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21.01.2022 This is spot on! Being prepared to hear what your opponent is saying and feeling is pivotal to finding resolution to a problem. Listening brings perspective. Perspective brings ideas.... Mediation can help you do this better, without adding fuel to the fire. Contact us for help finding a solution to a problem you face - at home, in your family or community activities, at work or in business. Mediation works!

20.01.2022 I often refer parties who have already reached agreement or are very close, to other organisations for the purpose of preparing parenting plans or financial agreements. Recently, I was made aware that these organisations are currently inundated with matters and as such, have a significant wait time. We can help. We don't need to set aside a whole day, just a few hours, and we have some shorter time slots available between now and Christmas.... Don't wait till the new year to finalise your arrangements. Contact us today 0499 899 777

17.01.2022 This may be of interest to our business clients who are experiencing conflict in their dealings.

15.01.2022 Mental health in our profession is tenuous even in good times. It's something we all need to carefully watch in this new 'normal'. Of particular interest to me in this October LSJ article was the discussion about working from home. No one would argue that it was initially an exciting change, especially for those of us who commute. But over time, practitioners are left with little break from the stresses and strains of work and home life combined. Lawyers in NSW now have som...e support services available to them. And it's not before time. Being problem solvers, we tend to absorb our client's problems and this can be an enormous burden and have a huge impact on our mental health. Adding no real separation of work and home and the weight can become untenable. Of course, we are not alone. These issues apply across to board, to everyone in any profession or workplace impacted by the changes required during Covid-19 (and likely beyond). Look after yourselves, and don't feel guilty about taking a break or switching off. When we're struggling, we're no good to anyone, inclusing ourselves. Raise your hand for some help - it's a sign of strength, not weakness. We are available to assist you if you need help negotiating any changes that might help you to keep on keeping on.

15.01.2022 When looking for a way to solve a problem, it's essential to think outside ourselves - there is rarely one side to a story. To find a compromise position, it's important to honestly acknowledge our role in the conflict - whether that be part of the cause, holding a position too firmly, or even enabling or exacerbating the problem in some way. If you are struggling to do either of these, Mediation can help, by:... highlighting perspectives previously clouded by personal involvement bringing reasonable alternatives to the forefront of negotiations assisting subtly, without increasing the level of conflict finding options not previously or otherwise contemplated. The process helps parties listen and be heard, accept change, apologise where appropriate, and learn more about the distinct, underlying issues. The goal? To bring parties closer to resolution. And it works! Have you tried mediation? Would you recommend it? Let me know how the process helped you or someone you know

14.01.2022 Court is a last resort. Always. Don't waste time money energyand stress on the hard road. It pays to try EVERYTHING else first.... We know, because we lived in litigation land for over 20 years. It costs a bomb, takes a very long time, causes an incredible amount of stress and worry, and can even damage your peronal life and/or business. Give mediation a try. We guarantee you won't be sorry.

14.01.2022 Are you still working from home? I am. It's not for everyone, and some have no choice in the matter. But a mix of home and office is great for work/life balance, for parents, for people who struggle with illness, and it's especially good for commuters. What I love about it is not wasting hours travelling (even though you can get some work done) and not needing to wear uncomfortable corporate attire every day. This is my work shirt today.... We could all use a dose of kindness in our day. Have you sprinkled any around today? Has someone been kind to you? It's not hard to do and it makes a huge difference. If we all give a little, we all gain. Kindness is like a ripple. Life is hard. Be kind.

13.01.2022 It's hard to ask for help. People tend to feel that raising their hand is a sign of weakness. In reality, it's a sign of strength and in fact demonstrates a willingness to change or improve. When we experience conflict, we feel stress and sometimes can't see the cause of the problem or the array of possible solutions that are right in front of you. ... Mediation helps people listen and be heard. When we listen, we often learn something we didn't know or couldn't previously see. Sometimes, being personally involved in conflict causes our natural emotional responses to overwhelm or blind us. Asking for help is the first step towards peace. We can help you take that step and find a solution that works. Contact us for more information.

