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25.01.2022 We can't be happy ALL the time, can we? I mean logically, that's not how life is, so why do we let children think that challenging things can’t happen to them? Think about it; isn't it better to raise them to have great coping skills? We can do that by having good (old fashioned) conversations about life in general. That includes discussing OUR OWN feelings and letting our children know that it's ok to feel sad, frustrated or even angry sometimes. As a nurse, I saw many sa...d things, but, when I needed to talk to my children about loss, back in the ’70s, there were no books on the subject to help me. We weren't (and our parents weren't,) encouraged to have those conversations- and it seems that nothing much has changed! My aim is to encourage and motivate parents to find the courage to discuss loss openly and honestly- I wrote my book to help people to do just that. Please message me if you have any questions. I'd be happy to help if I can. For more information or to order a copy of my book, please go to; http://www.sayinggoodbye.com.au Copies are also available through Bella Boheme Springwood, and Winmalee Post Office or you can order worldwide by contacting me directly. Please LIKE and FOLLOW me on Instagram and Facebook; lisa_sayinggoodbyeauthor fReading Beyond The Words.Lisa #bounceback #creativecommunity #beyou #childrensbooks #kidsbookstagram #inspiringchildrentoread #raisingreatreaders #teachersofinstagram #impactteachers #primary_positivity #parents #parentsofinstagram #emotionsmatter #mentalhealth #selfcarespotlight #advocating.mentalhealth #daylightillustrations #lovebcalm #childrensmentalhealth #learning #parenting #Parenttips #talktoourkids #love #patience #talktoyourkids #helpkids #helpparents

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21.01.2022 We all TRY to make sense of loss and grief in order to cope. My book would not have been written without my grandson experiencing emotional pain, through the loss of a loved one and without my stroke (in Oct 2017,) the illustrations would never have been developed in quite the same way. I know about ’goodbye’ moments because I lived, at that time, with the ultimate goodbye moment hanging over my head. I firmly believe that trying to finish ’Saying Goodbye’ saved me both men...tally and emotionally! The book gave me a purpose- a reason to get up every morninga reason to push myself to get better. I had to accept that I could have a second stroke within that first twelve months; the fear of never publishing my book drove me to spend all my waking hours trying to finish it! I wanted to leave this world (if I had to,) knowing that children could still be helped to understand loss, long after I was gone. I spent eight months working with artist sigrid_wharton and a further two months with graphic designer Shai Lundgren; this was at a time when I couldn't even dress myself or walk without assistance. I COULD, however, still use my brain! My creative visions for each page began to explode as my brain rewired itself! I never stopped believing that my book would be published. In April 2019, I was finally able to hold the first copy of ’Saying Goodbye’ in my hands; that was quite a surreal moment! So, if you're out there, feeling lost, abandoned, grieving or struggling with what life throws at you, then please don't lose sight of what you DO have (both within you, and around you.) Believe that you're worth fighting for and fight to find a purpose, to help you to deal with your pain or grief. Please message me if you have any questions about my book (or my stroke.) I'm happy to help if I can. Here’s a link to a short video, where you can watch my grandson (Albie) reading Saying Goodbye. https://youtu.be/AGvpfOgts60 For more information, please go to; http://www.sayinggoodbye.com.au #emotionsmatter #mentalhealth #bounceback #creativecommunity #beyou #primary_positivity #parents #selfcare #wisdomquotes #tinybuddah

21.01.2022 Your brain is like a computer. Use positive self-talk instead of negative. If you can write down what you tell yourself over 24 hours, you might be very surprised by what you’re programming your brain to believe! It just takes practice, but if you start to change the words you use, and the negative things you tell yourself, you will see a change for the better in your mental health. Say goodbye to negatives and hello to a healthier way of thinking. I taught stress manage...ment for three years at Campbelltown Area Health Centre (back in the ’70s) before I became a nurse, and I promise you this approach will work if you want it to! Teach your children to rephrase their comments to more positive one's, and you can help them to deal with stress more effectively too. My tweenage granddaughter was unhappy yesterday because she couldn't find what she was looking for in the stores. I explained that even adults have frustrating days where things don't go to plan. We discussed the possibility that tomorrow would be a better day and that SHE had the power to control how she felt at that momentchanging her thinking changed her mood. http://www.sayinggoodbye.com.au #findyourself #selfworth #selflove #youareenough #gratitudeattitude #motivation #selfcompassion #selfimage #selflovequotes primary_positivity #teachersofig #emotions #emotionsmatter #mentalhealth #children #kids #parentselfcare

