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25.01.2022 Reflections of a Collaborative Lawyer. Via The Happy Family Lawyer.

24.01.2022 When one parent bad mouths the other, its the kids who suffer. Its important to remember that although you might no longer have a relationship with your ex, your child does.

24.01.2022 Anger in children is often an emotion that masks other, buried feelings. Experts suggest that rather than reacting to the anger, parents should look to connect with their child to explore underlying emotions.

24.01.2022 I often hear people say: Its cruel what the family law system does to people. Estimates show that approximately one half of all those in relationships will separate and of those, about one half of the time children are involved. It is surely a no-brainer that we should try and to keep families out of court where possible and save them the trauma as well as a potentially enormous financial cost in doing so. Our latest blog by Mary Louise Hatch https://vacp.com.au/our-famil...y-law-system-there-is-a-bette/ #vacp #collaborativepractice #collaborativepractitioner

23.01.2022 We invite you to view our latest webinar on our website (free). This webinar was recorded as part of our VACP Community Event, Wednesday 16 September 2020. Webinar presented by Houston based divorce expert, Christina McGhee. Included on our website are download links for accompanying resources: Validation Tips for Professionals... Webinar Slides #vacp #collaborativepractice #collaborativepractitioner

23.01.2022 "Collaborative Practice is a process where the clients control the costs, time and outcome. The essential element of a Collaborative matter is the contract signed by both people that records their agreement not to go to Court. This focuses everyones mind on reaching an agreement that suits both people." Latest article up on VACP website written by Joe Buckley https://vacp.com.au/good-health-is-everything/ Please feel free to share this post with your networks. ... #vacp #collaborativepractice #collaborativepractitioner

23.01.2022 We invite you to watch the documentary Family is Family, featuring some of the VACP community members, which showcases the interdisciplinary approach to separation and divorce with a strong emphasis on children. https://vacp.com.au/family-is-family-documentary/ #vacp #collaborativepractice #collaborativepractitioner

22.01.2022 Managing finances is one of the highest stress factors during and following divorce.

21.01.2022 Wishing all of our Collaborative partners, family and friends a safe and happy Easter.

20.01.2022 Its Everyday-Laws Law Week. Theres a huge range of events on all over Victoria all designed to help people understand their legal options.

20.01.2022 The latest VACP blog from Marguerite at Smart Separation, she says "If you are thinking about separating, or have recently broken the news to your partner, choose your advisors wisely, take time, do your research, ask for referrals from advisors, friends or family you trust. Be prepared to get a second opinion. Whatever that costs, it might be a very good investment in setting the right tone, the right path, and saving a lot of money, time, conflict, stress and health challenges." https://vacp.com.au/thinking-about-separating-recently-sep/ #vacp #collaborativepractice #collaborativepractitioner

20.01.2022 Collaborative practice offers a way for separating couples to resolve their disagreements respectfully and with dignity. The process is private and confidential and encourages open and honest communication. It does not seek to pathologize or demonise the other party but rather, is a strengths-based process that helps reconstruct the future https://vacp.com.au/separating-why-choose-collaborative-pr/ Written by Mary Louise Hatch . . .... . #vacp #collaborativepractice #collaborativepractitioner See more

19.01.2022 A big welcome to our FB page from the Executive and members of VACP (Victorian Association of Collaborative Professionals). We trust the information posted here will be helpful for all people who are separating, whose clients or co-workers are separating, and for anyone connected to those in that situation. Our organisation is dedicated to transforming the way couples and families experience separation and divorce, by promoting Interdisciplinary Collaborative Practice (ICP) a...s an option to address all of the emotional, financial and legal issues that are part of a divorce. ICP supports families with a team of professionals for each family. In this way, families can address all the things that matter to them, in a supportive, time and cost-efficient way. Our members are psychologists, social workers, counsellors, financial planners and family lawyers, all of whom have undertaken specific training in collaborative practice. To find out more about ICP and how it could be helpful for you or someone you know, or to find a psychologist, counsellor, financial planner or family lawyer to expertly step you through a collaborative approach, go to www.vacp.com.au. Marguerite Picard President Tanya LavanVice President Tricia Peters Secretary St John Heath Treasurer

