victoria, Australia

Phone: +61 431 797 435

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25.01.2022 Inspiration. I’m just lacking inspiration right now. Recently I heard myself saying this statement, but more so, really feeling this statement. It was causing a knot in my stomach. The desire to share myself and my vision, the desire to express my emotions, to channel this and create something in the world that moves others or provides catharsis for the self. ... However, the JUICE wasn’t there for me. It was like I’d momentarily plateaued, I’d somehow exhausted my creative inspiration. How do you motivate yourself to create when you’re don’t feel inspired by anything? I realised at this point, I didn’t need to be forcing myself into creativity. I needed to seek INSPIRATION, not creation. When I am FULL, when I am breathing in the fresh air of JOY and AWE, inspired by things around me - that’s when I am capable of flowing over and sharing parts of me. It is in nature that I am inspired. It is in the intricacies of the universe that my passion is truly lit. Stuck inside these four walls I grow stagnant, I deplete myself of colour, my zest for life fades and it would be unreasonable to imagine that I could gift the world what I am lacking for myself. This is a reminder to those who serve others, to those who make the world a better place: Treat yourself to the wonders of the world, so that you can keeping treat others too. #inspiration #coachyourself #life #breathe #takeamoment

25.01.2022 Today I was feeling drawn to the depths of my DARKNESS. But on paper, I had a day committed to my Purpose work - which very much involves sharing my LIGHT. I was ‘meant’ to have a client session and two Oracle Readings with beautiful people to whom I’d offered my service of Divine Guidance. This was sending me further into disarray. I was actually freezing up, and essentially struggled to bring myself to use any of my personal tools to embody and shift these feelings. ... The first Oracle Reading was beautiful. The intention was set, and the message came through exquisitely. However, I still hadn’t given space to the shadowy snake slithering up from the depths of my being. Rather, I’d hidden in the light, hoping to banish my own emotions through assisting another. A skeptic might say it was ‘luck’ or that it was down to my client, but I believe the Divine reached out to assist me. My client asked to reschedule the session, for which I was grateful to her, as this gave me some room to actually explore my Shadow, feel into what was there and allow it to move through me. What unfolded from here was a profound reminder for me to Trust in the chaotic nature of the universe, but also to trust in my own Divine Spirit. I put on my new Spotify playlist ‘Dark Alchemy’, I’d been curating it for such a moment. Out came the pillows, stacked on top of each other, ready for my favourite emotional release tool. Then came lots of rage. Rage that if left untended would have consumed me and been spat out sideways into an unexpecting space, or onto some poor soul. Right up until 10 minutes before the Oracle Reading I was purging this Dark Masculine energy. Suddenly I felt a shift as my final strike landed. The rage had been acknowledged and honoured. This in turn, made space for one of the most beautiful and profound readings of my life. The Divine feminine was able to work through me and deliver a message so clear and succinct that it nearly knocked me over. Between us, we couldn’t help but chuckle at how uncanny it was. There was a sense that something much greater than my own Intuition was at work and we were both so grateful for this gift of insight.

25.01.2022 Personal Transformation is serious business! Speaking from experience it doesn’t always feel great at first. Shedding inner paradigms and conditioned belief systems is repetitive, mind boggling and can be energetically challenging and emotionally draining. Identifying and releasing negative emotions stored in the body through embodiment practices can be life-changing but also exhausting.... Staring long and hard into the mirror to consider all of the things that we have been avoiding or running from our whole lives can be absolutely terrifying. So please, don’t go it alone! It doesn’t have to be all HARD and SERIOUS and VOID of fun. I like to have FUN with the work I do, I like to mix it up a little! Sometimes we might choose your favourite ‘entrance’ music and dance our way into session, on occasion we might get up and shake it all out, or drop in with a release meditation exercise. Why not make the journey that little bit more pleasant by finding yourself a chipper, smiley coach who doesn’t take himself TOO seriously, but will encourage you every step of the way to unleash your greatest potential within! I currently have space for 2 people to come on a journey with me!! If you are committed to making a difference in your life, take the first step and reach out. : @rosa_spink #transformation #inspiration #life #coach #coaching #smile #havefun #movement #spirituality #embodiment #personaldevelopment #investment #happy #whysoserious #wizard

24.01.2022 Happy Birthday to Me! 28 years. Feeling aligned. Treating my body right, expanding my mind and nourishing my soul. So much gratitude for this life I was gifted. Big love to all of my people out there, you are all so special to me and I wouldn’t be living the life I do without you. ...

