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Mark Le Messurier TVOBH

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23.01.2022 This kind of feedback from principals I admire makes the writing of my new book worthwhile. My wife, Sharon calls this book my mistress because Ive spent so long with her. This principal writes, Mark, I'm sending copies of your new baby to staff to have a look at. I watched the promo video #1 and almost cried; we have some terribly vulnerable kids who really dont remember that they are loved. What you describe is exactly what I have been on about this year thank you, because these kids are coming out of the woodwork at the moment (in line with the parent mental health issues too). Thanks for writing an honest book with such humane responses! https://teachingvaluesofbeinghuman.com.au/webinars.html

23.01.2022 SIBLING RIVALRY: how to see it and deal with it Competition between siblings has occurred since the beginning of time as kids have fought for time, attention, love, resources, and approval from their parents. Sibling relationships are the longest lasting and most constant intimate relationships formed by human beings, and mostly, they are driven by affection. They last longer than most friendships, through the deaths of parents and beyond many marriages. Sharing an extended s...hared history from early childhood into old age is significant! The truth is, most kids don’t have a natural incentive to treat their siblings nicely because no matter what they do, their sibling will still be there ready for them tomorrow! As well, a lot of sibling rivalry tends to occur ‘back-stage’ where parents never get to witness a beginning. What we get to see is the ‘performance’ and it is often the tip of the iceberg. This audio book highlights a host of practical approaches to soothe the intensity and work towards a more collaborative sibling culture. When sibling relationships are deftly supported and managed by parents in the early years, they are more likely to show greater compassion, tolerance and stronger connections towards each other. Available soon from... www.marklemessurier.com.au

22.01.2022 Chapter 4 Ideas to set goals and champion perseverance If youve already got an extraordinarily persistent student or child, this chapter will help you re-frame your thinking, so youll see their stubbornness as a strength to work with. And, if theyre not naturally persistent, here is a motivating collection of resources to build perseverance in young people of all ages.

22.01.2022 Don't miss out on Noni and Mark's 'WHAT'S THE BUZZ?' training day webinar on Friday 4th September. This is the first time Mark and Noni have done this together - how exciting! STAFF TRAINING PACKAGES and CERTIFICATES are available on completion. To register -https://whatsthebuzz.net.au/mai/whats-the-buzz-training-day and click on Mark and Noni Le Messurier Online 'What's the Buzz?' training registration for Friday 4th September, 2020

21.01.2022 GREAT VALUE - a FREE pair; RAISING BEAUT KIDS and PARENTING TOUGH KIDS when a copy, or copies, of my new book TEACHING VALUES of BEING HUMAN (now in 60 countries - unthinkable) is purchased. Perfect for parents, educators, for individuals and school libraries. To qualify, mention this post. Call Sharon on 8332 0698 or email her at [email protected] Be sure to leave your contact phone number to make it easy .

20.01.2022 I received this feedback about my new book from a principal I admire. While she praises the book, my wife and dearest friend, Sharon, calls TEACHING VALUES of BEING HUMAN my mistress because Ive spent so long with her. This principal wrote, Mark, I'm sending copies of your new baby to staff to have a look at and consider using it for our internal professional development. I watched the promo video #1 and almost cried; we have some terribly vulnerable kids who dont remember that they are loved. What you describe is exactly what I have been on about this year thank you, because these vulnerable kids are coming out of the woodwork at the moment (in line with the parent mental health issues too). Thanks for writing an honest book with such practical and humane responses! https://teachingvaluesofbeinghuman.com.au/webinars.html

20.01.2022 Just to keep you in the loop, our 'WHAT'S THE BUZZ?' PD webinar on Friday 4th September is 75% filled. This is an opportunity to be trained and take your training back to work to train others. STAFF TRAINING PACKAGES and CERTIFICATES are available on completion. To register -https://whatsthebuzz.net.au/mai/whats-the-buzz-training-day and click on Mark and Noni Le Messurier Online 'What's the Buzz?' training registration for Friday 4th September, 2020