12.01.2022 Mediation preparation - what do we do leading up to your mediation?? A lot goes on behind the scenes. Once initial consultations (free) and intake sessions are completed, we ask all of our clients to supply us with a written outline of their issues and copies of relevant documents. ... We also ask them the provide us with some ideas about what they hope to achieve; what a good result might look like for them. We then review all of the material before the mediation so we have some understanding of: What happened or caused the conflict What they have each done in an attempt to resolve it; what worked and what didn't Possible solutions from their perspective Whether legal / financial / social / other services might be needed for the parties to achieve resolution. Of course, it takes time, but is a very interesting part of the process. It helps us get the know the parties a little better, and get a feel for what questions to ask about the issues and how the mediation will proceed on the scheduled day/s. It also assists the parties to clarify their issues and possible outcomes, so they are well prepared. I love mediation!!

10.01.2022 Testimonials are great... But referrals are even better How good is it to know that someone you have worked with feels you did a good job? And good enough to recommend you to others?! I had a mediation last year for a personal family matter. I requested feedback, as usual, and it wasn't forthcoming. The matter was emotionally fraught so I wasn't sure whether the lack of feedback related to that aspect, or was because I didn't help the clients as well as I could have. It was... a small thing but I was concerned. Until this week.. One of the parties involved is in business. They recently recommended my services to a large organisation. I am meeting with that organisation later this week to discuss how I can help them. I am super excited because it could even result in ongoing work. Gotta celebrate the small wins Thank you to everyone who supports my quest to help people resolve conflict via mediation. I love what I do and now I truly believe that our clients know.

08.01.2022 A change of scenery this week. A working holiday of sorts. Spending time in this amazing building in the heart of Sydney's CBD caused me to ruminate about history and the time it takes to build beautiful, worthwhile, lasting things. We all know that history is complicated. And it takes time and effort to create anything that withstands the test of time.... Mediation can help you sort through your history, to really see what worked well, and discuss issues that created problems. It can help you find new pathways to agreement, and negotiate options that work best for your circumstances. Let us help you build a strong foundation for your future - at home, with your family, at work, in business. Contact us to find out more 0499 899 777

07.01.2022 This is so true.. Have you ever had a light bulb moment during deep discussion - when something about what has been said, or how it's been expressed, just hits home and you finally get it? It happens alot. Sometimes we don't realise till much later, when we're mulling things over in our mind (at say, 3am!)... Perspective is everything. But perspective is hard to find when we're in conflict. Our emotions often get the better of us. Many people struggle to express how they really feel, or just can't find the right words in the heat of the moment. Mediation can help. At the very least, it can help you understand a problem better. The only result? Understanding brings options for resolution to the surface, so proper negotiations can begin, and bear fruit. Contact us for further info: 0499899777 [email protected]

06.01.2022 RU OK? Loads of posts about this today. We ALL need support. Now, more than ever, people are suffering with mental health issues. ... Just this week, Lifeline received its highest ever volume of calls. Sometimes, all that is required is someone to listen. Check in with your friends and loved ones regularly. It can make all the difference when they are struggling. And remember: we are always happy to listen...

06.01.2022 Am looking forward to today's mediation in our COVID-19 compliant 'boardroom'. I am excited for these parties because they have already worked really hard, together, to find a resolution on most of the issues in contention between them. They have been through some recent trauma so it will no doubt be an emotional experience, but hopefully reassuring in that after the session, they can relax a little. ... I am helping them put their terms of agreement into written form and ensure they haven't missed any additional underlying issues. Wish me luck

06.01.2022 We didn't quite get there today.. but we still might. Sometimes a day is not enough time, or parties are worn out before we reach the finish line.. And that's ok.... It can be exhausting.. it can be confronting.. it can be difficult to find a compromise. But... There is always progress. And there is always another day. Mediation works. Have you tried it?

04.01.2022 I usually keep a few olive branches when we prune our olive trees. I have always wanted to brine our fruit too, but have never had the time or patience, particularly when our supply only fills a small tub. But I digress.. Olive branches symbolise peace, an offer of reconcilation. Their colours - dark green on one side and silver grey on the other - are a wonderful reminder about conflict resolution. 2 opposing positions can coexist!... Have you had an olive branch presented to you? Have you extended one? Let's talk about how to offer, or respond to, an olive branch. It's not always easy to do, but in a supportive environment, totally possible! Contact us to find out more