22.01.2022 I have been working on many limiting beliefs, programs and stories to empower myself into a dream life of fulfilment, success, abundance and PURPOSE. One of the most challenging to shift has been stories around Money and Wealth. I am continuing to do the work, using a variety of tools including Wealth (Emotion) Clears, Meditations, Affirmations, NLP techniques, Entrepreneurship, Business coaching etc. However, this is a share around the initial starting point for me in changing my relationship to Money and the stories I have associated with it. It could be relatable for many people out there so I felt called to share with others!

21.01.2022 Personal development work is the light of my life. It challenges me to reflect on and improve specific areas of my life, but then it gives back so much. If you’re willing to lean into the resistance and get uncomfortable with yourself, things you never would believe is possible. Are you ready to leave the comfort zone and step into growth to unlock your potential?... Come and Play! I am giving away 2 FREE 30 minute coaching calls this weekend as a taster into how you could change your world. Comment ‘Let’s Play’ or jump into my DM’s to claim your spot! If you aren’t smiling, you aren’t doing it right!

20.01.2022 I’m on fire right now I’m in alignment with my Purpose and highest self, and it’s bringing me so much flow. So, I want to GIVE more.... I’m offering 2 FREE 30 min coaching sessions this week. The first TWO people to comment on this post get the GOLD! This is an opportunity for us to bring awareness to the aspects of your life that you are wanting to improve or EMPOWER!

20.01.2022 I just can’t get enough of learning and embodying different perspectives of the world. Recently I’ve been blowing my mind with more knowledge. I’ve been studying more tools and processes around ‘Goals to Success’ so that I am continuously expanding my coaching toolkit, whilst also reading Napoleon Hill’s OG masterpiece ‘Think and Grow Rich’. As well as studying and learning, I am practicing a plethora of techniques to essentially reprogram my mind and alter the vibrational f...requency of my energetic body. I can’t quite explain it without sounding like a crazy man, but every morning just before I wake up I have this insane FEELING that the very genetic makeup of my body is morphing. It’s as if the cells of my physical body are reconfiguring themselves whilst I sleep and there is this inexplicable shifting of paradigms in my subconscious. When I do wake up, I often have ‘downloads’ just stream into my brain of ideas, concepts or understandings that seem to come from nowhere. If you are familiar with Dr Joe Dispenza’s work you’ll probably get my drift. If you have no idea what I’m talking about, I highly recommend that you open your mind to the possibilities of human physiology and psychology whilst you have the opportunity to CHANGE your very being for the better. : Rosa Spink

18.01.2022 This is my face after a big day of client sessions on the weekend. I was mentally and energetically pretty exhausted. BUT LOOK AT THAT SMILE. Now, imagine if you will, this same smile on my face when I was finishing a client session at 1am on a Sunday night after having worked a 7hr shift as a bartender at a busy Fitzroy restaurant (the client was UK based and our schedules at the time only really gave us this available slot.) Believe me, I was tired but I was happy to be d...oing what I knew I am here to do. What I’m trying to say is that when you find your Purpose and your WHY is strong and clear in your mind - nothing can actually stop you from putting in the effort to realise your goals. In my coaching work, I help clients discover their WHY. WHY they really want something. WHY they want that something. WHY that outcome is really desirable to them. We keep digging until the WHY is a big enough reason to COMMIT everything they have to making it a reality. Ultimately, man should not ask what the meaning of his life is, but rather must recognise that it is he who is asked. - Frankl If you want to discover your WHY and unleash your true burning desire to achieve something in life, contact me via DM. Whether it’s a habit you’re struggling to break, a skill set you’re wanting to learn, a career change you’ve been yearning for, it doesn’t matter what the goal is - I can help you find your WHY and give you the tools to MAKE IT YOUR REALITY.