21.01.2022 Here are two brand new colouring-in pages! When used together, they can stimulate conversation, so why not do some colouring with your child? The pages highlight a goodbye moment that can sometimes cause children to feel anxious, so having that conversation can make them feel a little less concerned about experiencing change.... You will be able to encourage conversation by discussing what’s happening in the pictures. You can ask questions about the sort of EMOTIONS the child in the car might be feeling. You could even ask about WHERE that child could be going or WHY he might need to move. If you have any memories of moving house yourself, you could also share the positive things that happened to you, when you experienced a significant change. Sharing YOUR positive feelings will help your child to understand that change can bring; New possibilities. New friends. New experiences. Please feel free to download any of the colouring-in pages on my website, at no charge, as they’re all my gift to you. Go to; www.sayinggoodbye.com.au

20.01.2022 I love receiving feedback like this! My book can be used to open a discussion about loss in general, but sometimes, it's used to explain why something sad is about to happen (or has already happened.) In my opinion, it's preferable to start conversations about loss early in a child’s life, but I understand that these conversations can be uncomfortable for parents and carers to approach. I wrote my book because I couldn't find anything to help me to explain to my grandson, why... some goodbyes can make people sad. I decided to cover a range of childhood, ’goodbye’ moments in my book, so that children could relate to each of them, either through their own experiences or through the experiences of their friends. So, when is the right time to tell children that sometimes friends move away, sometimes pets get sick and sometimes, people they love can't stay with them anymore? The answer is that there's NEVER a good time, but there IS a gentle way to start a discussion that will prevent them from being blindsided by sudden loss when it happens. ’Saying Goodbye,’ really does get those conversations started because I've designed each illustration to allow children to interpret what they mean to them, personally. I've also developed several colouring-in pages that can help parents too. They're free to download from my website. #primary_positivity #teachersofig #teachersfollowteachers #iteachfirst #iteach #tidyteacher #reading #kidlit #maistorybooklibrary #Kidsmatter #kidsread #bounceback #creativecommunity #beyou #childrensbooks #kidsbookstagram #emotions #emotionsmatter #mentalhealth #children #kids

19.01.2022 My daughter Danielle Sabina and I were guest speakers at a second Rotary event last night. I was able to introduce my book to a group of wonderful people who were only too willing to spread the word about the benefits of reading ‘Saying Goodbye’ to children, to empower them with understanding and also to build resilience in the face of loss. With the assistance of Richmond and Penrith branches of Rotary Club, I can begin to reach many of the organisations that the book was designed to help. I’m feeling very blessed and grateful right now! Thank you, Jo Dunstan, for making both evenings possible. #parentselfcare #mentalhealth #emotions #childrensmentalhealth #kids #fostercare #books #resillientkids #EmpoweringCommunities #sayinggoodbye #sayinggoodbyeishard #CompassionateCommunities #rotaryclub #primaryteacher #childcareprofessional

19.01.2022 It's hard to move on from loss and sadness, but it's so important to permit yourself to be happy! This means that it's ok to begin to move forward one step at a time (if that's where you're at,) OR full steam ahead if you don't want to waste another minute feeling unhappy with your life. It's about your mindset and your will to survive even the saddest of experiences. Being happy is a choice. Remembering the good times is a choice. Focus on what you CAN do and move FORWARD. Always remember ’The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step!’ Lao Tzu You CAN have a better tomorrow by simply BELIEVING that it's possible! Go out and find your happiness. Lisa

18.01.2022 Saying goodbye to stuff is a normal occurrence as we move through life, but it's not always easy for any of us. Teaching children about ’goodbye’ moments is important, as it helps to build resilience! Here are two NEW colouring-in pages for you to enjoy with your children.

