Simone Jeavons Coach | Psychologist
Simone Jeavons Coach
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25.01.2022 https://bottomlineinc.com//how-to-get-trauma-out-of-your-b
24.01.2022 It’s hard to sit with dualities, or black & white, but sometimes if we sit in the middle, our perspective expands. Have you been in a situation like this before? Get the best of what we publish: elephantjournal.com/best
20.01.2022 Absolutely true!
19.01.2022 What a fantastic read about how to step out of the patterns we learned as children, when we become parents ourselves. Thanks Women's Agenda for publishing such an honest and relevant article.
19.01.2022 They'll thank you later.
18.01.2022 When we hang out with sick people, we get sick, period. If you are spending time with a person who is a pathological liar, manipulative, agenda-based, energy-su...cking (attached because of what is in it for them), conscienceless and cannot empathise, be remorseful and change their abusive behaviour, you are being violated and damaged. You will also start to behave like someone who is broken and damaged. You may also be hugely confused by what is happening and think that you are to blame because the narcissist is telling you this. If you suspect that you are being narcissistically abused, yet this person doesn’t rage at you and criticise you, you may wish to see information about the Altruistic Narcissist, so that you get clarity. Being devalued by a narcissist doesn’t have to be raging and criticising. It can be having no care for you or your things, rights and needs. It may be objectifying you and having no interest in you as a person. It may be pathologically lying and doing things behind your back, that would hurt you, without remorse or conscience. We know everyone can have a bad day and not act nicely, yet we know whether they are a good person. This is very different from someone chronically devaluing you, whilst you get even sicker trying to organise yourself around their unresolved pathological wounds. So, if you have had enough of this and even if you are in confusion and not sure what is going down, know, either way, that starting to meet, find and heal your inner wounds will start granting you salvation which is the clarity, power and relief you need for this cycle to stop. And to help you with this I have put together a free 16 Day Recovery Program for you. You can sign up here - https://bit.ly/2ChX3rU. It includes two free ebooks - How to do No Contact and The First Steps After Narcissistic Abuse plus an invitation to my free Healing Workshop. Much love xo
12.01.2022 The best help comes from what you show, not tell.
09.01.2022 This is one of the best descriptions I have ever heard of what occurs in the relationship dynamic with someone with Narcissistic Personality Disorder. I used to describe it as whatever you asked for, they would do the opposite and as a rational human being you would attempt to explain and rationalise your needs to them but this simply gave them the narcissistic supply they were looking for. This is well worth a read.
03.01.2022 This has destroyed friendships, marriages, and careers. How to handle it:
01.01.2022 "Trauma Bonding Number 5 Infantile Regression In times of intense trauma, it is common to regress to your most instinctual learnt behaviour to try to surviv...e. This is the clinging of a child to the ‘parent’ you believe is powerful and able to provide some relief to the trauma at hand. What happens when the closest person that you perceive as a source of support happens to be a cruel and abusive narcissist? The answer is ‘No difference’ because you have already formed a powerful attachment and addiction bonds that want to create this person as your saviour. By reading all the prior information on this blog now you can understand why. Infantile regression is powerful, unconscious, and a primitive survival program that operates at the very core of your being. Your maturity and self-reliability goes out the window and is replaced by utter childlike helplessness. In this state, you believe that you will literally die if you disagree with the narcissist, take the blame, do anything to keep the peace and grant everything the narcissist wants in the primitive hope that the onslaughts will stop. You will be allowed by the narcissist to avoid complete emotional annihilation. Your rights are completely withdrawn by yourself and numbed out in your need for survival. The perverse twist to this is that you have now surrendered your soul to the narcissist and idolised this person as ‘Your God’, who has the ultimate power to dictate your fate. Then when the narcissist ‘allows’ you to exist again, your idolisation becomes the pathological survival belief: This person is the Creator of my world. What greater illusion of ‘love’ could there ever be? The truth about love that you need to travel towards is: I am the creator of my world, and I am never reliant on any specific person being that creator for me. When I am my own creator, I will reject what is not good to me, and add into my experience more of who I already am. To do this, your focus has to come off the narcissist, and on to yourself so that you may heal from the illusions."* *An excerpt from - Trauma Bonding Is It Love Or Something Else? - https://bit.ly/2IjqOuO Read the above article If you'd like to know more about the other ways you can get trauma bond with a narcissist - Stockholm Syndrome; Cognitive Dissonance; Repetitive Compulsion Disorder and Peptide Addiction. Or watch this video - How To Recognise The 5 Types Of Trauma Bonding -https://bit.ly/38qDGdM. Much love xo