16.01.2022 Before I was exposed to the notion of Life Purpose, and then intentionally seeking to discover my own, I had a constant feeling that I was just drifting along through life without meaning. I had lost faith in myself. I actively rejected the concept of religion and had even discarded science as a means to give me any understanding of WHY I was here. What my function was in the grand scheme of things. I was living with little drive or ambition, and I just felt like life was a... meaningless game. Don’t get me wrong, I still enjoyed myself a lot of the time, I’ve always been one for having FUN. But that was mostly it, I was filling my time with pleasure, quick dopamine hits from anything that gave me instant gratification. When I detected my true Life Purpose, it was the greatest aha moment of my life. Something inside of me just clicked. Suddenly I felt HOME in myself. Like my whole life had been leading to this moment of understanding. Now, I live with intention. Now, I have an internal compass guiding me on this soul journey. If I start to stray from the path, something will show up in my field to get me back on track. I love my Purpose, it gives me REASON. It gives everything I do, a WHY. Why are you here?

16.01.2022 I am. Whatever comes next, decides the reality that you create for yourself. : @rosa_spink ... #affirmations #reality #life #coach

15.01.2022 Has lockdown got you feeling overwhelmed and flat? Has 2020 squeezed the drive out of you? Is there something you want to accomplish in life but you struggle with motivation to do the thing!? ... Are you studying hard, working to build your own business, or putting in those hours to build your dream life but feel like you are fighting an uphill battle? Well, I’ve GOT YOU. I am offering 1:1 motivational mindset coaching sessions personally customised to your needs! Special introductory offer: 90 MINUTE MOTIVATIONAL MINDSET SESSION $90!

13.01.2022 Such a beautiful testimonial from one of my powerhouse clients Beth! She showed up with such a willingness to do the inner work on herself and make the changes to her life that would bring about a sense of empowerment and deeper understanding of her self. It was such a pleasure to journey with someone who was ready to show up for themselves! Super proud to call her a client and a friend, excited to witness her journey as she continues to grow and expand. Are you ready to sho...w up for yourself and do the work to grow into the person you want to be? I AM LOOKING FOR 3 PEOPLE WHO WANT TO CHANGE THEIR LIVES! - MUST BE WILLING TO SHOW UP FOR THEMSELVES - MUST BE 100% COMMITTED TO MAKING A CHANGE - MUST BE WILLING TO HAVE FUN IS THIS YOU? COMMENT ‘HECK YEAH’ BELOW!

12.01.2022 Nourish my soul as I breathe you in great Spirit. I ask for a sign that the Universe wants me right here on this ancient land. Like a spider on her web she feels the vibration. Her response is swift and clear, and so be it, I am here. ... Here to stay. See more

12.01.2022 I love working with already amazing people, and to have the opportunity to empower them to new heights on their life journey! Working on belief systems is one of my personal favourites as we get to uncover the conditioned programs of our subconscious that are limiting our capabilities to reach our full potential, and then replace these with POSITIVE belief systems so that our nervous system starts working FOR US to create the reality we desire. I created this image for one o...f my incredible clients, @bethanmaye to give her a little reminder of just how amazing she is. These words came from her, she already knows how BOSS she is (I certainly do) so our job now is to use tools and practices to program these into her subconscious as accepted truths so that her ENTIRE BEING believes it. As a coach, I become a mirror. I help you see the parts of you that you want to change; and then I reflect to you all of the incredible things about you that PROVES you can do it, that you are WORTHY (when your mind might be telling you otherwise). I am your number one fan and I will teach you how to be your own number one fan. Reach out if you’ve been feeling called to look in the mirror and make a change