18.01.2022 When we have to say goodbye to something (or someone,) it hurts. It hurts, no matter how old we are. Children can't be expected to understand how to cope with loss unless someone reaches out to help them. Who does that, exactly? If we’re feeling sad, it can be challenging to find the right words to explain what's going on. Preparing our children early for loss (both great and small) is therefore vitally important.... Unfortunately, most of us delay having conversations on loss until something actually DOES go wrong. I think we avoid these conversations, believing that we're somehow saving our children from the harsh realities of life. That's a lovely sentiment, but we're actually (unwittingly) enabling them to be blindsided by loss when it suddenly occurs. Do you remember how YOU felt when a pet died, or when a friend moved away? I remember being shocked, sad and confused. Sadly, there was nothing available in bookstores (even by the late ’90s) to help my six-year-old grandson with separation anxiety, so I wrote Saying Goodbye for him- to try to normalise loss. I wanted to write a very gentle story that took him through a range of relatable ‘goodbye’ moments, while also touching on situations that might make some sad feelings happen. I wanted the message to be a supportive and loving one that my young grandson could easily understand. Over the years, sharing this story with parents, carers, and teachers has become my passion. I've been able to help hundreds of families, and I'm proud to say that ‘Saying Goodbye’ has now been accepted by Sydney’s Macquarie University for their research library! Please don't wait until something sad happens; if you have young children, I ask you to consider raising the subject of loss with them. There are free colouring-in page downloads on my website to help you do it in a fun and gentle way! Go to; saying goodbye.com.au for more information. Please LIKE and FOLLOW me on Facebook and Instagram to show your support. Lisa #emotionsmatter #mentalhealth #bounceback #creativecommunity #beyou #primary_positivity #parentsofinstagram #selfcare #wisdomquotes #teachersofaustralia #teachersofinstagramau #impactteachers

17.01.2022 Opening gentle conversations about feelings will give insight into what your child is thinking and if you have concerns about their mental health, please seek professional advice immediately. This colouring-in page is now available as a FREE download on my website. http://www.sayinggoodbye.com.au

17.01.2022 I love a good fancy dress event! I try never to let my stroke define what I can achieve and enjoy. Life isn't always fair or fun, BUT aspects of life can be still be immensely enjoyable, even during tough times. Whatever your situation, I believe that it's better to see the glass as half full rather than half empty, whenever you can. We often have to say goodbye to jobs, friendships, relationships, loved ones and sometimes our health as we move through the different stage...s of our lives. Please take the time to stop and appreciate everything you DO have when life starts to get you down. Your children will imitate what they see, and you can really help them through their own struggles by changing your own mindset, to one that embraces life’s challenges in order to learn from them. I decided to turn lemons into lemonade when my world was turned upside down three years ago. That philosophy has stood me in good stead for my whole life, and it was something my father would always tell me as a child. If you are experiencing challenges in your life why not give this idea a try; I promise you it works if you want it to. Life is still worth living regardless of its challenges. Lisa http://www.sayinggoodbye.com.au #kids #picturebooks #emotions #emotionsmatter #mentalhealth #mybookfeatures #childrensbookauthor #teachers #educators #teacher #educatorsofinstagram #writerscommunity #bounceback #creativecommunity #beyou #childrensbooks #kidsbookstagram #inspiringchildrentoread #raisingreatreaders #teachersofinstagram #impactteachers #primary_positivity #parents #parentsofinstagram

15.01.2022 When our emotional bank account is running low, it's essential to take time out to replenish the supply, so we can keep giving to others. #selfcarespotlight #advocatingmentalhealth #lovebcalm... #childrensmentalhealth #learning #parenting #Parenttips #talktoourkids #love #patience #helpkids #helpparents See more

14.01.2022 It was both a privilege and a pleasure, to speak about my book, at this Rotary evening last month. I'm thrilled to announce that the Penrith Rotary Club has purchased books to a total of $300! These books will be given out to organisations where they can do the most good. I was blessed to have been invited to speak at two Rotary meetings in recent months, and I'm humbled by the generosity of both Richmond and Penrith branch members who bought books for their friends and fam...ilies on the night. Discussions with members were mainly around foster parents and their children, and the benefits of book donations being made to this area of our community. We also chatted about grandparents; many members felt that conversations about loss were vitally important in preparing their grandchildren for future goodbye moments too. For more information go to; http://www.sayinggoodbye.com.au Please follow and like to show your support. #parents #writers #kidlit #maistorybooklibrary #Kidsmatter #kidsread #bounceback #creativecommunity #beyou #childrensbooks #childrensbookauthor #children #kids #kidsbookstagram #kidsbookswelove #inspiringchildrentoread #raisingreatreaders #teachersofinstagram #impactteachers #primary_positivity #teachersofig #iteachfirst #iteach #tidyteacher #reading #picturebooks #emotions #emotionsmatter #mentalhealth#mybookfeatures