20.01.2022 THE ART OF MANAGING TRICKY BEHAVIOURS and extinguishing them This audio book challenges how you think about behaviour and so-called ‘mis’ behaviour. To do this we use our ‘soft eyes’ and ‘warm hearts’ to interpret what the behaviour is attempting to communicate. Behaviours are an expression of a need, and to survive a moment, children can choose their behaviours based on a faulty logic. Wrapped in this choice is the purest of stories. Only when we are prepared to imagine what...’s going on for them, can we make a difference. This audio book also presents a 12-part guide to work with tricky behaviours. Time is given to the role of shame because it can escalate emotions fast. We need to know this and use language that does not provoke shame in our children. As well, I will touch on the delivery of negative consequences because sometimes we must hold our child accountable for a poor choice. I coach that we deliver consequences with kindness, without overexplaining or without being retaliatory. We do it with compassion because this will help your child grow into a more empathetic human. The best consequence is to support kids to repair the damage, upset or harm they have caused. Teaching them how to make amends is an invaluable life skill. Another consequence may be to lovingly pull them closer, hug them, and say, I know you’re disappointed. You made a mistake. What have you learnt from it? Staying emotionally connected allows a precious space to be built where they naturally feel a little regret and want to make changes, rather than being forced to. Available soon from... www.marklemessurier.com.au

20.01.2022 Had 15. Now have 13. I have 2 more places available! Id be delighted to do a first ever with you. My new book, 'TEACHING VALUES of BEING HUMAN' took 3 years to write and Im about to share my motivation, what its about and showcase 3 chapters. This personalised webinar is on Wednesday 15th July, 9am to 3pm with a small, tight group. The day will consist of 3 x 90-minute seminars showcasing chapters 3, 4 and 5. To register - https://teachingvaluesofbeinghuman.com.au/webinars....html TVoBH is a curriculum filled with guided conversations, practical lessons and engaging activities that link education, the mind and the heart. I hope this work will inspire educators to stimulate young people to look inside themselves, discover their identity, find happiness and self-satisfaction and equip them with skills they can use effectively in the future. It is a practical approach applied through a humane lens; using our soft eyes and warm hearts to better understand childrens development, emotion, behaviour. https://www.teachingvaluesofbeinghuman.com.au/Chapter.html

18.01.2022 Wednesday 9th September, 9am to 3pm. TEACHING VALUES of BEING HUMAN online webinar for the first 10 to register. To register - https://www.teachingvaluesofbeinghuman.com.au/webinars.html In response to my book, Leanne, a principal wrote, Mark, I'm sending copies of your new baby to staff to look at and base staff meetings on. I watched the promo video #1 on the TVoBH website and almost cried; we have some terribly vulnerable kids who really dont remember that they are lo...ved. What you describe in your book is exactly what I've been on about this year to my staff an approach that links education, the mind, the heart and hope. Thank you, because kids who don't feel valued are coming out of the woodwork at the moment (in line with the parent mental health issues too). Thanks for writing an honest book with such humane responses. The webinar will consist of 3 x 90-minute seminars using chapters 2, 7 and 8 from Teaching Values of Being Human; Chapter 2: Quick start connections - building trusting relationships Chapter 7: The ART of developing healthy communication patterns Chapter 8: Misbehaviour and humane ideas to influence positive change See more

18.01.2022 Id be delighted to do a first ever with you. My new book, 'Teaching Values of Being Human' took 3 years to write and Im about to share my motivation, what its about and showcase 3 chapters. This personalised webinar is on Wednesday 15th July, 9am to 3pm with a small, tight group. The day will consist of 3 x 90-minute seminars showcasing chapters 3, 4 and 5. To register - https://teachingvaluesofbeinghuman.com.au/webinars.html TVoBH is a curriculum filled with guided conve...rsations, practical lessons and engaging activities that link education, the mind and the heart. I hope this work will inspire educators to stimulate young people to look inside themselves, discover their identity, find happiness and self-satisfaction and equip them with skills they can use effectively in the future. It is a practical approach applied through a humane lens; using our soft eyes and warm hearts to better understand childrens development, emotion, behaviour. https://www.teachingvaluesofbeinghuman.com.au/Chapter.html

17.01.2022 Chapter 3 Stimulating self-awareness and building identity This chapter presents a collection of intriguing ideas, activities and conversations to support young people make sense of the world, their place in it, to recognise their unique character and shape into a unique identity that serves them comfortably and positively in the future.

17.01.2022 BRILLIANT LITTLE IDEAS to grow perseverance in young people Many good people who have had something to offer go to their graves frustrated by their inability to persevere. In recent years, researchers have explored the idea of what creates successful/satisfied people. Time and time again, one characteristic emerged as THE significant predictor of success/personal satisfaction. It is the ability to persevere. We now understand that kids and adults who can persevere are more li...kely to find a way to accomplish the task at hand. The research also teaches us that children can be taught to be more persistent. This audio book is bursting with a selection of sparkling conversations, ideas and activities to promote our children’s capacity to persevere. If you’ve already got a persistent child, this audio book will help you re-frame your thinking, so you’ll see their stubbornness as a strength to work with. And, if your child isn't naturally persistent, this will support you with effective ways to develop it. Either way, perseverance will no longer be a mystery.