11.01.2022 Cotton Candy Skies. I’m reminded of the term ‘pathetic fallacy’ from my days of English literature. If you don’t know what I’m referring to, here is a little low down: The attribution of human feelings and responses to inanimate things or animals, especially in art and literature.... I often feel rather poetic in my writing, and so there I was attempting to use this method in a neat little piece of literature to caption this image. But then I thought, the image itself does the talking. Amidst all of the bad news about Melbourne remaining in lockdown for probably another 6 weeks(+), I actually had an incredibly beautiful day. As I looked up, coming out of what one might refer to as a post apocalyptic scene (the supermarket in lockdown) my feelings from the day were perfectly reflected by this gorgeous cotton candy sky. Do you find that sometimes the world captures your emotions perfectly and serves them on a platter for you to indulge yourself? #cottoncandyskies #patheticfallacy #lifeisamirror #positivevibes #reflections #lifeisfuckingbeautiful #coach #feelings

10.01.2022 A man who has integrated both his Divine Masculine and Divine Feminine energies can build empires in his world because he is the CREATION FORCE. Here I stand, poised for battle. But it is not in competition with other through which I aim to succeed. Rather, it is in my nature to ready myself for adversity. I am here to overcome MYSELF and succeed in life by preparing my physical body, by sharpening my wits, mastering my response to the elements and environment around me. I am... not here to wage war, I am here to develop resilience to the cold, to stand grounded in the face of uncertainty, to know what I am not and to believe beyond any doubt that I will prevail. I am here to give life to the seed of CREATION. Before anything can come into being there must be somebody to whom it comes. ~ Sri Nisargadatta Maharaj What are you here to do? : @rosa_spink

09.01.2022 When we DESIRE something in life, whether it be material or metaphysical (an object or a state of being,) we are actually reaching towards a FEELING. It can be said that anything we DESIRE is in fact driven by the belief that it will help us FEEL a specific emotion. The DESIRE is intrinsically tied to our belief systems that make us feel and behave in certain ways. * EMOTIONS ARE THE NUMBER ONE MOTIVATOR TO DO ANYTHING *... (In the same sense that emotions are the number one reason we resist anything - FEAR!) If you can identify the TRUE EMOTION behind the goal that you want to achieve, it is more likely that you will unlock the real DRIVING FORCE. If you can become clear on what it is you want and why you really NEED it, then you can start building the internal reference point for the reality that you want to actualise. Napoleon Hill states there is a difference between wishing for a thing and being ready to receive it. No one is ready for a thing until he believes he can acquire it. The state of mind must be belief, not mere hope or wish. This is where white-hot DESIRE must meet BELIEF, in order to alchemise within the very core of your being. We can wish, dream and envision all we like, but only when we are able to shift into a mindset of BELIEF that this reality is achievable and possible will we be able to manifest the outcome. Image: fearless man #transformation #inspiration #life #coach #coaching #spirituality #embodiment #personaldevelopment #investment #happy #desire #manifestation #beliefsystem

07.01.2022 My musings on the topic of Faith! An offering of a simple tool that we can use to start developing self belief to combat those doubts and fears that arise when we are working to achieve our goals