19.01.2022 ** REGISTER NOW ** --> https://bit.ly/vacp-event-sept2020 VACP Community Event, Wednesday 16 September at Midday. Complimentary webinar presented by Houston based divorce expert, Christina McGhee When a relationship unravels, it rarely brings out the best in people. As strong emotions kick in and stress levels rise, it doesn’t take much for an ordinarily reasonable person to transform into someone irrational and emotionally reactive.... Logic and reason might seem like the best solution for bringing calm to any discussion about separation. The only problem? It rarely gets the results people need at that time. If you’ve ever felt stumped, personally or professionally, by how to support a warring couple or bickering parents, this event is for you. In this complimentary webinar, you’ll learn: The potential benefits of an interdisciplinary collaborative process and how that can lead to better outcomes. Why logic and reason don't always work and what to try instead. Practical strategies to help separating couples get unstuck and shift their perspective. One of the most effective engagement skills every professional should have in their back pocket. #vacp #collaborativepractice #collaborativepractitioner #event

19.01.2022 Who doesnt love a wedding, and theres no wedding like a royal wedding....

19.01.2022 LAST CHANCE TO BOOK --> https://bit.ly/vacp-event-sept2020 VACP Community Event, Wednesday 16 September at Midday. Complimentary webinar presented by Houston based divorce expert, Christina McGhee When a relationship unravels, it rarely brings out the best in people. As strong emotions kick in and stress levels rise, it doesn’t take much for an ordinarily reasonable person to transform into someone irrational and emotionally reactive. Logic and reason might seem like the be...st solution for bringing calm to any discussion about separation. The only problem? It rarely gets the results people need at that time. If you’ve ever felt stumped, personally or professionally, by how to support a warring couple or bickering parents, this event is for you. In this complimentary webinar, you’ll learn: The potential benefits of an interdisciplinary collaborative process and how that can lead to better outcomes. Why logic and reason don't always work and what to try instead. Practical strategies to help separating couples get unstuck and shift their perspective. One of the most effective engagement skills every professional should have in their back pocket. #vacp #collaborativepractice #collaborativepractitioner #event

19.01.2022 Trust has often been broken as relationships change or end. Collaborative divorce allows for real conversations about trust; about rebuilding trust, to what it means that it has been lost. This short video by Brene Brown defines and analyses trust, in ways that are useful in working towards healthy divorce settlements and parenting plans. #vacp #collaborativepractice #collaborativepractitioner

19.01.2022 All kids get angry from time to time, and it is important for parents not to blame themselves. Encouraging them to discuss what is causing them to feel frustrated can be a good starting point to helping your child manage strong emotions.

18.01.2022 Interested in learning how the collaborative approach can help you achieve a good solution - one where the priorities and concerns of all parties (including children) are addressed and explored?

17.01.2022 Theres many types of Mums and we wish them all a very Happy Mothers Day.

17.01.2022 About The Kids. How often do our clients come into our offices and tell us all I want is what is best for my children, and then we sadly observe their narrative or behaviour to be anything but child-focussed.... Latest article up on VACP website written by Ilana Katz #vacp #collaborativepractice #collaborativepractitioner

17.01.2022 When going through separation and divorce life throws a lot of things at you. Its not unusual for people to be struggling with emotions, or to be worried about their financial future, or how they will parent their children. The law has very few answers to the real questions and worries that people have at this time. https://vacp.com.au/interdisciplinary-collaboration-that-m/ #vacp #collaborativepractice #collaborativepractitioner

17.01.2022 Read all about Chloe McGuiness first collaboration with Sandy Hirschfield and Tricia Peters. What a wonderful insight into Chloes lived experience of her initiation into Collaboration. Beautifully articulated. https://vacp.com.au/observations-of-interdisciplinary-coll/ "When I undertook training in interdisciplinary collaboration this year, I initially considered that it might be enough to learn the skills and apply them to my usual practice. If I am completely honest, I was concerned that the financial advisor and family consultant neutral roles would somehow step on my toes. As family lawyers, we are often the go-to person for our clients for all their questions and concerns and the idea of sharing this responsibility felt unsettling at first." #vacp #collaborativepractice #collaborativepractitioner

17.01.2022 Were not in the least bit surprised that this top 10 tips for a good divorce includes a collaborative approach.

16.01.2022 Interested in the collaborative law process but not quite sure how it works? Our website can explain.

15.01.2022 Divorce often means a huge upheaval to your social life and the navigation of a new social scene. Heres some tips to consider.