14.01.2022 INSIGHT; Teaching Values of Being Human. My fishy story "There were two fish friends. They were swimming together in a pond when another fish slowly swims towards them. As this fish passes by, she nods and says, Good morning! Isnt the clarity of the water spectacular today? The two fish friends return the nod, smile pleasantly at her, and swim on. A little later one looks to the other and asks, What do you think? Whats water?" Just as the concept of water was less... than an emerging understanding for the two fish friends, most young people we love, nurture and teach are at the beginning of their lifelong quest to learn about themselves and the world. Here lies our responsibility. The rich potential of a quality emotional classroom, or home, environment is unrivalled because they offer young human beings a special place to grow, learn and thrive. I believe, along with growing numbers, that we must be protectors of these special spaces. See more

14.01.2022 From chapter 8 from, Teaching Values of Being Human "With the benefit of hindsight we now understand that our traditional punitive responses to children who displayed ‘mis’behaviour often amped-up their behaviour challenges. In the past, adults were taught to enter heated moments with young people carrying a sledgehammer. The moment was seen as a battle to win, yet it should have nothing to do with winning.... The truth is bringing the sledgehammer along, reinforced their patterns of toxic stress and trauma in many children. In some instances, educators and parents proved too disagreeable and pushed them away. Yet, they were hurt and unprepared for life. We had little idea at the time but know better today. And, this is why our thinking has shifted to ‘connection,’ ‘dignity’ and ‘belonging’. There’s a shift to accept children are reliant on our modelling and poise. Many rely on us to defuse situations for them." https://teachingvaluesofbeinghuman.com.au/Videos.html

12.01.2022 Limited places, to register for 'What's the Buzz?' ACCREDITATION go to https://whatsthebuzz.net.au/mai/whats-the-buzz-training-day and click on Mark and Noni Le Messurier Online 'What's the Buzz?' training registration for Friday 4th September, 2020

12.01.2022 What is 'Teaching Values of Being Human?' Let's explore the chapters and their relevance to us as educators, teachers, leaders, facilitators, school support workers, allied health professionals, parents, human beings. Chapter 1 A short guide to coach Social and Emotional Literacy (SEL)... Above all else, the chapter opens a space where conversations and activities combine to develop the big six social and emotional capabilities are legitimised; teamwork, empathy, negotiation, leadership, coaching, learning and persuasive skills. 'Guided Social Interactions' also have the capacity to refresh your group's concentration, engagement or enthusiasm when you sense its waning. They can be drawn on as ice breakers and team building exercises, to help build group cohesiveness. And, they are a perfect tool to repair the emotional fallout in class following an unpleasant incident between students.

10.01.2022 Did it! I did my first workshop ever on my new book - TEACHING VALUES of BEING HUMAN today. Oh? What a group! So diverse, so committed and all onboard. Thank you for your warmth and lovely feedback. I'll do another next month! "Thanks for today, I got some great stuff from your PD, Mark. I am working with the SSOs on Monday on the SEL programs we are starting a whole school this term, So much of the stuff from today will be really helpful." - Sam "Thanks for a great 'TEACHING... VALUES of BEING HUMAN' online workshop today. Such solid PD. Always great listening to you." - April "Hi Mark, Thank you for the most enjoyable and informative workshop I've attended for a long time. Looking forward to attending another one on more of the chapters from your new book in the future." - Natalie

10.01.2022 One dayPROFESSIONAL ONLINE TRAINING with Mark Le Messurier Wednesday 9th September, 9am to 3pm online, using ZOOM To register email: [email protected]

09.01.2022 Whats the Buzz PD Training Day with Mark and Noni Le Messurier on Zoom - Friday the 4th of September Download registrations from ... https://whats the buzz.net.au/main-menu/Whats-the-buzz-training-day

08.01.2022 This presentation by Mark Le Messurier was moved to video for Generation Next due to COVID-19 and the cancelation of live events in 2020. It is Mark and Gen Nexts way to model resiliency! The presentation focuses on Chapter 1: a short guide to teaching Social and Emotional Literacy from Marks latest book, TEACHING VALUES of BEING HUMAN (2020) teachingvaluesofbeinghuman.com.au Mark highlights the consequence of being taught how to find ones tribe because it is a necessary protective factor against isolation and loneliness. We now know a well-developed Social and Emotional capabilities carries more weight in life satisfaction than a good IQ, good grades or good looks. https://youtu.be/9rn7AHm26sw

07.01.2022 Huge '"thank you" to my teaching and counselling colleagues. What's emerging is that you're bringing my new book into schools to share with staff as part of your PD. I'm really touched and grateful about how the book is being received. "Thanks," again! https://youtu.be/aRN1KsBVD80

06.01.2022 My newest book 'Teaching Values of Being Human' is available now!

06.01.2022 Chapter 5 Nurturing emotional intelligence and resilience This chapter presents an array of practical conversations and continuing activities that enable young people to build emotional intelligence and resilient thinking. It showcases our greatest human assets; our emotions, and how to use relationship, empathy and self-regulation to raise the wellbeing of ourselves, and others.