06.01.2022 We win or we perish. Every person who wins in an undertaking must be willing to burn his ships and cut all sources of retreat, only by doing so can one be sure of maintaining that state of mind known as ‘a burning desire to win’, essential to success. Napoleon Hill This statement is a wisdom that I have innately known for quite some time, yet have not utilised. Rather, I have been running from this essential principle of success, in fear of facing the truth - my truth ...- that I am capable of GREATNESS. To accept capability, would be to accept responsibility to truly fulfil my POTENTIAL. Having the safety net of an escape, or support, or something to fall back on, makes me weak. It gives me an ‘out’. It allows my own limiting beliefs the opportunity to win over my burning desires - and as I know best, the subconscious mind is a trickster. It tells me to take the ‘easy’ route, the way out, for that is comfortable and safe. Well, this year, when lockdown round (?) struck - I was left in a ‘sticky situation’. Being in Australia awaiting confirmation of my visa and losing my job in hospitality, I had No consistent form of income, no government support, no family to lean on. I’ll admit, I panicked and desperately turned to another form of employment to save me. Another safety net that would break my back 30+ hours a week for a pay check. After 3 days, I had enough. I decided that if a world pandemic wasn’t a good time to change things up and test my true grit and ability to overcome adversity - when would be? So I burnt my ships, and declared to myself that I would be a successful Life Coach from this point onwards. It hasn’t been easy - many times I have questioned myself and wondered if I was going to make it. But the burning desire to move forward with nothing to fall back on, to succeed in this field of work, to be a coach, to be of service to others and make it my life’s work to create a positive impact in the world, keeps me going. What ships are holding you back from doing what you are here to do? Now is the time to take the leap of faith and create a burning desire to SUCCEED. : @rosa_spink #success #successmindset #driven #purpose #lifecoaching #life #wisdom #fulfillment #goals

06.01.2022 Manifestation. This one might sound a bit far fetched, but none the less, hear me out. You might have a laugh along the way too! When I was just a wee kid, I used to imagine what I would look like when I was ‘grown up’. I was generally quite chubby (or big boned as my mum put it) and I had blond hair, blue eyes. I often heard this notion of a ‘tall dark handsome’ man who swept women off their feet. I saw dudes with these goatee beards that accentuated their chins and gave th...em a kind of Viking vibe that a couldn’t help but dig. From a young age, I started to develop an internal reference point of what I would look like when I grew up. This may sound silly, but I used to create avatars on various games consoles that I played, and my character would always be tall, with a toned muscular stature, dark hair and a really dope goatee beard. Even when I was 5ft, chubby and blond, I just knew that’s where I was heading in life. I was a late bloomer, most of the other kids had chest hair by the time we were 18, while I was still growing whiskers on my face when I was 22! But every year I said, I will have a beard on my ‘2_’ birthday, you watch me. It’s been a long journey of perseverance, but here I am. Turning 28 in less than a month and I can happily say I made it. I am ‘tall, dark and handsome’ (and I bloody worked for it!) and I finally have my little goatee I’ve been waiting for! This may seem like a ‘shallow’ desire to manifest. But a boy can always dream! I’m not going to make a sweeping statement about manifestation based on a beard I finally grew at 28 years old, however, there is something to be said that if you set your sights on something you desire in life and put continuous effort in towards this goal on a metaphysical and energetic level, combine this with a powerful practice of belief at a mindset level, this will eventually seek expression in physical reality. Yes, we must take action in life, but the right mindset will encourage action without resistance. With true BELIEF, and FAITH, anything is possible. I swear it on my little goatee

05.01.2022 Purpose is the ultimate BELIEF you could have. Purpose drives you forward with a trusted understanding that you are headed in the right direction no matter what happens. Purpose gives you the fire in your belly to get out there and do what you know you were destined to do.... Purpose creates PASSION. Purpose generates energy. Purpose empowers you with a sense of FULFILMENT when you are who you were destined to be. Purpose doesn’t ignore the battles you’ve won or the struggles you’ve overcome to get here - it comes with trials and life changing experiences that shape you with a great depth of wisdom and knowing. And when you discover yours... Purpose like a feeling of coming home to yourself. Let me help you detect your Life Purpose and set you on a path of greater understanding of yourself. Live with intention! : @rosa_spink