15.01.2022 SAVE THE DATE! VACP Event, Wednesday 16 September at Midday. Complimentary webinar presented by Houston based divorce expert, Christina McGhee --> https://bit.ly/vacp-event-sept2020 When a relationship unravels, it rarely brings out the best in people. As strong emotions kick in and stress levels rise, it doesnt take much for an ordinarily reasonable person to transform into someone irrational and emotionally reactive. Logic and reason might seem like the best solution for... bringing calm to any discussion about separation. The only problem? It rarely gets the results people need at that time. If youve ever felt stumped, personally or professionally, by how to support a warring couple or bickering parents, this event is for you. In this complimentary webinar, youll learn: The potential benefits of an interdisciplinary collaborative process and how that can lead to better outcomes. Why logic and reason dont always work and what to try instead. Practical strategies to help separating couples get unstuck and shift their perspective. One of the most effective engagement skills every professional should have in their back pocket. #vacp #collaborativepractice #collaborativepractitioner #event Thanks to our proud sponsors for their generous support : Statewide Property Advocacy

14.01.2022 I often hear people say: It’s cruel what the family law system does to people.’’ Estimates show that approximately one half of all those in relationships will separate and of those, about one half of the time children are involved. It is surely a no-brainer that we should try and to keep families out of court where possible and save them the trauma as well as a potentially enormous financial cost in doing so. Our latest blog by Mary Louise Hatch https://vacp.com.au/our-famil...y-law-system-there-is-a-bette/ #vacp #collaborativepractice #collaborativepractitioner

14.01.2022 "I was absolutely dreading the arguments about what to do with our kids, but the process captured our determination to work together to make sure the girls made it through. Im sure that the reason was that the team worked together really well so that we could logically make decisions." - Hamish

13.01.2022 How do separating couples cope with the emotional turmoil while trying to stay calm and rational for settlement negotiations? #vacp #collaborativepractice #collaborativepractitioner

13.01.2022 Looking to gain a few more hours in your day? Heres some tips that might just help.

11.01.2022 The idea of a daily 20 minute "mind - body vacation" sounds appealing! Especially if it can lower stress levels and help with mental clarity.

10.01.2022 Read all about Chloe McGuiness' first collaboration with Sandy Hirschfield and Tricia Peters. What a wonderful insight into Chloe’s lived experience of her initiation into Collaboration. Beautifully articulated. https://vacp.com.au/observations-of-interdisciplinary-coll/ "When I undertook training in interdisciplinary collaboration this year, I initially considered that it might be enough to learn the skills and apply them to my usual practice. If I am completely honest, I was concerned that the financial advisor and family consultant neutral roles would somehow step on my toes. As family lawyers, we are often the go-to person for our clients for all their questions and concerns and the idea of sharing this responsibility felt unsettling at first." #vacp #collaborativepractice #collaborativepractitioner

10.01.2022 Lest we forget.

10.01.2022 It will have been a while since we had a public holiday, so its important to plan ahead to get this one right. A guide to whats on in Melbourne on the Queens Birthday Long Weekend (11 June).

09.01.2022 While not necessarily in order of importance, the first few issues show up most frequently, in the initial session. Not wanting to battle it out in court nor having a fight with my ex are commonly used phrases. Being in the midst of an emotional rollercoaster ride, accompanies many individuals on the separation journey, while they try to make rational and very important decisions for their own and the children`s future. Written by Sandy Hirschfield, Psychologist #vacp #collaborativepractice #collaborativepractitioner

09.01.2022 Anyone who has parented teens will tell you that communication can sometimes be fraught. This article offers some valuable tips.

08.01.2022 In times of relationship stress or not, this article on gratitude from The Gottman Institute has an uplifting message. Worth three minutes of your day. #vacp #collaborativepractice #collaborativepractitioner

08.01.2022 Our AGM on Tuesday 24 November was a positive event, reflecting on goals met for 2020. We are excited to welcome Ena Shaw, psychologist, and Chloe McGuinness, lawyer, as new committee members. The 2021 office bearers will again be Marguerite Picard, President, Tanya Lavan, Vice President, Tricia Peters, Secretary and St.John Heath, Treasurer, and our fellow committee members are Mary Louise Hatch and Joe Buckley, lawyers. We thank Ilana Katz, Melissa Lee and Sandy Hirschfie...ld, our retiring committee members. We are all looking forward to a great 2021 in the world of collaborative practice. Watch out!

07.01.2022 Premiers Active April encourages all Victorians to get at least 30 minutes of exercise a day. Why not do it as a family?

07.01.2022 Talking with teens about respectful sexual relationships something that a lot of parents, understandably, find tough. This article from FamilyLives might help.

05.01.2022 By working together as a specially trained collaborative team, your VACP lawyer, psychologist and or financial planner can ensure the best outcome for yourself and your children.

04.01.2022 Interested in learning how the collaborative approach and help you achieve a good divorce? One where the concerns and priorities of all parties are addressed and explored?

04.01.2022 Our Financial Professionals can help you organise your financial information and understand the short and long term impact of financial decisions made during separation.

01.01.2022 Mothers Day, Fathers Day and other special events can be tricky for a divorced couple. Heres a few tips to help you navigate your way through.

01.01.2022 Military families face pressures unlike any other. Thankfully, these days there are more resources to help those serving their country and their families.