14.01.2022 Even though we’re all experiencing challenging times right now, there’s always something to be thankful for, if we choose to see it. If life’s challenges are causing you anxiety, chances are, your children could be feeling anxious too! There WILL be moments where we are forced to discuss difficult topics with our children. Facing challenging times together can bring us closer. ... Because ’Saying Goodbye’ is a story about learning to let go, it's the perfect introduction to any change that's about to take place. Moving house, changes in your family situation, the loss of a pet. These are all ’goodbye’ moments. The story will assist you in discussing how it feels to say goodbye and how your child might feel if that situation happened to them. Why not visit my website to see if my book can be of help to your family! Accepted by Macquarie University for their research library. Easy to read and enjoy. Australia wide postage is available upon request. Please follow me on Facebook and Instagram. @lisa_sayinggoodbyeauthor To buy a copy of my book or to download two FREE colouring-in pages, go to; http://www.sayinggoodbye.com.au #tinybuddah #emotionsmatter #mentalhealth #bounceback #creativecommunity #beyou #primary_positivity #parents #selfcare #dailyquotesforwisdom #gratitudeattitude #blessingmanifesting

11.01.2022 My graphic designer Shai Lundgren has created yet another colouring-in page for you to share with your children. Why not get creative and add decorations to the whiteboard! When ’goodbye’ moments like teachers leaving, occur, children can sometimes become upset. Talking about these events and sharing your own experiences can normalise them. This can then begin to prepare your children for future goodbyes that may be harder to deal with, like moving to a new school or experi...encing the loss of a pet or even a family member. A selection of colouring-in pages is available (as a free download) on my website. They cover a range of goodbye moments, so using them as a ’creative’ activity, may help encourage future conversations about loss. If you find these pages helpful, please share your thoughts with me. I'd love suggestions for future colouring-in pages too! Lisa http://www.sayinggoodbye.com.au

11.01.2022 I love this! We all have those moments when we want to give up; that's just life, I guess. One of those goodbye moments that really challenged my belief systems, was when I had a stroke at 60-that was in 2017. I chose to move forward though, because I'm a positive person by nature, and slowly (and I mean slowly), I began to regain a lot of what I had lost. I'm not saying it's easy; far from it, but what I CAN say is that it's worth the effort to keep reaching BEYOND ...the challenges life presents. I’ve still got a long way to go, but I refuse to give up trying to get better each day! Never stop believing in the power of YOU! #selfcarespotlight #advocating.mentalhealth #lovebcalm #childrensmentalhealth #learning #parenting #Parenttips #talktoourkids #love #patience #talktoyourkids #helpkids #helpparents #teachersofinstagramau #learning

08.01.2022 My family has had its share of heartache over losing a beloved fur baby. This photo will always remind me of the love that we have, and will always have, for our beautiful boy, Bobby. Unfortunately, many people don't seem to prioritise preparing their children for loss. Our parents didn't prepare us, and we survived, right? Personally, I think that it's kinder to speak to children about loss BEFORE something sad happens because it shouldn't be about surviving childhoo...d, it should be about THRIVING in childhood. I understand that we want our kids to enjoy being protected from sadness for as long as possible. Still, a little preparation for what life might throw at them will go a long way to building their resilience for future goodbye moments. I wrote ’Saying Goodbye’ to help my grandson to understand that loss is a normal (but sometimes,) sad part of life. If you have a pet and haven't discussed loss (in general) with your children, then please go to my website and download the free colouring-in pages; they will help you to get those difficult conversations started in a fun and gentle way. www.sayinggoodbye.com.au #kidsbookswelove #inspiringchildrentoread #maistorybooklibrary #kidsmatter #kidsread #bounceback #creativecommunity #beyou #childrensbooks #kidsbookstagram #teachersofinstagram #teachersofig #teachersfollowteachers #raisingreatreaders #impactteachers #primary_positivity #iteachfirst #iteach #tidyteacher #reading #children

