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Toormina Swim School

Locality: Toormina

Phone: +61 2 6653 2068

Address: 14 Nariah Crescent Toormina 2452 Toormina, NSW, Australia

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23.01.2022 Some good skills to have

21.01.2022 My daughter is not ‘typical.’ Trying to force her to be something that she’s not doesn’t work. Let’s play a game, shall we?... Hey, mom, you need to be autistic now. What? Don’t worry; we’ll show you how. We’re going to give you therapy to make you autistic. But I’m not autistic. Not relevant. But .. We’re going to teach you to act autistic. All. The. Time. But ..that’s not who I am. Yeah, we know, but you’re going to have to get used to it. But it’s NOT WHO I AM. No, it’s not, but it’s who you need to at least appear to be if you’re going to succeed in this world. WHAT?? ** It hurts to be told - and shown - that who you are is not okay. That how you experience the world is ... wrong. That how you act is wrong. That how you express excitement, show fear, communicate joy, share sadness, and, and, and ... are wrong. It is a life of No. It is an environment of negative, toxic energy. No. No. No. A gummy bear for suppressing your natural instincts. A sticker on a chart for mastering a facade. It is exhausting. It doesn’t work. We cannot be who we aren’t. Even if we can pretend well enough to convince the panel of judges. Pretending to be someone you aren’t isn’t a life. It hurts. So I will not strive for normalcy for my autistic child. It’s an asinine and dangerous goal. Low self-esteem. Depression. Alcoholism. Drug abuse. Suicide. I’ve seen them all. And I emphatically reject that trajectory. My daughter is not ordinary. She is not typical. She is not a standard-issue human. She’s much, much more. So I will do everything I can to arm her with the tools that she needs to get by in a world that doesn’t fit. I will teach her what will be expected of her in every situation I can think to include. And I will tell her, by word and by deed, that her quest is not to make others comfortable, but to find the space in which both she and others can be as comfortable as possible, together. That it is not a one-way street. That she has every right to say, in her way, ‘The fact that I don’t fit the mold doesn’t mean that I’m the wrong shape. It means that we need a more flexible mold.’ I once believed that normalcy was our goal. No more. Now, we strive to appreciate and celebrate and foster that which is, truly, extraordinary. {image is a photo of Brooke and me laughing, with huge thanks to Connerton Photography.}

18.01.2022 What a fantastic year we have had. A big Merry Christmas to everyone. May you enjoy your Christmas and New Year break. I hope Santa is kind to you.

17.01.2022 I had a cry that day and hugged my children a bit harder that night.

16.01.2022 Hi Hope everyone has a wonderful break. Is anyone interested in some reading material? Let me know if you are

15.01.2022 End of year celebrations. Great work everyone. Some of our happy swimmers

14.01.2022 So wonderful to see the increased confidence.

13.01.2022 A child needs to be able to swim confidently with or without their goggles. If they wear them all the time they can become reliant on them. If they fall in they may not have their goggles with them. Help them to help themselves. Easy rule: First 30 minutes of swimming, no goggles. They can ask for them after that. ... Enjoy the holidays