05.01.2022 Recently I’ve been helping my clients write their personal manifesto. This is essentially a declaration of self, which clarifies ones beliefs, motives and intentions in life. It captures the essence of who you are and what you stand for. When we know who we really are at our very best, we become more capable of interacting with the world from this place of integrity and produce the results we want in life. I thought I would share my manifesto so that you all know who I real...ly am: I KNOW I am here for a reason. I am here for more than just myself. There is more to life than simply working, procreating and dying. There is so much JOY to be felt, so much LOVE to be experienced. I am here for those who have lost their way (or never found it.) I am here to shine a light in the darkest of times. Through my own zest for life I encourage others to find theirs. There is so much to learn here, beyond what they taught us at school, what the governments want us to believe, just to keep the cogs turning. I’m here to question the cogs of existence, to move others to feel, to connect with themselves and others on a deeper level, to open their minds to new perspectives. I am here to seek truths, to accumulate knowledge and experience, and share this with others to lead people into personal empowerment and I will do it with a smile on my face! My heart is open to share and receive deep love, always. I will treat others with compassion and understanding as I wish to be treated. I treat Mother Earth and all creatures with respect and kindness, I seek ways to minimise my footprint and live a conscious, healthy lifestyle. I am here to build a legacy so that I can create a positive impact in this world with as wide a reach as possible. I am Ricky Cubley and I am here to make a difference. : Rosa Spink

04.01.2022 Message of The Day!

01.01.2022 Recently I’ve been exploring the notion of being humble vs being proud. Many of my clients express a common thread in which they were conditioned by society to believe that being vocally proud or sure of themselves is in fact arrogant or selfish - I don’t want to make others feel small because of my accomplishments, or I don’t want to make other people feel shitty because I have something they don’t. I resonate so heavily with this, because for as long as I can rem...ember I have been CONFIDENT in myself. I have the ‘gift of the gab’, I’ve always made great connections with people and generally been very capable in most aspects of life. Some of this I have worked VERY HARD for, some things came naturally to me. In various ways, society taught me not to ‘flaunt’ what I had. It told me not to tell the world incase others believed me to be arrogant or cocky, and essentially dislike me for it. In fact, I’ve leant that finding things too easy at school actually didn’t prepare me very well for life outside the academic system at all. So, whilst I am humble person (let me know if you object to this,) in recent years I have had to develop a sense of positive PRIDE and CELEBRATION of my achievements. Whilst I acknowledge my privilege, I also understand that I am human, and life can throw shit at me just like it can anyone else. I have persevered through difficult times, I have developed a strong GROWTH mindset, I practice deep COMPASSION for others, and I have worked to be GRATEFUL for and UNDERSTAND the natural gifts that I was born with; so that I can apply this all to a greater Purpose of my life, which puts me in service to other people in the world. For this, I am PROUD. I will celebrate my achievements as I do others, and in the sharing of my victories I hope to inspire others to rise up and do the same. Strive to be the best version of yourself for more than just yourself. We can’t inspire anyone by staying small. We can’t inspire anyone if we are worried about triggering a few people along the way. So I say to you, TELL THE WORLD JUST HOW AWESOME YOU ARE TODAY. Being awesome is contagious! : @rosa_spink See more

01.01.2022 Honestly, I LOVE MY LIFE. I get to connect with amazing people daily, and share KNOWLEDGE & TOOLS that help empower people to improve their lives. I am able to share from a place of EXPERIENCE, having overcome many personal issues myself, which essentially, I feel is the most important quality with any coach. My mind gets blown EVERYDAY by something incredible, ranging from a theory in a book or a clients experience of the work we do. I’ve always had this little motto: Well..., every day is a school day. I started to notice that I said this quite a lot, but had never really understood that this was actually an unconscious BELIEF SYSTEM, and by saying it over and over, I was unintentionally reinforcing the idea that I should be learning or growing somehow every day of my life. MINDBLOWN. Luckily for me, this was an empowering belief system. Surprisingly I had to work on many more conditioned programs that were not serving me, rather they were subconsciously limiting me. I LOVE LEARNING ABOUT MY MIND! What do you love nerding out over? : @rosa_spink #coaching #mindset #reprogrammingyoursubconscious #insights #personaldevelopment #mind #lifecoaching #changeyourlife #shedding #learning #nerd