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17.01.2022 When a child is finally alienated, it is the result of their surrender. The Alienated Child surrenders to their Alienator as a means of survival. Caption: For ...Alienated Parents, alienation feels like a switch has been flipped because the alienation seems sudden to them. But for the Alienated Child, alienation is the result of ongoing psychological abuse. #parentalalienation #childalienation #parentalalienationawareness #parentalalienationischildabuse #parentalalienationsyndrome #parentalalienationisacrime #parentalalienationsurvivor #parentalalienationisreal #childabusesurvivor #childabuseprevention #childalienation #oncealienated #childmentalhealth #divorcehelp #childrensrightsarehumanrights #childrensrights #recoverfromnarcissisticabuse #narcissistawareness #narcissistmother
12.01.2022 Cutting a child off from their family robs them of important foundational relationships. -Kid of PAS
12.01.2022 Abuse is trans-generational. We have to break the cycle...
11.01.2022 The dreaded trip to the vet!
09.01.2022 The attachment bond between a mother and her child is first formed in the womb, where fetuses have been found to develop preferential responses to maternal scents and sounds that persist after birth, explains Myron Hofer, who was director of the Sackler Institute for Developmental Psychology at Columbia University until his retirement in 2011. These rapid early-learning processes continue during the newborn stage of development, in which children begin to recognize their mot...hers’ faces and voices. From this point on, early maternal separation can result in a series of traumatic emotional reactions during which the child engages in an anxious period of calling and active search behavior followed by a period of declining behavioral responsiveness. quote from the report below. We know that relinquished at birth adoptees have trauma due to separation, but little is said about the child who is separated from parents and siblings after infancy and beyond. And even less about the child who was molested, and abused physically, emotionally and sexually by parent(s) and other family or the child who endured all of this only to have it repeated by those who the court appointed as adoptive ‘parents’. We of the latter group in fact had the worse of adoptee experiences, most of which will always be apart of our psyches, and always the shadows of those experiences can be triggered by the slightest thing in our current lives. Like identity theft, we know PTSD long before it was given to war veterans as a description of yet another battle to fight. There is another issue of separation that is left begging and that is the DNA fabric torn and ripped from being separated from family, but also from a long chain of ancestors all of who contributed to our genomes which dictate our habits, our features, our preferences, our dislikes, and even the amount of sun than our skins will absorb before it is burned by the UV rays. (in utero fetuses also recognize voices of those they cannot see beyond its watery womb, which imprints the developing child’s knowledge of those others of its home environment after leaving the womb including family pets and other environmental sounds in the external world found away from the domicile in which he/she lives. And those centimorgans and chromosomes which rule our very beings.
09.01.2022 This girl in China's gorgeous dresses are all handmade by an unlikely person - her father.
08.01.2022 **NEW VIDEO** When you finally agree to your husband giving you a facial... *WARNING* Ladies, don't just let any bloke do it...ask to see qualifications first! #AGoodPricking Viewers of a sensitive nature, this one might not be for you...
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03.01.2022 Alienated kids deal with this reality in their own ways. Seeing your cousins and extended family all close and connecting can cause resentment and further reali...zation of the wounds of alienation. If you're an alienated kid who is or has reconnected with your family, don't let this drive more of a wedge. Resist the urge to be victimized by this reality. I get it. I have been there and every time I see my family, I am reminded of this. BUT...you can choose to see the good or become bitter. I choose to look at it as proof that I have a good family. I have a family who loves each other. I have a family who is happy to include me. Start here now.
01.01.2022 With Parental Alienation (PA), there is no timeline as to how long it will last, when/if you will reunite or how long it takes to heal from the impact. Targeted... children and targeted parents (incl. family members) live with emotional pain and uncertainty. Everyone's experience with PA may have similarities but can also be very different. Parental alienation solutions are NOT a one size fits all. There are many factors to consider. Also, how you respond to your situation can also make a big difference. Not all alienating parents are narcissistic. Anxiety, undealt with feelings and other mental health factors can be the cause. In our more extreme cases, personality disorders can be the contributing factor. Getting the right supports are important. See your doctor and get check-ups to make sure that your body is coping through the grief and stress. Be sure to look after yourself in every way possible... lots of self-care.