05.01.2022 Just received this email from a leader in a school - "One of our staff recently did your 'TEACHING VALUES of BEING HUMAN' webinar and loved it! She's shared it with the staff who were all impressed and are wondering if youd be available in November to do a STAFF TRAINING DAY around 'TEACHING VALUES of BEING HUMAN'?" To register for my next webinar go to - https://www.teachingvaluesofbeinghuman.com.au/webinars.html

05.01.2022 INSIGHT; Teaching Values of Being Human. From chapter 3 Stimulating self-awareness and building self-identity in young people. "Once upon a time, not that long ago, there was no formal education to strengthen the concept of self-awareness and personal identity. Strangely one of the greatest capacities in life the skill to learn about yourself and discover how you fit into the world was not taught. Today its slowly taking a rightful place in the curriculum (and in classrooms) where teachers are beginning to teach young people to discover who they are and who they can become. Moreover, as adults working with young people, in any capacity, there is much we can be doing with our kids to grow life-sustaining capacities."

04.01.2022 How blessed am I to share my first 'What's the Buzz?' PD TRAINING DAY with Noni Le Messurier Online using ZOOM - Friday 4th September, 2020? Some of you may not know about the community of adolescents, young and old, Noni has quietly built over the years. She has taken 'What's the Buzz?' beyond the original dream and is living it every week with so many! Download registration from this link ... https://whatsthebuzz.net.au/mai/whats-the-buzz-training-day

03.01.2022 Chapter 2 Quick start connections building trusting relationships This chapter contains an assortment of ideas, activities and guided conversations to confidently build relationship with students, and between students themselves.

03.01.2022 Have you seen our Whatss the Buzz Training Day dates for next year with Mark and Noni? Friday 12th March Friday 23rd April Friday 16th July... Friday 3rd September Visit www.whatsthebuzz.net.au/main-me/whats-the-buzz-training-day

03.01.2022 TEACHING THE VALUE OF CONNECTION As human beings we are wired to belong. And, from an evolutionary perspective, if you didnt belong to community you did not survive. Today its different. Today, if you dont belong to community family, extended family, classroom, school, clubs, associations or special interest groups the risk of mental health challenges are high. But, building community starts with us. It starts with our effort to build the skills and confidence in your yo...ung. We need to culturize our homes, classrooms and schools so community has a reverence. The benefit of a connected community goes like this. A teacher brought enough balloons to school for every child in her class. Then she asked the children to blow them up and write their name on their balloon. They threw all the balloons into the gym and the teacher thoroughly mixed them up. Next, the teacher gave them 5 minutes to find the balloon with their name on it. It was chaos. The children ran around, looking frantically and time ran out. Only a few had found their own balloon.Then, the teacher explained what community means. It means we work together supporting helping and looking out for each other. She suggested that this time, when they start again, that each student picks up the balloon closest to them and walks it it to the person whos name is on it. In less than 2 minutes everyone was standing still and holding their own balloon.The teacher smiled and said, You just did community. Happiness, friendship, even the promises we set our self, is always improved by working together. https://www.teachingvaluesofbeinghuman.com.au/

03.01.2022 EVERYDAY IDEAS to build healthy, resilient young people The term resilience is used to describe a person’s capacity to cope with change or challenge, and to bounce back with vigour and optimism. Resiliency is such a prized quality as it positions us for the inevitable hiccups, tests and disasters that await us in the future. We now understand that resilience is not a trait that a few lucky ones are born with. It involves behaviours, thoughts and actions that are gradually lea...rned and developed. This audio book presents a collection of resilience builders, known as the 10-C’s; can-do attitude, confidence, connections, capacity to change, contributing to others, core values, controlling what you can, communication, composed parenting and common sense. The 10-C’s position parents to become the best resilience coach for their children. While these are critical ideas to work with, most critical is how a parent models their own resilience to their children on an everyday basis. Oh yes! Our children watch us and learn. Family is the place children and teens gain their resilience and they are dependent on us to know how to invest in them. Isn’t it ironic that our children’s resilience hinges on us, what we model and how we coach, for the first 20 years of their lives? Available soon from... www.marklemessurier.com.au