06.01.2022 You can't buy happiness, but you CAN buy books, which is kind of the same thing. ~Anonymous~ The engaging, yet easily understood illustrations in ’Saying Goodbye, ’ will allow your child to relate to everyday ’goodbye’ situations from an early age. ... By starting the reading process when children are young, you can slowly normalise these ‘goodbye’ moments and prepare your children for what might come to pass in their lives. It's important to open conversation around this subject to prevent children from being blindsided by normal (but sad) situations that occur in childhood. My book allows children to describe their feelings and to discuss how the characters in the book might be feeling; many families have already found comfort within the pages of my book. Young children can understand what's happening in the story by looking at the pictures and asking questions. Older children can read the book and enjoy its comforting message. To find out more about my book, please go to; sayinggoodbye.com.au

06.01.2022 Sad things can happen to good people, and life can be tough sometimes. People often tell me that they find it hard to know what to say to their children during times of loss. I get it, I’ve had that problem too in the past! That's why I wrote my book; I wanted to explain the meaning of the word loss to my six-year-old grandson, but there was nothing available in bookstores, that covered the topic of ’childhood’ goodbyes in a way that he could easily understand. ... When you don't know how to begin those challenging conversations, why not let ’Saying Goodbye’ get them started for you? www.sayinggoodbye.com.au #kidlit #maistorybooklibrary #Kidsmatter #kidsread #bounceback #creativecommunity #beyou #childrensbooks #kidsbookstagram #worldbookday #primary_positivity #teachersofig #teachersfollowteachers #iteachfirst #iteach #tidyteacher #reading #children #kids #picturebooks

05.01.2022 Christmasisn't always an easy time of year. Life goes on regardless, and we often feel anxious trying to be all things to all people. We still have to TRY to make sense of loss in order to cope with daily life, no matter what time of year it occurs. It's also important for children to understand that (like it or not,) it happens in EVERY family. Dark clouds DO contain silver linings, so I encourage you to look for the (sometimes, well hidden) positives in all your challengi...ng experiences. Building resilience is definitely ONE of those positives. A selection of colouring-in pages is now available on my website (as a free download.)They cover a range of goodbye moments, so using them as a ’creative’ activity, may also help to encourage future conversations about loss. For more information or to order a copy of my book, please go to; http://www.sayinggoodbye.com.au Please LIKE and FOLLOW me on Instagram and Facebook; lisa_sayinggoodbye facebook.com/sayinggoodbye/ Merry Christmas everyone! Lisa #selfcarespotlight #advocating.mentalhealth #daylightillustrations #lovebcalm #childrensmentalhealth #learning #parenting #Parenttips #love #patience #talktoyourkids #helpkids #helpparents

05.01.2022 Getting feedback like this about my book, really fills my heart with joy.

03.01.2022 There are so many things we want to teach our children, but to give them the tools to help them cope with what will throw at them is vitally important. Now, more than ever, children need help to understand what's going on around them. If you need help with some of the more challenging conversations around loss and grief, please check out my website as there are free colouring-in downloads there to help you. ... http://www.sayinggoodbye.com.au #kidlit #maistorybooklibrary #Kidsmatter #kidsread #bounceback #creativecommunity #beyou #childrensbooks #kidsbookstagram #emotionsmatter #parents #selfcare #wisdomquotes #tinybuddah #emotions #readingbeyondthewords

03.01.2022 I just couldn't resist taking this photo today! It's been a bit of a tough week, but I reminded MYSELF that ’goodbye moments’ are a normal (although often sad) part of life, and today I wanted to show the juxtaposition of goodbyes, and our ability to momentarily enjoy the beauty that's around us- if we choose to see it. http://www.sayinggoodbye.com.au https://www.facebook.com/Wood-by-Tibert-108197307413876/... #emotionsmatter #mentalhealth #bounceback #creativecommunity #beyou #primary_positivity #parents #selfcare #wisdomquotes #tinybuddah #emotions

03.01.2022 My father would always say A problem shared is a problem halved! If you find you're not coping then please tell someone. credit@josietedesco #RUOK... #emotionsmatter #mentalhealth #bounceback #creativecommunity #beyou #primary_positivity #parents #selfcare #wisdomquotes #tinybuddah #emotions http://www.sayinggoodbye.com.au